How do you spend your weekends?
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Pan8888:
Our Sunday dinner is alway family time with FIL, and BIL's fam. unless once a while we can't make it (eg meeting up with friends), den it's off. it has become a norm to us. usually we meet up with friends on sat or weekday nites. if kids got work not finished, we either bring the work there to do or go home earlier. i think it's good family bonding time esp for the kids.Just wondering how do you spend your weekends and holidays?
with your spouse and kids only?
with in-laws , relatives , friends etc...
Is it normal that your in-laws (mil/ fil/sil/bil etc....) or your own slibings to be join in your family activities every Sat & Sun?
Are you neglecting others if you are spend every weekends with the same group of people?
As a working parent sometimes I find it very hard to juggle between parents /in-laws / slibings / friends / kids's schoolwork.
My in-laws constantly want to join us every weekend that left me no time to rest and my kids not much time to do their schoolwork.
Are they being selfish? -
Our weekends are filled with ferrying kids for enrichment classes and CCAs.
We also take to playing badminton on saturday evening with my hubby’s siblings and bils. So effectively our evening are with them but it’s good as we exercise together. Once a month, we would have a family gathering at our place since pils stay with us.
On sunday, it’s more with my parents in the noon as kids have enrichment classes near their house.
When exams are round the corner, sunday night also need to be allocated for studying. -
My kids still do not have much homework. Will get them to finish whatever homework they have on Friday night.
Saturday is golf day for DH. I will send the kids for their enrichment and thereafter run my errands, groceries, banking, etc. Pick kids up from their class, have lunch, head home, put away the groceries while the kids practise their piano and learn whatever spelling or tingxie they have. Late afternoon, we will head to my parents place and stay there till after dinner.
Sundays, swimming lessons for them in the morning. Sometimes we will meet up with my friends who have kids the same age group as mine. Other times we will bring them cyling or roller blading, whatever catches our fancy. Once in a while, PILs will want to come over so when PILs come over, I usually find something to do, like bake (you know need to relieve stress
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So still quite leisurely for now. -
We have enrichment class on both Sat & Sunday (morning to afternoon)
So most of the time we will head back home to rest and let the kids to finish whatever homework and after that dinner at PIL house (every wkend)
Sometimes we will go outing with my owm parent or sliblings.
What boil me up :x is that no matter where we go or if I bring kids out alone without DH.
My mil or DH will insist that I need to rush back to have dinner with them. So I have to end everthing at 6pm.
After dinner, me and my kids will have to stay until 10pm in order to entertain them and let my kids played with sil kids.
Or sometimes, sil will come up with programme after dinner that we have to join in too. (after a wholeday outside and poor kids didn't take their bath) :stupid:
Mostly my mil or sil planned programme without my consent that we have to go after my kids classes. Really think they are lunatic :x
Show no respect for others.
Especially mil and sil think that I'm also free to go as and when they decided.
* ps: I'm a working parent who need to fetch kids everyday that got no time to do housework.
Sil is wrking too but got maid and her kids r small, so plenty of time to play.
Now I pray hard
that sil and mil got their own friends to go out. Stop sticking to us like glue everyweek.
And DH will understand my feeling too. (put me and kids infront of others first) :?:
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Hi,
Just to share my typical weekends.
I am a Sahm, situation much better than Ftwm in this aspect.
I try to schedule visiting of In-Laws during the weekdays as we stay quite near to their place. Our usual schedule is one weekday visit after the children dismiss from school and one Saturday dinner.
Saturday morning is outing day (eg brunch/lunching out), afternoon let the child catch up on his outstanding work and evening dinner with In Laws and 'Games Night' (we play board games after dinner or child plays chess with grandparents).
Sundays morning, we will do some revision then leave for enrichment classes. After fetching my children from enrichment class, I will hang out at my mum's place while my husband chill out at the Ya Kun nearby or do some shopping (yes, he loves to shop to destress
). I'll try to schedule visiting my mum on weekdays too as and when my husband is convenient to fetch us so as to free up Sundays. -
Week-ends are busy! The kids have music, football, swimming on the week-ends. We also have cellgroup meetings on Sat evenings and we head for church on Sunday mornings. Fortunately, most of these activities are near our home so we don’t have to spend all our time criss-crossing the island. We are often able to spend pockets of time resting at home. No homework etc. we just let the kids play.
As my mum and in laws come round to our place during the week, we aren’t obliged to meet up with them over the weekend. My parents used to try to get us to go back, but after countless times of me rejecting them (bad daughter!), they have given up asking! DH works really long hours, and we only have the week-ends as a family, so I don’t really want to spend it with my parents, especially since we already see my mum several times a week.
We always eat out. I used to cook over the week-ends, but DH would rather spend time with me than have me slaving in the kitchen. Or maybe it’s a hint that he doesn’t like my cooking!!! -
currently for me, kids and i will go to my sis’s house for dinner on sat nite (to spend time with both my sisters and honestly i want to take a break from cooking and washing up).
sat and sun are free days for us except for ds who has chinese tuition at home on sat afternoon. but as dd has lots of homework, project, she prefers to stay at home and do them cum chat with her friends (london and local) on the internet.
ds will spread out his homework over the 2 days and he likes to swim and play with his toys. both my kids dont really like to go out that much.
if dh is around, he would prefer to stay at home too to relax and maybe pick a quarrel or two with dd (he’s neat and she’s messy accoding to their own standard).
sometimes we will meet friends but most of the time, we perfer to be on our own and be lazy. we can stay indoor for the whole 2 days and loving it. -
My weekend is also filled with enrichment class... Sat piano in afternoon and swimming in evening. After dinner with friends as our kids are learning swimming together. Sun morning will be Chinese enrichment class follow by English... Evening will be back to my in-law place for dinner. As my own parent will visit us sometime in the weekday evening and cook for us, so don't have to go back liao.
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My weekend is spent staying at home to rest and relax.At times, if not too tired, will try to dish out some nice meal.
Rgds
Leanne -
Our Saturdays are spent either bringing my boy for swimming in the morning and then lunch outside, or just head out to the shopping centre for lunch, play at the indoor playground and then come back home!
Saturday evenings will drive out to tah-pau dinner and then eat at home.
Sunday mornings I will head out to church early in the morning and buy lunch back for everybody else. I would love to bring my boy to church when he is older. Hubby would go buy the week's groceries while I am out in the morning and then we all have lunch together. Sometimes my PILs will invite us for lunch or we would visit them in the evening for dinner.
As for my own parents, visit is only about once a month for my boy and hubby and about twice by myself mostly to check on my dad and make sure my mum and the maid are ok. We will also meet with my niece & nephew at my parent's place when we visit.
So far no weekend enrichment nor much homework for my boy, nor much relative obligations hence our weekends are quite free!
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