In-law problems?

[RRMummy]

3Boys:

Teach them some biology, son or daughter depends on their DS's swimmers.....

No use, the retort - DIL 'stomach' bu zhen qi (sorry if wrong - poor HYPY)!! It's our fault that we are not 'condusive' enough to allow their precious 'swimmers' and therefore... :stupid:

[winth]

RRMummy:

No use, the retort - DIL 'stomach' bu zhen ji (sorry poor HYPY)!! It's our fault that we are not 'condusive' enough and therefore... :stupid:

Ya... cousin-in-law also kanna something like this when she got her 2nd daughter. And she wanna stop at 2. For me, maybe might go for third one. Dunno yet.

Me and cousin-in-law usually compared by both our MILs, lucky I got 2 sons. So didn't get that kind of look when they compare about gender of children.

Next year onwards very stressed, both our first borns going into P1 next year, sure kanna compared liao.

[3Boys]

RRMummy:

3Boys:

Teach them some biology, son or daughter depends on their DS's swimmers.....

No use, the retort - DIL 'stomach' bu zhen qi (sorry if wrong - poor HYPY)!! It's our fault that we are not 'condusive' enough to allow their precious 'swimmers' and therefore... :stupid:

Haiz, no win situation. Easier to blame DIL than precious DS, but at least plant seed of doubt, hopefully soften the critique.

[RRMummy]

3Boys:

RRMummy:

[quote=\"3Boys\"]Teach them some biology, son or daughter depends on their DS's swimmers.....

No use, the retort - DIL 'stomach' bu zhen qi (sorry if wrong - poor HYPY)!! It's our fault that we are not 'condusive' enough to allow their precious 'swimmers' and therefore... :stupid:

Haiz, no win situation. Easier to blame DIL than precious DS, but at least plant seed of doubt, hopefully soften the critique.[/quote]3Boys ah, ya I wish..but since my confinement for DD2 till now she is still asking for #3... to get boy.. :faint:

Just glad DH not so seow! :love:

[krazy]

oh.. i got that too.


i am known as the evil woman who killed their bloodline.

[ChiefKiasu]

krazy:

oh.. i got that too.


i am known as the evil woman who killed their bloodline.

Goodness... this kind of thinking still exists?

[krazy]

ChiefKiasu:

Goodness... this kind of thinking still exists?

oh yes, yes.

ils told my mum to tell me to give them a grandson or they will be heir-less.

what's this thing about \"name\"... if they dont think their granddaughter is good enough, i can gladly let her take on my name. hehe

[Shera]

3Boys:

carin004:

[quote=\"winth\"]
wow... speechless...

My MIL said that to me even before DD is born

Teach them some biology, son or daughter depends on their DS's swimmers.....[/quote]This is what I told my PIL too but my FIL :x

[kylene]

hmmm, I 've got a son but my inlaws still don’t treat me well haha. so I often tell myself, thank goodness it a boy, if it was a girl (actually i was hoping for a girl), don’t know what they’ll do!


I don’t stay with myinlaws but there’re lots of conflicts as well.

during confinement, my mom would bring me confinement food everyday. My MIL was not happy that my parents came to visit, and said, " actually confinement no need to eat confinement food…". hello, if they could come everyday, why can’t my parents??

I was soft-spoken before the child but after the child was born, I learnt to be out-spoken so as to protect him. PIL initially refused to let me breastfeed , lucky i persisted and my hubs also supported. my hubs is a doctor and told them bf is better but they didn’t believe their own son!

[smurf]

RRMummy:

3Boys:

Teach them some biology, son or daughter depends on their DS's swimmers.....

No use, the retort - DIL 'stomach' bu zhen qi (sorry if wrong - poor HYPY)!! It's our fault that we are not 'condusive' enough to allow their precious 'swimmers' and therefore... :stupid:

wow...got such thing? my late MIL actually preferred granddaughter than boy.or maybe she didn't even like kids.