Birth Control Methods

[Luvkid]

cwc:

I also dare not try ligation nor using control methods, can only go by counting dates.......hope dun be suay :sick:


Oops....me not supposed to be in this thread, just was curious & saw interesting stuff....so kapo kapo

cwc,

me also kaypo to chance upon this thread. I am like u too, days counting... But 人算不如天算.... That's how we have DS3. For 10 over years from dating,cohabitng,marrying DH,we have been using SAFE days... BUT realised it is not safe at all when i found out i was conceived. We usually have sex once a month,and that is 1-2 days after my menses. My menses has been very punctual every month. Come to think of it, DS3 is really fated to be ours. 一击就中，中4D 都没那么准.... He just meant to be ours lah.....

I am also in a dilemma now.

Need sex at least once a month,yet no ligation, no IUD,no pills on me. Reason: Too costly and worried of the side effects. Isn't it more costly to bring up 1 more life?? :roll:

DH to use condom?? Ruin the HIGH mood when he need to \"wear\" it. I will sian into half....

Now DS3 is only 3 months, I have no ready mood for sex, DH lagi worst, never asks from me, always :snooze: :snooze: :snooze:

Yes lah, so far after full month, we still fulfill once a month, using SAFE days together with withdrawal method (Both not reliable at all) but the following month always :xedfingers: :xedfingers:
DH :nailbite: when i told him last week menses should be reporting but didn't turn up. And he :imcool: when menses reported on the next day....

Aiyah, me also kaypoh on this site lah... :siam:

[krazy]

I do not trust my husband. Wahaha that's why I prefer to be in control.

[kwokwc]

Luvkid:

cwc:

I also dare not try ligation nor using control methods, can only go by counting dates.......hope dun be suay :sick:


Oops....me not supposed to be in this thread, just was curious & saw interesting stuff....so kapo kapo

cwc,

me also kaypo to chance upon this thread. I am like u too, days counting... But 人算不如天算.... That's how we have DS3. For 10 over years from dating,cohabitng,marrying DH,we have been using SAFE days... BUT realised it is not safe at all when i found out i was conceived. We usually have sex once a month,and that is 1-2 days after my menses. My menses has been very punctual every month. Come to think of it, DS3 is really fated to be ours. 一击就中，中4D 都没那么准.... He just meant to be ours lah.....

Hahaha, me too. used to go by counting days. But miscount, so dd3. ds1 and dd2 are 2 yrs apart. While dd3 is 6 yrs younger than dd2. But after giving birth to dd3, I went for ligation.

But my gynea told me, ligation is not 100% sure. Out of 1 million, 1 can still get pregnant after ligate. That can happen when the tube joins back again. :lol:

[Mum1113]

Funx3:

Mum1113:

[quote=\"cwc\"]
I thot would be at same location....but I saw it at different place and asked the gynae, THEN he told me that my first CS didn't heal well, so he could not cut at the same place. My 2 deliveries were only 18mths apart plus I have poor skin and healing which I knew all along, so no choice lah. That's why I dare not go for 3rd liao.

Your gynae did not discuss or rather inform you the cut at a different location ? Strange as mine informed as, previous scar formed keloid as a result of poor skin (dont know if you have this ?)....so my gynae removed the keloids at the same of the cut, then the heal is pretty good, I must say

Ha Ha ....
Mum1113, My Gynae Got Rid of the Ugly keloids for me the Same time as my CS Too ....
* High Five*[/quote]Co-incidentally we can do one more :hi5: ....mine also 3 x CS ! :dancing:

[Funx3]

Mum1113:

Funx3:

Ha Ha ....
Mum1113, My Gynae Got Rid of the Ugly keloids for me the Same time as my CS Too ....
* High Five*

Co-incidentally we can do one more :hi5: ....mine also 3 x CS ! :dancing:

Really????!!!!
We Must HAve Gone to the Same School ....
of .... 3 is Enuf!
:laugh: :laugh:

[Funx3]

kwokwc:

Hahaha, me too. used to go by counting days. But miscount, so dd3. ds1 and dd2 are 2 yrs apart. While dd3 is 6 yrs younger than dd2. But after giving birth to dd3, I went for ligation.

But my gynea told me, ligation is not 100% sure. Out of 1 million, 1 can still get pregnant after ligate. That can happen when the tube joins back again. :lol:

Ha Ha .... Sista ....
We Go For Same Procedure .... And Economy of Scale Too!

My Gynae told me Firm-ly, Ligation is .... the Most Reliable Method.

I Think, Maybe Got One in a Multi-Million Chance that such a Long Length of the tube can Grow to Join Back Again ....
And Alignment Must be \"Zun\" (Accurate) ....
And Opening of Tube Must Meet open-ended ....
And Even if ALL Above High Precision Growth Occurs (if it Ever! Hee-Hee ....), Pray Hard that No Lobang occurs Along the Joint ....
Else Later .... Egg Rolling Along the Tube FALL out, HOW?
(Imagine - Like Bowling Ball Fall into Longkang -----> No Strike -lor!)
Ha Ha ....

So, Scientifically (I Luan-Luan-sian-One!) ....
Statistically (I Luan-Luan-Tikam-One) ....
Probability of Tube Join Back = 1/Infinity ---------> Zero -la!
:laugh: :laugh:

[flyfree]

tanlengleng:

ZacK:

Anyway bet durex and okamoto... I would go for the latter cos they are touted to be \"next to nothing\". Anyway just a personal preference

Hubby says okamoto seems to be smaller & tighter then durex,
any man can advise on this?
He says it's uncomfortable for him...

Yup, Okamoto seem too tight for me, Durex much comfortable. The safest way is \"don't do it\" : p

[flyfree]

Dear mothers, could abstinence be the best solution if don’t use ligation? can it be done?

[buds]

Abstinence? :yikes:


No way!

Especially for me!

I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:

I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.
If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:
Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:

So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.
Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:

[Funx3]

buds:

Abstinence? :yikes:


No way!

Especially for me!

I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:

I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.
If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:
Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:

So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.
Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
buds .... U Really Cracks me Up!