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      puff
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      MummyThreeStreams:
      I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


      We ignore them...
      I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

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        BeContented
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        puff:
        MummyThreeStreams:

        I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


        We ignore them...

        I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

        Hmmm.....got me curious 😉
        So how many kids did mommies here plan to have initially and how many did you stop at eventually?
        I wanted 4.....after 2 I surrendered, partly cos' dare not put myself on the 'chopping board' for a 3rd time.

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          cwc:
          puff:

          [quote=\"MummyThreeStreams\"]I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


          We ignore them...

          I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

          Hmmm.....got me curious 😉
          So how many kids did mommies here plan to have initially and how many did you stop at eventually?
          I wanted 4.....after 2 I surrendered, partly cos' dare not put myself on the 'chopping board' for a 3rd time.[/quote]Planned 1 only due 2 work commitment but managed 2 hv 2. Having 3 is out of question 4 me n hopefully wont happen!! 🙏

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            terry
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            any1 read Aug issue of Simply Her mag?


            great issue this mth, many topics close to my heart.

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              sssdarlings
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              terry:
              any1 read Aug issue of Simply Her mag?


              great issue this mth, many topics close to my heart.
              Oh dont tempt me... SH was my fave mag!

              Being hoarder (I still have copies of 'Dare') i kept all issues but the clutter really got to me. Some years back I resolved never to buy magazines. Anyway, with plethora of useful mummy blogs etc, magazines are thing of the past for me.

              Thanks for the alert anyway. Will keep a lookout at the library shelves 😂

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                terry
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                cwc,

                did not plan to hv any kids.

                nw end up with 2boys…

                both planned. my dh beg me for #1, so i gv in.
                #2 is i wanna try for girl,but God gimme boy.

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                  ectanz
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                  terry:
                  cwc,

                  did not plan to hv any kids.

                  nw end up with 2boys..

                  both planned. my dh beg me for #1, so i gv in.
                  #2 is i wanna try for girl,but God gimme boy.
                  Hi Terry, r u trying 4 baby no. 3.....?

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                    terry
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                    ectanz,

                    no thks! im in the hi risk age grp alrdy.

                    my ds1 is in k1 this yr. my #2 still in my tummy, due late aug. i’ve forgotten hw tough pregnancy is, altho i managed to ‘escape’ alot of usual discomforts like morning sickness, water retention, constipation… but still the groin/ligament pain and frequent peeing/disturb sleep is enough for me to smtimes question myself WHY?

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                      MummyThreeStreams
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                      I really enjoyed my pregnancies, even though they got increasingly difficult with age. For the second and third ones I was hospitalized and put on bed rest. Had other problems too. But I really liked the feeling of carrying a baby in me. :love:


                      Reached my KPI ahead of schedule. no need to try anymore, but I think I'll miss being pregnant and carrying a newborn...

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                        Kabby
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                        MummyThreeStreams:
                        I really enjoyed my pregnancies, even though they got increasingly difficult with age. For the second and third ones I was hospitalized and put on bed rest. Had other problems too. But I really liked the feeling of carrying a baby in me. :love:


                        Reached my KPI ahead of schedule. no need to try anymore, but I think I'll miss being pregnant and carrying a newborn...
                        wah! how old is your youngest? :evil: 😂

                        i don't miss being pregnant... :siam: maybe several yrs down the rd i might miss carrying a newborn but i'll just carry other people's babies. cos those, when poop or cry can hand back to the parents. and no need to have sleepless nights. 🙂

                        cwc,
                        i love kids, have always, and wanted 4, before marriage. and even after having the 1st one, we were still thinking, possible. after 2nd boy, I knew I won't have 4 kids anymore. it was so tough!

                        now with no.3, and a girl, we're closing factory. no more. enough. very contented and satisfied and i know i won't be able to cope with more...

                        janet:
                        sometimes so overwhelmed with chores and after a whole day of not eating properly, not much sleep for many days, and being hot sticky and with the bb crying just 5min after i put her down to nap... i also contemplated running away!

                        now, it is getting slightly better with the youngest starting to understand instructions... 😂

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