At what age yr child should start dating?

[buds]

Chenonceau:

As a parent, I wanna be there to advise and I want DD to be able to trust and confide in me SO THAT I can advise. For this to happen, I had to bite my tongue and shut up more times than I can count.... wait for enough evidence... wait for enough facts.

Chenonceau oh Chenonceau.. how i adore :please: your writings.. Sigh. :love:

You remind me soo much of daddie.. yes my father. :love:

Mumsie and i were NEVER close precisely cos she shuts me out most times..
if not all times. I was never able to discuss feeling issues with her
for she was the salty-tongued-mom yah always in awesome pride with
her salt eating days and she never gave me a chance to share the whole
story... sometimes not even a quarter story... before she dived in and super
drilled me with her endless accusations, naggings and yes screamings.

But i guess God compensated that with my daddie who was there for me
whether i triumphed or fell.. he'd be there. If i succeeded in anything he
was there cheering me on.. i never recall him missing any one of my sch
sports meets since i started kindergarten.. and if i so much as fell and at
times i somehow knew he let me fall intentionally but not without purpose,
he'd still be there for me.. comforting me and telling me that he knew i'd
make better choices the next time for after how i fell... i knew what falling
meant and how hurting falling felt like...

He wasn't intrusive but yet distantly observing.. and yes, holding that tongue
definitely... as i rebelled my way thru school.. and he was still there for me..
His open communication styled parenting allowed me in... anytime... be it
a
heart to heart talk.. a cuddle.. or a comfort sob.

Like you, he'd go..\"It is my daughter you know..\"

My hubs would add... \"Yah, and an only daughter too! Star child!\" :politebleah:

My quip-back.. eeeaaasssy.. \"Sour grapes.\"

Well back to the topic.. while daddie's open parenting ways were kinda
almost unheard of during my days where parents raised children with the
rod and very much daddie sorta took the road less travelled with all of us..
But i would love to travel that same road he did with my own daughters, for
i want them to know that like my daddie, i'm always here for them in
good times and bad.. in happiness and sads.. and that no matter what..
they are MY daughters.. you know?

[markfch]

buds:

But i would love to travel that same road he did with my own daughters, for i want them to know that like my daddie, i'm always here for them in good times and bad.. in happiness and sads.. and that no matter what.. they are MY daughters.. you know?

So touching ..... I'm almost moved to tears :love:

[vlim]

markfch:

buds:

But i would love to travel that same road he did with my own daughters, for i want them to know that like my daddie, i'm always here for them in good times and bad.. in happiness and sads.. and that no matter what.. they are MY daughters.. you know?

So touching ..... I'm almost moved to tears :love:

me too :grphug: :goodpost:

[Chenonceau]

buds:

But i would love to travel that same road he did with my own daughters, for i want them to know that like my daddie, i'm always here for them in
good times and bad.. in happiness and sads.. and that no matter what..
they are MY daughters.. you know?

Me three!! :love:

Me and my garden shears.

[ChiefKiasu]

Chenonceau:

... Me and my garden shears.

:!: remind me to maintain at least 5 car lengths between me and you always, Chenonceau.

[Chenonceau]

ChiefKiasu:

Chenonceau:

... Me and my garden shears.

:!: remind me to maintain at least 5 car lengths between me and you always, Chenonceau.

:rubhands:

But you dun have to worry lah... you're not dating my daughter. Besides, I need kiasupoints.

[markfch]

Chenonceau:

ChiefKiasu:

[quote=\"Chenonceau\"]... Me and my garden shears.

:!: remind me to maintain at least 5 car lengths between me and you always, Chenonceau.

:rubhands:

But you dun have to worry lah... you're not dating my daughter. Besides, I need kiasupoints.[/quote] :rotflmao: so farnie ....

Don't worry lah, CKS is busy revamping KSP where got time to be cradle snatcher ......

[buds]

Chenonceau:

buds:

But i would love to travel that same road he did with my own daughters, for i want them to know that like my daddie, i'm always here for them in good times and bad.. in happiness and sads.. and that no matter what.. they are MY daughters.. you know?

Me three!! :love:

Me and my garden shears.

:rotflmao:

I'm a daddie's girl lar, Chenonceau.
But i dun recall any shears.. ... aah ... cos we got no garden? :lol:
But i do know he did still keep some blunt garden scissors... dunno why.. :?

[buds]

ChiefKiasu:

Chenonceau:

... Me and my garden shears.

:!: remind me to maintain at least 5 car lengths between me and you always, Chenonceau.

Far enough anot? :lol:

You didn't ask how big her garden was leh?
Skali giant shears leh? :lol:

[buds]

Chenonceau:

ChiefKiasu:

[quote=\"Chenonceau\"]... Me and my garden shears.

:!: remind me to maintain at least 5 car lengths between me and you always, Chenonceau.

:rubhands:

But you dun have to worry lah... you're not dating my daughter. Besides, I need kiasupoints.[/quote]I lurve how apt the :rubhands: came in! :laugh:

Kiasupoints? Oh yaa... so now now.. Chenonceau.. be nice now aye? :evil: