How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?

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We dont sulk. We are highly expressive people & will not want to suffer in silence (not in the office, not in school & definitely not at home). If a tiff occur, both will want to talk so much to view out the difference in opinion. Ever there's a time that he tried giving me a cold shoulder as the difference in opinion just can't get it resolve even after all the discussions and bickering. I'm not the type to nag nor am I the type who is impatience. BUT when I want to talk, he got to listen not with that blank expression face. I just will go NUTS. He tried to sleep it off but I will make sure I sit right in front of him & make sure he wakes up to listen.

[quote]DH will sulk & give silent treatment. He's the type who never apologise even if he's wrong (from my perspective).

I cannot tahan unpleasant feelings so always ended up prompting him to unzip his mouth. He still doesn't say sorry even though he realises his stubborness but I can tell from his body language that he thinks I am right (AGAIN, as usual)

Men & their ego [/quote]Oppsss.... so far, 95% it's always him who apologizes. 5% will be from me if I'm forced or coerced.


[quote]This is why some of my friends advise, if there
ever is a dispute or an issue to settle with the
other half, settle it on the bed. [/quote]I rather settle it before lying down on the bed. Cause, if the issue is not finish, I will still be :nunchuk: . I dont care if it is the bed or toilet or bedroom or living room. I will just be right behind his back until he back off.

[buds hubs]

RRMummy:

Kena 'caning' or 'drowning' for being notti??!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hmmm... I wonder what was used as the 'cane\"?? :? :rotflmao:

Anyway, buds is right.. there is nothing better than \"Make-Up Sex\"..

Maybe thats why we get involved in mini quarrels from time to time.. .. only to be engaged in some actions after that! :lol:

[RRMummy]

buds hubs:

RRMummy:

Kena 'caning' or 'drowning' for being notti??!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hmmm... I wonder what was used as the 'cane\"?? :? :rotflmao:

Hey bro, 'act' blur huh?!

[buds hubs]

RRMummy:

Hey bro, 'act' blur huh?!

I really dunno leh!! I very \"DECENT\" type you know!! :oops:

[ChiefKiasu]

buds hubs:

RRMummy:

Hey bro, 'act' blur huh?!

I really dunno leh!! I very \"DECENT\" type you know!! :oops:

Yeah. Right. :rotflmao:

[buds hubs]

MLR:

I belong to the MUST RESOLVE b4 going to bed type.

I share the same view as you!!. :salute:

I also believe in resolving whatever \"issues\" before going to bed. There is no point losing sleep over such matters..

As buds has mentioned earlier, after resolving such issues it usually will lead to something else.

[buds hubs]

sleepy:

DH will sulk & give silent treatment. He's the type who never apologise even if he's wrong (from my perspective).


I cannot tahan unpleasant feelings so always ended up prompting him to unzip his mouth. He still doesn't say sorry even though he realises his stubborness but I can tell from his body language that he thinks I am right (AGAIN, as usual)

Men & their ego :roll:

Hahaha.. I must admit that sometimes, I also \"TRY\" to sulk & give the silent treatment :roll: However, it doesnt work on buds. :stupid:

Unlike your DH, I would be the one who initiates the peace settlement :xedfingers: (most of the times)...

Cant stand being at war for too long..

So its not entirely true that ALL \"men\" are MCP... :celebrate:

[MLR]

buds hubs:

I really dunno leh!! I very \"DECENT\" type you know!! :oops:

This comment made me choke on my morning tea and now kena tea stains on my white polo T.... will send laundry bill to you.....

[RRMummy]

buds hubs:

RRMummy:

Hey bro, 'act' blur huh?!

I really dunno leh!! I very \"DECENT\" type you know!! :oops:

You? \"DECENT\"? my foot ah!!

CHief got smiley of smelly foot or not? Can use one here..

:celebrate:

[buds hubs]

MLR:

buds hubs:

I really dunno leh!! I very \"DECENT\" type you know!! :oops:

This comment made me choke on my morning tea and now kena tea stains on my white polo T.... will send laundry bill to you.....

Huh?? I'm to be blamed for the tea stains?? You wanna send the laundry bill
to me??... What did I do man?? Its an \"HONEST\" comment what.. :evil:

If you & RRMummy dont belive me.... Can go and ask buds..