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    • PiggyLalalaP
      PiggyLalala
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      I do not think the situation is so bad. The PSLE paper usually only has a few challenging questions. It is still not so difficult to get an ‘A’ or ‘B’ grade in the PSLE. Students who got ‘A’ or ‘B’ grades for the most of the subjects can easily get into the Express stream in the sec sch.

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        Edureach
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        ksi:
        Edureach, at this rate PSLE is heading there are children who do not even get to 'A' levels, it is called 'game over' for them after PSLE.


        I see the petition concern is a valid one and I would like MOE to study the issue where the root issues are. We need to promote inclusion in our society instead of keep filtering people out. When parents shared their children's high score but could not hit max score, it is not necessary about kiasuism. If the unfairness is due to difference between tuition n no tuition, the system is wrong. If the difference is due to one can apply n one cannot apply what they hv learnt, then the noise is kiasuism. We cannot try to sum up everything with English words and draw a conclusion. Conduct a proper quantitative n qualitative study to draw the proper conclusion. While we like to hv balanced view in a discussion, it would not be fair to tell parents to be realistic, lower expectation n accept the system.

        Understand your point of view and i also not against the objective of this petition. However, the points which i have raised are to highlight the importance of familly support and working together with your kids in an enviroment whereby the well-to-do families are seen to have the advantages thru expensive tuitions.

        What i have outlined earlier were what i had done for my two kids. I had ignored all these noises myself and it didn't bother my family at all whereby other kids had gone ahead because of tuition. The existing system is in place where one learns and progress according to his aptitude and hardwork. As mentioned earlier, even if a student failed to make it to jc, can always attend poly and who to stop these students from entering unis? One must not be too obessed with the top schools thinking that they are the most suitable vehicles to excel academically. So what my kids scored btw 250-260 and had to settle for the next best schools. My kids didn't loose anything and they can progress happily without all these hardcore tuitions. The best part is they are attending schools without undue stress because i shall accept whatever results they produce as long as they are determined to do their best. Realistic mah!

        In any society, there exists a group with advantages since time memorial. As parents we recognise this but we can also choose to bring out the best from our kids with unconditional love and continue to motivate them. Their academic progress is totally independent of our love and understanding.

        Is up to each family how to raise their kids. For me, i shall embrace any system that is up and continues to ignore all the background noises.

        You too have a choice!

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          buds
          last edited by

          ksi:
          I see the petition concern is a valid one and I would like MOE to study the issue where the root issues are. We need to promote inclusion in our society instead of keep filtering people out.

          Inclusion. Yes. :hi5:

          If seen in another perspective, inclusion can also mean to include every child
          and not filter out those who under-performs or who don't perform which cud
          be due to a variety of reasons. To accept every child with what they can if it
          had been their best-est of efforts. Not being academically inclined not
          necessarily goes to say they wud be failures in life.
          ksi:
          When parents shared their children's high score but could not hit max score, it is not necessary about kiasuism.
          Really? It isn't? :scratchhead:

          🦆

          :siam:
          ksi:
          If the unfairness is due to difference between tuition n no tuition, the system is wrong. If the difference is due to one can apply n one cannot apply what they hv learnt, then the noise is kiasuism.
          Catch no ball here :skeptical:.
          ksi:
          We cannot try to sum up everything with English words and draw a conclusion.
          Agree.. :salute:
          ksi:
          Conduct a proper quantitative n qualitative study to draw the proper conclusion.
          Agree.. if time permits, i might see something by the time chubs due for PSLE.
          Or perhaps no PSLE by then.. :rubhands:
          ksi:
          While we like to hv balanced view in a discussion, it would not be fair to tell parents to be realistic, lower expectation n accept the system.
          Yes WE LIKE! :celebrate: And i definitely appreciate his sharings. 😄

          Likewise too, it wud not be fair either to tell parents to be unrealistic.
          To push boundaries where their child just cannot go. I have seen it for
          myself.. and the children truly suffer. Wud not be fair to keep having high
          expectations when the child is suffering thru' foundation aspects as it is.. and
          not to accept the system? But then again, how not to? :scratchhead: This part
          of the discussion will see no end IMO but i would love to read other balanced
          sharings for sure. I try not to put down perspectives of others even though i
          have my own in check. It is just nice to hear from all layers of community..
          that's all. :grphug:

          I am one who does not have low expectations. I have no expectations.
          DDs try to work with the system or around the system.. :evil: and so i
          support them by trying to understand the system myself and root for
          them up to where they can... whilst observing how collective thinking
          can indeed help generate change to what is seen as the race.. hence i
          am still reading on to hear as many voices if not all voices from the
          ground and consider if i really am gonna sign on that dotted line of
          the petition. 😉

          Not that i don't think it is a good initiative.. a start.. but it's just that
          i do think the system has tweaked a bit cos the ministry did hear us
          about the initial cry about the stress that at P1 and 2s they hafta sit
          for CA1, CA2, SA1, SA2 and all the mthly topical tests.. so they chucked
          exams, put in place a supposedly more holistic learning environment thru
          teach less learn more.. parents still unhappy.. So, how many times is changing
          a system healthy in this case.. cos we'd then be having to adapt to yet
          another system which we may not necessarily know will work.

          In the industry that requires the human touch, it is the individual that makes
          the difference... it is that many people that'd make the team.. the combined
          effort. So as how to make it work for now, is to at least allow for some hovering
          from say Principals or perhaps even education officers to monitor how the
          current system in place is running and if it's not running, why and troubleshoot
          the areas and the people involved. :evil:

          Going back to the thread topic, as for the bell curves come PSLE grading,
          i just wish that they would just state an A for an A. Chuck T-score.

          As for testing of questions out of the syllabus, the school(s) have informed
          parents that there will be questions (a handful like 3 - 5) in exam papers tt
          are meant for streaming creme of the crop, yes.. and so far in our case, they
          are in the syllabus.. still within what's covered & it is intentionally set to
          challenge eyes and minds, yes.. but that's about it. But then again, my
          observations are based only on humble neighbourhood schools only.:oops:

          Perhaps i'm just a simpleton & try to live life within means and for my children
          to work to their max potential and abilities. If they can soar ... well go fly as
          far as they can, if not we can still fly kite here.. with whatever kites that are
          still available for us.

          With this post, i will no longer partake in discussions here. I've never truly
          believed that any one system can fix or fit all. There isn't one that can (yet)
          please all.. Would like to :salute: Chenonceau for having the courage to put
          this up and applaud her efforts thus far.I will still be your silent reader
          wherever you write. :please:

          Pls forgive the :offtopic: posts. :oops:

          PS : Psst.. Chenonceau... the Finland styled-education IS available but here,
          it is so far only available for preschool level... such warm and open methods
          are practiced in a Montessori classroom. :love:

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          • PiggyLalalaP
            PiggyLalala
            last edited by

            buds:
            ksi:

            I see the petition concern is a valid one and I would like MOE to study the issue where the root issues are. We need to promote inclusion in our society instead of keep filtering people out.


            Inclusion. Yes. :hi5:

            If seen in another perspective, inclusion can also mean to include every child
            and not filter out those who under-performs or who don't perform which cud
            be due to a variety of reasons. To accept every child with what they can if it
            had been their best-est of efforts. Not being academically inclined not
            necessarily goes to say they wud be failures in life.
            ksi:
            When parents shared their children's high score but could not hit max score, it is not necessary about kiasuism.
            Really? It isn't? :scratchhead:

            🦆

            :siam:
            ksi:
            If the unfairness is due to difference between tuition n no tuition, the system is wrong. If the difference is due to one can apply n one cannot apply what they hv learnt, then the noise is kiasuism.
            Catch no ball here :skeptical:.
            ksi:
            We cannot try to sum up everything with English words and draw a conclusion.
            Agree.. :salute:
            ksi:
            Conduct a proper quantitative n qualitative study to draw the proper conclusion.
            Agree.. if time permits, i might see something by the time chubs due for PSLE.
            Or perhaps no PSLE by then.. :rubhands:
            ksi:
            While we like to hv balanced view in a discussion, it would not be fair to tell parents to be realistic, lower expectation n accept the system.
            Yes WE LIKE! :celebrate: And i definitely appreciate his sharings. 😄

            Likewise too, it wud not be fair either to tell parents to be unrealistic.
            To push boundaries where their child just cannot go. I have seen it for
            myself.. and the children truly suffer. Wud not be fair to keep having high
            expectations when the child is suffering thru' foundation aspects as it is.. and
            not to accept the system? But then again, how not to? :scratchhead: This part
            of the discussion will see no end IMO but i would love to read other balanced
            sharings for sure. I try not to put down perspectives of others even though i
            have my own in check. It is just nice to hear from all layers of community..
            that's all. :grphug:

            I am one who does not have low expectations. I have no expectations.
            DDs try to work with the system or around the system.. :evil: and so i
            support them by trying to understand the system myself and root for
            them up to where they can... whilst observing how collective thinking
            can indeed help generate change to what is seen as the race.. hence i
            am still reading on to hear as many voices if not all voices from the
            ground and consider if i really am gonna sign on that dotted line of
            the petition. 😉

            Not that i don't think it is a good initiative.. a start.. but it's just that
            i do think the system has tweaked a bit cos the ministry did hear us
            about the initial cry about the stress that at P1 and 2s they hafta sit
            for CA1, CA2, SA1, SA2 and all the mthly topical tests.. so they chucked
            exams, put in place a supposedly more holistic learning environment thru
            teach less learn more.. parents still unhappy.. So, how many times is changing
            a system healthy in this case.. cos we'd then be having to adapt to yet
            another system which we may not necessarily know will work.

            In the industry that requires the human touch, it is the individual that makes
            the difference... it is that many people that'd make the team.. the combined
            effort. So as how to make it work for now, is to at least allow for some hovering
            from say Principals or perhaps even education officers to monitor how the
            current system in place is running and if it's not running, why and troubleshoot
            the areas and the people involved. :evil:

            Going back to the thread topic, as for the bell curves come PSLE grading,
            i just wish that they would just state an A for an A. Chuck T-score.

            As for testing of questions out of the syllabus, the school(s) have informed
            parents that there will be questions (a handful like 3 - 5) in exam papers tt
            are meant for streaming creme of the crop, yes.. and so far in our case, they
            are in the syllabus.. still within what's covered & it is intentionally set to
            challenge eyes and minds, yes.. but that's about it. But then again, my
            observations are based only on humble neighbourhood schools only.:oops:

            Perhaps i'm just a simpleton & try to live life within means and for my children
            to work to their max potential and abilities. If they can soar ... well go fly as
            far as they can, if not we can still fly kite here.. with whatever kites that are
            still available for us.

            :goodpost:

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              Edureach
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              PiggyLalala:
              buds:

              [quote=\"ksi\"]I see the petition concern is a valid one and I would like MOE to study the issue where the root issues are. We need to promote inclusion in our society instead of keep filtering people out.


              Inclusion. Yes. :hi5:

              If seen in another perspective, inclusion can also mean to include every child
              and not filter out those who under-performs or who don't perform which cud
              be due to a variety of reasons. To accept every child with what they can if it
              had been their best-est of efforts. Not being academically inclined not
              necessarily goes to say they wud be failures in life.
              ksi:
              When parents shared their children's high score but could not hit max score, it is not necessary about kiasuism.
              Really? It isn't? :scratchhead:

              🦆

              :siam:
              ksi:
              If the unfairness is due to difference between tuition n no tuition, the system is wrong. If the difference is due to one can apply n one cannot apply what they hv learnt, then the noise is kiasuism.
              Catch no ball here :skeptical:.
              ksi:
              We cannot try to sum up everything with English words and draw a conclusion.
              Agree.. :salute:
              ksi:
              Conduct a proper quantitative n qualitative study to draw the proper conclusion.
              Agree.. if time permits, i might see something by the time chubs due for PSLE.
              Or perhaps no PSLE by then.. :rubhands:
              ksi:
              While we like to hv balanced view in a discussion, it would not be fair to tell parents to be realistic, lower expectation n accept the system.
              Yes WE LIKE! :celebrate: And i definitely appreciate his sharings. 😄

              Likewise too, it wud not be fair either to tell parents to be unrealistic.
              To push boundaries where their child just cannot go. I have seen it for
              myself.. and the children truly suffer. Wud not be fair to keep having high
              expectations when the child is suffering thru' foundation aspects as it is.. and
              not to accept the system? But then again, how not to? :scratchhead: This part
              of the discussion will see no end IMO but i would love to read other balanced
              sharings for sure. I try not to put down perspectives of others even though i
              have my own in check. It is just nice to hear from all layers of community..
              that's all. :grphug:

              I am one who does not have low expectations. I have no expectations.
              DDs try to work with the system or around the system.. :evil: and so i
              support them by trying to understand the system myself and root for
              them up to where they can... whilst observing how collective thinking
              can indeed help generate change to what is seen as the race.. hence i
              am still reading on to hear as many voices if not all voices from the
              ground and consider if i really am gonna sign on that dotted line of
              the petition. 😉

              Not that i don't think it is a good initiative.. a start.. but it's just that
              i do think the system has tweaked a bit cos the ministry did hear us
              about the initial cry about the stress that at P1 and 2s they hafta sit
              for CA1, CA2, SA1, SA2 and all the mthly topical tests.. so they chucked
              exams, put in place a supposedly more holistic learning environment thru
              teach less learn more.. parents still unhappy.. So, how many times is changing
              a system healthy in this case.. cos we'd then be having to adapt to yet
              another system which we may not necessarily know will work.

              In the industry that requires the human touch, it is the individual that makes
              the difference... it is that many people that'd make the team.. the combined
              effort. So as how to make it work for now, is to at least allow for some hovering
              from say Principals or perhaps even education officers to monitor how the
              current system in place is running and if it's not running, why and troubleshoot
              the areas and the people involved. :evil:

              Going back to the thread topic, as for the bell curves come PSLE grading,
              i just wish that they would just state an A for an A. Chuck T-score.

              As for testing of questions out of the syllabus, the school(s) have informed
              parents that there will be questions (a handful like 3 - 5) in exam papers tt
              are meant for streaming creme of the crop, yes.. and so far in our case, they
              are in the syllabus.. still within what's covered & it is intentionally set to
              challenge eyes and minds, yes.. but that's about it. But then again, my
              observations are based only on humble neighbourhood schools only.:oops:

              Perhaps i'm just a simpleton & try to live life within means and for my children
              to work to their max potential and abilities. If they can soar ... well go fly as
              far as they can, if not we can still fly kite here.. with whatever kites that are
              still available for us.



              :goodpost:[/quote]

              Like this one. Agreed, just give their best in whatever the situation and circumstances.

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              • FunzF
                Funz
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                Today, just out of curiosity and since the bunch of K2s at my centre were getting a bit restless, I threw them some math problems that you will see in primary schools.


                Things like * + * = 2 so what is *. They enthusiastically went to work and surprisingly, even without being shown how to do, a few of them managed to solve a series of such sums. The rest, after explaining, completing the rest of the sums was no biggie.

                So I went a step further and gave then the dreaded chicken and cow legs problem. And again the few who were able to solve the 1st type of sums were able to figure out how to solve this question after some trial and errors. As for the rest of the class, after explaining, a few of them got it, 2 or 3 still catch no ball. Haha.

                Thereafter, the kids pestered me for more of such problems to try out. Love their enthusiasm.

                But no, don’t worry, I am not going to add this as part of their curriculum though some of my parents will be ecstatic if I do.

                MOE’s preschool curriculum for math recommends that we need not cover beyond 20, they would prefer that we do not start teaching HYPY and also not give spelling and tingxie.

                Parents however, start asking us when are we teaching HYPY, why cannot start at N2, why for math we cover only up to 20, their kids already know how to count up to the hundreds, what about multiplication and bodmas, why such simple tingxie and spelling for the kids, what about dictation, and when are we going to teach creative writing? The best question, ‘what am I sending my kids to your school for if you are not teaching them anything new?’

                I believe to a certain extent, we parents have, in our bid to try to make life easier for our kids, created this viscious cycle. Pre-prep our kids, curriculum becomes too easy, some authority somewhere up the standard and again we pre-prep our kids accordingly and the cycle repeats.

                DD’s tchr told me DD can be outstanding if pushed a little. She is now very comfortably cruising along. The prideful parent in me was thinking, wow, ‘outstanding’, that sounds so good. Then practicality took over, nope, not gonna stress her or myself over ‘outstanding’, ‘normal’ will do.

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                • corneyAmberC
                  corneyAmber
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                  PiggyLalala:
                  I do not think the situation is so bad. The PSLE paper usually only has a few challenging questions. It is still not so difficult to get an 'A' or 'B' grade in the PSLE. Students who got 'A' or 'B' grades for the most of the subjects can easily get into the Express stream in the sec sch.

                  As it is now, I am asking for statistics to understand the situation better. Based on school statistics, I know from a school that the Math cohort average for both P3 and P5 was 50+ this year. Is that bad enough to be of concern? 🤷 School is supposed to be simulating PSLE standard, no? Even if it is a \"no\", this is drastic.

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                  • coastC
                    coast
                    last edited by

                    Funz:
                    Today, just out of curiosity and since the bunch of K2s at my centre were getting a bit restless, I threw them some math problems that you will see in primary schools.


                    Things like * + * = 2 so what is *. They enthusiastically went to work and surprisingly, even without being shown how to do, a few of them managed to solve a series of such sums. The rest, after explaining, completing the rest of the sums was no biggie.

                    So I went a step further and gave then the dreaded chicken and cow legs problem. And again the few who were able to solve the 1st type of sums were able to figure out how to solve this question after some trial and errors. As for the rest of the class, after explaining, a few of them got it, 2 or 3 still catch no ball. Haha.

                    Thereafter, the kids pestered me for more of such problems to try out. Love their enthusiasm.

                    But no, don't worry, I am not going to add this as part of their curriculum though some of my parents will be ecstatic if I do.

                    MOE's preschool curriculum for math recommends that we need not cover beyond 20, they would prefer that we do not start teaching HYPY and also not give spelling and tingxie.

                    Parents however, start asking us when are we teaching HYPY, why cannot start at N2, why for math we cover only up to 20, their kids already know how to count up to the hundreds, what about multiplication and bodmas, why such simple tingxie and spelling for the kids, what about dictation, and when are we going to teach creative writing? The best question, 'what am I sending my kids to your school for if you are not teaching them anything new?'

                    I believe to a certain extent, we parents have, in our bid to try to make life easier for our kids, created this viscious cycle. Pre-prep our kids, curriculum becomes too easy, some authority somewhere up the standard and again we pre-prep our kids accordingly and the cycle repeats.

                    DD's tchr told me DD can be outstanding if pushed a little. She is now very comfortably cruising along. The prideful parent in me was thinking, wow, 'outstanding', that sounds so good. Then practicality took over, nope, not gonna stress her or myself over 'outstanding', 'normal' will do.
                    :goodpost:

                    From my observation, young kids are generally fast learners.

                    My ds's kindergarten also practised (in 2010) \"need not cover beyond 20, no HYPY\" but they had weekly spelling and tingxie.

                    I agree with most of the things you said here 🙂

                    We did not \"pre-prep\" our ds, in fact we did not even know what his kindergarten covered (except during PTM twice a year) or when ds told us something about the school happenings. Except revising with my ds once or twice on his weekly spelling and tingxie, I did not even look at most of his materials (sometimes he would take out something to read, write or draw and I would spend some time on those things as family bonding).

                    But I just want to point out something, as you have said \"Thereafter, the kids pestered me for more of such problems to try out. Love their enthusiasm.\"

                    Every child is different and each likes different things. As parents, maybe we do not need to separate \"academics\" and \"non-academics\"?

                    I realised this earlier this year, when we were at Popular with my ds (we were buying stickers and sticker booklets for him), he saw a small Maths booklet at the cashier counter and after browsing it for a while, asked if he could buy it. I bought it. He started reading it on his own ... and sometimes would ask me questions on say, percentage, fractions... Recently, he has asked to buy higher level assessment books and started doing on his own. Oh, btw, he spends much more time (at least a few times more) on non-academics (sports, music, computer games, tv, playtime, draws, ... etc) than academics (incl. school homework). He likes to read too ... not sure if it is \"academics\" and \"non-academics\" .. but what is important to me is that he enjoys doing all these activities 🙂 He has asked for Maths enrichment too (he said 3 hours a week) ... I do not mind sending my ds .. but his schedule is very tight with all those things I mentioned above and I would also want him to have enough rest time. But it made me realised enrichments (at least for my ds) should not just be sports, music, arts ... but something \"academics\" too ... my main criteria? --> He enjoys it.

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                    • coastC
                      coast
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                      ksi:
                      PiggyLalala:

                      I do not think the situation is so bad. The PSLE paper usually only has a few challenging questions. It is still not so difficult to get an 'A' or 'B' grade in the PSLE. Students who got 'A' or 'B' grades for the most of the subjects can easily get into the Express stream in the sec sch.


                      As it is now, I am asking for statistics to understand the situation better. Based on school statistics, I know from a school that the Math cohort average for both P3 and P5 was 50+ this year. Is that bad enough to be of concern? 🤷 School is supposed to be simulating PSLE standard, no? Even if it is a \"no\", this is drastic.

                      hi ksi, it's \"scary\" if it's 50+ for the cohort. But is this just a particular test? or SA1?

                      If most kids are attending enrichment/ tuition as we have been discussing here ... then do you understand why the average is so low? The school is setting a standard that even enrichments did not cover?

                      Is this \"common\" in Singapore? Or just a few schools in Singapore? If it's a few schools, then it's something to do with these schools than the entire education system. But without data, we will probably never find out how widespread this is.

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                      • corneyAmberC
                        corneyAmber
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                        Edureach:
                        ksi:

                        Edureach, at this rate PSLE is heading there are children who do not even get to 'A' levels, it is called 'game over' for them after PSLE.


                        I see the petition concern is a valid one and I would like MOE to study the issue where the root issues are. We need to promote inclusion in our society instead of keep filtering people out. When parents shared their children's high score but could not hit max score, it is not necessary about kiasuism. If the unfairness is due to difference between tuition n no tuition, the system is wrong. If the difference is due to one can apply n one cannot apply what they hv learnt, then the noise is kiasuism. We cannot try to sum up everything with English words and draw a conclusion. Conduct a proper quantitative n qualitative study to draw the proper conclusion. While we like to hv balanced view in a discussion, it would not be fair to tell parents to be realistic, lower expectation n accept the system.


                        Understand your point of view and i also not against the objective of this petition. However, the points which i have raised are to highlight the importance of familly support and working together with your kids in an enviroment whereby the well-to-do families are seen to have the advantages thru expensive tuitions.

                        Totally agree, family support is definitely key in everything. And the next point about well-to-do families having the advantages, are we not petitioning for more reasonable exam so that having tuition is no longer an advantage and not having tuition is no longer a disadvantage? The difference is that you have chosen to accept the environment is such, we are petitioning to change the competitive landscape so not everyone has to suffer.

                        What i have outlined earlier were what i had done for my two kids. I had ignored all these noises myself and it didn't bother my family at all whereby other kids had gone ahead because of tuition.

                        Kudos to you. I admire your attitude but not everyone can do that :salute:

                        The existing system is in place where one learns and progress according to his aptitude and hardwork.

                        This is becoming more and more untrue hence the petition. It takes more than hardwork. Do you think the likes of Chenon and son do not work hard?

                        As mentioned earlier, even if a student failed to make it to jc, can always attend poly and who to stop these students from entering unis?

                        True, but that is a round-about way and need to spend one more year in poly and for poly kids to go to the uni, that is another super squeeze to get in.

                        One must not be too obessed with the top schools thinking that they are the most suitable vehicles to excel academically. So what my kids scored btw 250-260 and had to settle for the next best schools. My kids didn't loose anything and they can progress happily without all these hardcore tuitions.

                        True, the difference I can think of is the training and exposure in the top schools has some value. The kind of esteem and spirit built is different too. Once an ex-colleague had this dialogue with me where I told her there was no difference if one attended uni or not, as long as one worked hard at work. She told me, easy for me to say because I was a graduate but for her she could never make such statements. So it's the same going to good schools. Until today people never fail to remind me of my alma mater which they would love to be from and they said they could tell the difference of one being trained from there. Not my words.....but this is general sentiments. Can you change their mind? I have been unsuccessful unfortunately no matter how I deny that there is no difference. This is the reality, people endorsed the difference in training. So for those who want to pursue it, give them the choice even if it is hard. Those who do not want it, then do not force them to go through the same hardship.


                        The best part is they are attending schools without undue stress because i shall accept whatever results they produce as long as they are determined to do their best. Realistic mah!

                        Kudos to you again and your children. It takes matured kids to drive the \"whatever results\"

                        In any society, there exists a group with advantages since time memorial. As parents we recognise this but we can also choose to bring out the best from our kids with unconditional love and continue to motivate them. Their academic progress is totally independent of our love and understanding.

                        I totally subscribe to your parenting style but it takes all sorts to make parents, it is harder to transform people, that is probably another project MOE may embark on later.

                        Is up to each family how to raise their kids. For me, i shall embrace any system that is up and continues to ignore all the background noises.

                        You too have a choice!

                        Thanks, I have a choice and I am not affected by the exam system yet in terms of grades and not sure if it would ever affect me. For me, I am keen to participate in this when I see level average for Math exam for 2 cohorts is only 50+. It is scary albeit it has absolutely no impact on me in a personal way. I just feel sorry for children who work hard but get unequitable results. I saw children crying, not because they did not score 90+ but because they scored 50-70. Interestingly, a child I know whose dad is a teacher scored 50+ in 2 subjects, it tells me the exam is getting too tough even for teachers to cope with their own child. I am getting this statistics at the school level, so it may not be accurate, perhaps just some killer schools. The best is to get a national statistics on this to determine if the situation is indeed so bad?

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