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    • M Offline
      marmum
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      Any idea if the new rule applies to getting replacement maid?

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        Littlefly
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        micollh, thanks for sharing. 😎


        I did not think of it when maid arrives. Do you check your maid’s belongings from time to time ? So far, i only checked her belongings once when she first arrived.

        Btw, do you buy toiletries for her or deduct from her later or you would have to accompany her for all her purchases ? Your maid don’t have any off days too ?

        Did you keep a joint saving account with her ?

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          gumiho
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          clk:
          gumiho:

          [quote=\"darling_sunshine\"]

          So it's all a lie when they say experienced. Some more had to pay higher salary for their experience yet can't perform. To them, eye-power children is same as look after children. Asked her look after my toddler, she really just 'looked' lor. My toddler happily chewing gor gor's crayons, she still 'looking' until i quickly shouted at my kid. Then grab the mouth to dig out all the small chewed crayons. Questioned maid, still can smile at me and say never see. FAINT!! :stupid:

          Sometime I'm wondering whether they really cannot see what is happening or they simply turn a blind eyes. All maids are the same.

          Too good life there so can't stand my family which need to cook for 6 persons plus herself, need to hand wash due to my 2 boys too dirty after schooling...See lah, you think they came here to play of work!!
          😢[/quote]Understand those maids who had worked for ANG MOH are not suitable to work for local.
          To them working for local is hardship but working for ANG MOH is good life.

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            gumiho
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            clk:
            gumiho:

            [quote=\"darling_sunshine\"]

            So it's all a lie when they say experienced. Some more had to pay higher salary for their experience yet can't perform. To them, eye-power children is same as look after children. Asked her look after my toddler, she really just 'looked' lor. My toddler happily chewing gor gor's crayons, she still 'looking' until i quickly shouted at my kid. Then grab the mouth to dig out all the small chewed crayons. Questioned maid, still can smile at me and say never see. FAINT!! :stupid:

            Sometime I'm wondering whether they really cannot see what is happening or they simply turn a blind eyes. All maids are the same.

            Too good life there so can't stand my family which need to cook for 6 persons plus herself, need to hand wash due to my 2 boys too dirty after schooling...See lah, you think they came here to play of work!!
            😢[/quote]Understand those maids who had worked for ANG MOH are not suitable to work for local.
            To them working for local is hardship but working for ANG MOH is good life.

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              limbeesiang
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              tamarind:
              Title: Maid hitting baby


              I have added a new maid in my blog, and included a short video of her hitting a baby 😞

              Make sure you check out my blog :

              http://singaporemaidcomments.blogspot.com/2008/08/evangeline-panganiban-enopia-filipino.html

              This maid has not been blacklisted. You may end up employing her ! So please take note of her particulars if you are planning to employ a new maid. My blog also includes a list of other maids to avoid.
              Good suggestion, thanks!

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                clk
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                Huh! I had just interview another maid who employer is Ang mo, wife is Africa, 2 boys heard very active n naughty, asked her leave becos she can’t stand maid’s English too poor, work there 3 mths Liao. Now see u said they work with Ang mo very gd life, like tat I Ma die again? Cos I had start application Liao… Hope tis round dun be so "Suew"!pray hard man!

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                  micollh
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                  Littlefly:
                  micollh, thanks for sharing. 😎


                  I did not think of it when maid arrives. Do you check your maid's belongings from time to time ? So far, i only checked her belongings once when she first arrived.

                  Btw, do you buy toiletries for her or deduct from her later or you would have to accompany her for all her purchases ? Your maid don't have any off days too ?

                  Did you keep a joint saving account with her ?
                  i check when i feel i suspect something.. occassionally i will open her wardrobe to see if things are neat (when she is not around, like at the kitchen) if i find things missing, like few weeks back one of the kitchen small knife was missing then i worried la,, so i check her stuff lor, in case she keep it mah..(maybe i thk too much, but better be safe than sorry lor). but din find anything la. (we suspect she throw it together with the rubbish, she sometimes blur also)

                  i will provide al her toiletries, including deoderant, not much money involved, so is ok, when u r nice to them, they are more willing to serve us better , my opinion. but i decide on brand and all, she jst take whatever i give. no off day, no public holidays. quite poor thing but no choice.

                  no, i did not open an account for my maids, as i feel, if they want to go back all the sudden, i wont have problem giving them their money immediately. all her money was kept with me in my study room cupboard.

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                    micollh
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                    LKVM:
                    she gets more than 8 hrs of sleep which sometimes I too dont get 😛

                    exactly, i look after my baby at night, get up few times until now he is 13 months-old then better. but my maid can sleep through.. also 8 hours. wonder who is more tired sometimes.. haaa..

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                      jtoh
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                      Maids who have the intention of stealing don’t keep stolen items in their posession. They pass it off to the neighbours’ maids for safekeeping. They pass things through windows, through facing kitchens, back doors etc. So don’t think that even if you don’t let your maid out of the house she has no way of passing items around.

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                        jtoh
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                        LKVM:
                        clk:

                        Huh! I had just interview another maid who employer is Ang mo, wife is Africa, 2 boys heard very active n naughty, asked her leave becos she can't stand maid's English too poor, work there 3 mths Liao. Now see u said they work with Ang mo very gd life, like tat I Ma die again? Cos I had start application Liao.... Hope tis round dun be so \"Suew\"!pray hard man!


                        Some-more most of the AngMo wives are SAHM dunno how they tahan them when they cannot tahan FTWM :shock:

                        Some of these angmo wives don't stay at home. So the house is pretty much left to the maids to take care of the kids. I see maids bringing angmo kids to the swimming pool and read newspapers and chat while their charges are playing in the water.

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