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    If you could, would you decide on a 3rd child?

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    • corneyAmberC Offline
      corneyAmber
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      EN:
      [quote]The agent said it was vacant for a month and it was hard to tell from the state of things whether it was a month or not as it was apparently a well-kept place.

      Ask the neighbour how long it has been vacant. I went to an old estate to take a look at the flat. My dh went to ask the neighbour how long has the flat been vacant. The neighbour was telling us more than 5 years. They have never seen the owner as they just move in 5 years ago.[/quote]That's probably a good idea but no one seemed to be at home on both sides when I was there. In any case, I don't think we will be pursuing this place. Time to search elsewhere.

      You will also have my vote for your story. πŸ˜„

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        Andaiz
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        RRMummy:
        winth:

        Oh, you all know about this calendar that predicts the gender of your child?


        Yes.. also not chun! πŸ˜‰

        Again, not zun. Checked after the fact...all 3 supposed to be boys :? haha! They're blessings regardless of gender, my dear!

        Our lives are so stressful oredi...conception also so stressful....poor kids! πŸ™

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          winth
          last edited by

          weird lar…


          I used calendar and whirlpool method, all chun lar…

          ohmygod, which means, scarly if i really try 3rd child, scarly it’s really a girl!!!

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            Andaiz
            last edited by

            winth:
            weird lar...


            ohmygod, which means, scarly if i really try 3rd child, scarly it's really a girl!!!!!
            Then you pm buds and me for advice πŸ˜‰

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              Busymom
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              Heard somewhere that if want to try for boy, husband should eat less meat and more vege. I supposed the reverse would be true if want to try for girl. But if not chun, please don’t stone me.


              Of course, there is a more scentific way, the before and after ovulation saying. But think that did not turn out to be that true in our case, or maybe I just mis-calculated??

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                schellen
                last edited by

                Busymom:
                Of course, there is a more scentific way, the before and after ovulation saying. But think that did not turn out to be that true in our case, or maybe I just mis-calculated??

                That one is very complicated, well to me it is. I took one look at it and got stressed already. Imagine if I use that, sure :faint: cos mine is regularly irregular (my ex-gynae's words, not mine).

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                  en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg
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                  Winth, I have a girl and a boy. I read in a magazine to have a boy must have certain style of doing and to have a girl another style. The different style will affect how X & Y swim. Not sure true or not.


                  Oppppssss... Oh dear. I post in the wrong forum. Me bad :oops:

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                    MLR
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                    X sperms are slower swimmers but live longer, so if you want girl, should commit the act 3 to 5 days b4 ovulation date. Y sperms are faster swimmers but live only for 24 hours, so if you want boy, got to do it at the day itself.


                    Since Y are faster swimmers, if you orgasm and DH deep in, then also higher chance of boys. So if you want girls, should hold off orgasm and also no deep penetra*****.

                    If you try this method, must be very sure of ovulation date.

                    But all said, it is not a guarantee foolproof method, but it is definately scientific.

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                      skunk
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                      both of us agreed to go until No. 4, then after that see whether finances permit us to have until No. 6


                      benefits of growing up in a large family far outweigh those of growing up in a small family. Having grown up in a family of 4 kids myself, and having seen hundreds of kids in my career, is proof enough πŸ˜‰

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                        Funz
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                        We have the means and have decided since day 1 that we want 3 maybe even 4. But the finances are there, the help is there, the spirit is willing so is the flesh πŸ˜‰ unfortunately, nature decided otherwise.


                        Now we are just wondering whether to go the medical way or hope that nature will spring us a surprise.

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