MY NEW LIFE - WIDOW

[dolphinsiah]

Became a Widow , after hubby lost his battle with CHEMO ....not Cancer.... 3 months ago


I still think Chemo kill him.... :stupid:

Till today , I still cannot accept that I am a WIDOW.... :scratchhead:

To me Widows are supposed to be old ...in their 70s or 80s surrounded by grown up children and grandchildren....
Grey hair , Long sighted....

I do not belong to this Group.....is it just a BAD Dream....???

But the truth is it is not a BAD Dream....

I now have to lead a NEW LIFE as Widow.... :shock:

For the last few months , I tried to face the society with my new identiy...
I see a lot of human side....Bad and Good :!:
There are people who will avoid me...thinking ...I am now in fiance difficulty.... :moneyflies:

Do not like this new Widow Role...... This new role has forced me to :
a)Refresh my Driving skills after 8 years....of always being the passenger... :nailbite:
b)Learn how to write cheques...pay bills...become a HAndy Woman... :nunchuk:
c)Take on the father role....(the mother and father is me...) :?
d)hate weekends and public holidays.... :gloomy:


So I am still adjusting my Roller Coaster emotion....on how to like my New Role as a Widow...

[bezzlay]

I am sorry to hear that. I guess life is unpredictable and sometimes very cruel. I hope you can brace yourself up and nurture your kid(s) well.

[jtoh]

Sorry to hear that. Be strong for yourself and for your children. I hope things get better for you.

[Daddy D]

Sorry to hear…

Be strong and stay positive.
There are various support groups out there if you need assistance.

[raynreg]

Sorry to hear that…

Do whatever it needs to keep yourself going…
Stay strong for your kids for they need you, ya…

[LOLMum]

it takes a while to heal the hurt and loss of support (dh and friends). stay stong and you will come out stronger.

take care and God bless.

[Bowie]

dolphinsiah,


Ur children need you. Stay strong. Write ur thots out, we will be there to listen to u.

Hugs.

[poppy15]

:imsorry: to hear that. do stay strong & be positive for the sake of ur kids...they need u. :hugs:

[Little M]

Here is a big *hug*


Life goes on...

Take it a day a a time. We in this forum will give u a shoulder to lean on :hugs:

[shurley197323]

Dear dolphinsiah, u must really take care of yrself first before you can take care of yr kids. Remember never bottle up your troubles, talk to your other family members or just post anything you want to say here. We are here to listern.