Extra Marital Affair

[winth]

Wow, buds…


Have you heard of the club for swingers?
Swingers are married couples exchanging their sexual partner with other married couples for sexual flings. The logic to joining such swingers club is through the basic assumption that they are married spouses who do not visit prostitution houses, then they should be STD-free and less risk as compared to visiting a pro girl. Plus, it’s for free.

I got a shock of my life when I read about it in some women’s magazine. But it seems common in Singapore.

[winth]

buds:

EMA

What's EMA?
Is it a short form or some term that I should research for?

[buds]

EMA = Extra Marital Affair

[Honey]

winth:

Wow, buds...


Have you heard of the club for swingers?
Swingers are married couples exchanging their sexual partner with other married couples for sexual flings. The logic to joining such swingers club is through the basic assumption that they are married spouses who do not visit prostitution houses, then they should be STD-free and less risk as compared to visiting a pro girl. Plus, it's for free.

I got a shock of my life when I read about it in some women's magazine. But it seems common in Singapore.

Really? Common in Singapore? I always thot' it is a Western Culture thingie. Guess got to wake up to the real world outside man!

[winth]

buds:

EMA = Extra Marital Affair

OIC....
oops again.

[buds]

winth:

Wow, buds... Have you heard of the club for swingers?

Yes, I have.
It works like friends with benefits.

If husbands allow their wives to sleep with their friends,
what different would that make wives with prostitutes
themselves?

It's sick.

Like pimping your own wife so that you can get your flings.

[buds]

Most times, such flings come with strings attached.

Cause with variety, one will realise there will always
be someone better out there than what one already
has…

[3Boys]

buds:

I was naturally overjoyed cos to me that meant she and her husband
had really moved on together. But when i was about to congratulate
her, she said, \"Aren't you gonna ask me whose is it?\" Shocked out of
my world, i was just open-mouthed. She answered her own question
and told me that she was carrying another man's child and intends to
keep it... Though the hubs has sworn off the EMA with that friend, we know he's


having on-going relationships with others... still. Some married, some
not. Now that's one long history of extra marital affairs which may nvr
end. He is happy with his wife now spending more time with each other
and all their children. However, his need for variety is still evident till
today..

I do not understand the selfish actions caused by husbands to hurt their
wives and their family, when upon marriage husbands have vowed to
care, love and cherish.... it is just sad and unfair.

buds,
it would appear that infidelity is not the province of married MEN only anymore. Married WOMEN too seem to want their share of variety. One could say its a sign of gender equality................

I was reading today about how girls as young as 14 are participating in sexual activity, and indeed sometimes baiting the boys/men. As the current laws stand, the boy/man in this situation will be at a disadvantage.

Parents, its not just the girls you have to watch out for, you've got to make sure your boys are not taken advantage off sexually by girls too.

[winth]

honey:

Really? Common in Singapore?

Yup. Now that blogs and forums are so common, you get to see such terms around.

buds:

It's sick.

Like pimping your own wife so that you can get your flings.

Yap yap. But sometimes it's not only the husbands, wives dun mind pimping their husbands for flings too. Reports show that numbers of wives straying is almost equal to husbands liao.

[RRMummy]

winth:

buds:

It's sick.

Like pimping your own wife so that you can get your flings.

Yap yap. But sometimes it's not only the husbands, wives dun mind pimping their husbands for flings too. Reports show that numbers of wives straying is almost equal to husbands liao.

It is just plain sickening and worrisome.. I mean what kind of world will it be like when our kids are growing up in... i shudder with fear just imagining the extent of potential 'danger' lurking out there...

..willing parties is one case.. then there are those who become victims due to their idiotic partners..