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[micollh]

DesertWind:

Yes, you are indeed hardworking and I am just not the type! But still I will make breakfast and bath my boy during the weekends when no need to rush for work. It is true if one don't make effort at all to do anything for the kids, we will be missing a lot!
:celebrate:

Thanks. i don't consider myself hardworking la.. jst try to be a better mother lor..feel guilty cos already cant spend much time with my kids when working. yes, we try our best

[Xuan2112]

what to do… we living in a stressful world…

no work = no money = living problem

[micollh]

as working mum, how many child most of u have? for me, i would thk 2 is max… as looking after them is really not easy. if 3, will be too handful. and wont have that much attention to all ? ur say?

[micollh]

LKVM:

I have 2 but always dream to have 3... hubby has cannot so guess closed shop liao... i think 3 can still handle

actually, if the two is bigger already, more independent, can have one more. but u have to start all over again. think of it already \"pa pa\"

[Mrsbongz]

starlight1968sg:

Thanks all the mums who have shared.

Wonder how husbands can help out in this area besides eating?

Lol.. mine does the washing up.. so I don mind...

[micollh]

LKVM:

Yes thats one problem if there the difference between 2 kids is more... for us its 4 yrs so I guess if its 4 its neither too late or too early... the only problem will be between the 1st and 3rd will be 8 yrs :roll:

agree.. age gap also a concern here. forget it ba.. haaa

[tigger88]

micollh:

as working mum, how many child most of u have? for me, i would thk 2 is max.. as looking after them is really not easy. if 3, will be too handful. and wont have that much attention to all ? ur say?

I have 3 and have always hoping to have 4. Their age gap is 2 years apart; the eldest one is 6. I try to spend time with each of them individually. I have a maid but sometimes when we go out on weekends, my maid will stay home. DH and I do not want to rely too much on the maid and try to be more hands-on.

[Funz]

I have 2 kids but would love to have another. Not happening though. I am not so much concern about the age gaps of the kids, my oldest will be 8 this year, but more of MY AGE .

[tigger88]

yup, 4 kids can be a handful but i guess mentally i am prepared for it.

[micollh]

tigger88:

I have 3 and have always hoping to have 4. Their age gap is 2 years apart; the eldest one is 6. I try to spend time with each of them individually. I have a maid but sometimes when we go out on weekends, my maid will stay home. DH and I do not want to rely too much on the maid and try to be more hands-on.

wow.. i really \"pei fu pei fu\".. how u handle? i always feel 3 or 4 is ideal before i was married and have kids. but when it's my turn, i feel 2 is ENOUGH. haa. cos really a handful lor.. how to handle 3 . 4 ? i guess im not that tough ba. like our mums, my mum has 3, they can handle the kids, housework, all sui sui.. and never complaint. but maybe the nature of our work now cannot compare apple to apple also.

but, if you feel u can do it and ur age range is safe, go ahead ! cos more kids will be merrier during festive season gathering. so happy ! next time mine will be only few people, jst like my husband side, his brother not married yet, so only my side have kids.. the rest all adult.. boring..