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    A good read - DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

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      Elissa Shadley
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      I can not agree with you more. Love is like a tree that needs nurturing. The daily trifles may make us tired and disappointed, but we can not blame love. Marriage is the tomb of love, as the old saying goes. Actually, we will not know where to bury ourselves without marriage.

      Though we may face some challenges and difficulties in the twist and turn of life and of marriage, we should try our best to conquer them and live our life and cultivate our love to the fullest.
      I still believe Jack shall have Jill.
      :celebrate:

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        happy to be mum
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        I believe I did marry the right person & I always feel I am lucky… I have been with my DH for almost 17 yrs (OM goodness, have it been that long??!) married for almost 8 yrs & we can tell each other anything under the sun.


        only thing now is how to find excitement in our lives…it is getting too monotonous esp so when DS started his formal education. Why excitement and heart beating fast feelings gone when one is too long in a relationship? How to create some excitement once again?

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          limlim
          last edited by

          happy to be mum:


          only thing now is how to find excitement in our lives...it is getting too monotonous esp so when DS started his formal education. Why excitement and heart beating fast feelings gone when one is too long in a relationship? How to create some excitement once again?
          Absence makes the heart grow fonder. πŸ˜‰

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            kiddo
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            WCW:
            usually the case when one is too long in a relationship...

            how about go back to ur honeymoon place :?
            honeymoon phase and place yah :evil: :celebrate:
            it's in the mind even if you are at the 20-30 anniversary,
            it not practical to keep a 'constant\" honeymoon phase :?

            Simplicity is the key , find small thing in your daily life
            with your spouse to spark the relationships,
            SG pace and concrete space is not conducive , find
            nature , place of serenity ...doono for me its works,

            Think we go through different phases in our relationships,
            it no more about the spark it more appreciation. :hi5:

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              kiddo
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              WCW:
              yes niang niang kiddo...

              must listen hehe πŸ˜‰

              but really difficult to find the spark, u know what i mean :?
              WCW,
              spark :rotflmao: ask the Man in the house ,
              They all hang up their boots use for chasing the gals
              and become a Couch Potato after they got married ,
              Like mY DH say \" NO MORE CHALLENGE mah\" :evil: :spank:

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                wishababy
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                good post for me to learn.

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                  mikoandjared
                  last edited by

                  After married, sometimes it's normal to look at your spouse and ask yourself this question..I do that quite often myself :oops: & I wonder if he ask himself also...can't tell heh.. Thanks for sharing!

                  :goodpost:

                  WCW:
                  limlim:

                  The title is a valid question indeed.. as pple say..

                  Love is blind.. Marriage is THE eye opener.. πŸ˜‰

                  yes... u will realise alot of things after... errr hmmmm.... marriage... and then another stage is when have children... πŸ™‚

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                    mikoandjared
                    last edited by

                    After married, sometimes it's normal to look at your spouse and ask yourself this question..I do that quite often myself :oops: & I wonder if he ask himself also...can't tell heh.. Thanks for sharing!

                    :goodpost:

                    WCW:
                    limlim:

                    The title is a valid question indeed.. as pple say..

                    Love is blind.. Marriage is THE eye opener.. πŸ˜‰

                    yes... u will realise alot of things after... errr hmmmm.... marriage... and then another stage is when have children... πŸ™‚

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                      hh2
                      last edited by

                      Good post! It is a timely reminder for me too, love is a decision.

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                        KooBits EDU
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                        A very meaningful and thought-provoking read.

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