School Teachers Working as Tutors

[snoopy]

My teacher friend told me she charges $50/hr for primary sch…As for secondary level, I guess it is even higher?? She also mentioned that the lowest she goes is $45/hr. However, the tutor I engaged currently charges $40/hr. He’s a teacher but I find his teaching so-so. I agree totally with what you gals/guys mentioned, the parent plays the most impt role. I personally feel my kid learns more under my daily coaching!!! I am a FTWM and I do feel drained everyday but I force myself to cover his sch work daily…stress and tired. End up screaming every night…

[ridcully]

My two cents worth:-


I think we need to distinguish between a parent as a source of emotional support and as a transmitter of knowledge.

In reality, some parents simply cannot teach. This could be for a variety of reasons: not up to date with the syllabus, lack of real understanding of subject matter, too tired after working all day, impatient with perceived lack of progress of the child etc.

At a deeper level, there is the issue of interpersonal dynamics: A child looks to his parent for unconditional comfort and approval. The parent hopefully provides a haven of safety away from the daily grind of school and school work. Imagine then if the parent takes on the role of ‘teacher’ and projects, or seemingly projects, approval only when the child does well in his studies. Even worse: What if the parent, through ignorance, tiredness or frustration, berates the child for not performing well? Some parents get too wrapped up in what they expect of their children in academic studies that they risk spoiling that special emotional bonding. Indeed, some parents live vicariously through their child’s achievements.

Sometimes, it is better to outsource and let a tutor take over. This is not to say that a parent should not oversee what is going on. In addition, a parent should always role-model reading and being intellectually curious and honest.

As to choosing a private tutor, it is of course preferable to go by personal recommendation. However, a tutor who works well with one child might not work so well with another - down to interpersonal dynamics again. Perhaps parents should enrol in their children in tuition centres and get to know a tutor. If the tutor is good, parents can always approach the tutor and enquire whether the tutor would consider private lessons. I see no ethical conflict here; the ethical conflict is only when the tuition centre tutor approaches the parents for private lessons.

Rgds
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[MMM]

Daniel Sim:

Nobody can teach your child better than you! If you can spare the time, your one hour of quality time with your child equals many hours that of a tutor.

For us, kids go to enrichment classes. We do have a school teacher coming in for science. These are in addition to us spending at least 2 hours daily with the kids in the evening on weekdays. We choose to outsource because due to resource constraint, we feel that others are able to do the job better than us.

i realised that there is only so much we can do in the evening. Sometimes the kids might need help with school work, or we need to give them spelling,etc.... there is only so much time we've and there is nothing additional we can do. It come to a point whereby during CA1, I realised that we can only afford to revise 1 week plus before the exams.

Even with kids having tuition/ enrichment classes, it does not stop there. Parents still need to follow up after that. So it's not totally outsource.

The situation is worsen with the no. of kids one has.

[meiah]

babycutie71:

Any idea what is the market rate for tutor who is current school teacher?

Usually $40 to $60 per hour. But if it's $40/hr, they may not want to take 1.5hrs.

[babycutie71]

snoopy:

My teacher friend told me she charges $50/hr for primary sch...As for secondary level, I guess it is even higher?? She also mentioned that the lowest she goes is $45/hr. However, the tutor I engaged currently charges $40/hr. He's a teacher but I find his teaching so-so. I agree totally with what you gals/guys mentioned, the parent plays the most impt role. I personally feel my kid learns more under my daily coaching!!! I am a FTWM and I do feel drained everyday but I force myself to cover his sch work daily.....stress and tired. End up screaming every night.....

That is exactly what is happening to me. I am a FTWM. And every night on weekday (Mon - Fri). From 7.30 - 9pm, I am a part time tutor teaching my girl on her daily school homeworks + enrichment assignments. Like you, screaming every night.......


Hence, I decided to outsource........ There is a school teacher charging $50/hr. Initially she quoted $75/1.5hr session. But I find that her rates is too steep hence negotiated to $50/hr to teach English only. She will provide all learning materials. Will be starting tuition with her next month. Yet to see how is her teaching skills.

Do you know which school your current tutor teaching in? The tutor that I am engaging teaches in a Boys school near town.

[snoopy]

We are quite similar !!! :lol: My \"study time\" with my boy is from 730-9pm daily! My tutor is from a neighbourhood school. I scream at my boy because he makes the same silly mistakes over and over again.... :x If I don't exert pressure on him, he doesn't bother to register it in his head! If your tutor is good, do recommend to me! I am actually looking for someone to coach my kid in eng, esp compo writing/creative writing & comprehension.

[babycutie71]

meiah:

babycutie71:

Any idea what is the market rate for tutor who is current school teacher?

Usually $40 to $60 per hour. But if it's $40/hr, they may not want to take 1.5hrs.

I was told by the teacher that market rate for current teacher is $50 - 60/hr.

[babycutie71]

snoopy:

We are quite similar !!! :lol: My \"study time\" with my boy is from 730-9pm daily! My tutor is from a neighbourhood school. I scream at my boy because he makes the same silly mistakes over and over again.... :x If I don't exert pressure on him, he doesn't bother to register it in his head! If your tutor is good, do recommend to me! I am actually looking for someone to coach my kid in eng, esp compo writing/creative writing & comprehension.

Ok. I will monitor the tutor and let u know if she is good.

[lostlostmom]

Hi babycutie71,


How’s the tutor? What is her approach in coaching your child for Compo and compre? Does she goes to your house?

[doratheexplorer]

i was going through this thread and thought of pouring my worries and concern for my son. I am a ftwm and once i come back home i got to prepare dinner for my family and by the time i wash up and settle their dinners its almost 9pm. My son is P1 morning session and has to wake up at 6.20am, not an ez task so i feel lost, when and where to start teaching him when i don even have the time to change my clothes or even sit down to drink or let alone talk to my kids abt their sch happenings. I feel awful that i have not been communicating to them already and i think my son's sch work and test results have not be even good to speak. :imdrowning: what do i do. now i am thinking of doing up a timetable like a project management sort. eg subtraction chap revise from feb 3 to feb 20. 21 feb test.....has any1 done this kind of timetable before, can help give me a sample to follow.