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    How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?

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    • B Offline
      BeContented
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      kiddo:
      cwc:


      Ha ha.....sometimes no need to act, really blur until hubby :stupid: :faint:
      傻人有傻福 😉

      cwc :rotflmao: your DH will love you this blur blur :rotflmao:

      cho cho mah teh.....wait wait.....blur can also == stupid.
      sometimes, he may wanna vomit blood or fedup until wanna :spank: me :scared: at those times, then must really 撒娇 😉

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        kiddo
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        cwc:
        kiddo:

        [quote=\"cwc\"]
        Ha ha.....sometimes no need to act, really blur until hubby :stupid: :faint:
        傻人有傻福 😉

        cwc :rotflmao: your DH will love you this blur blur :rotflmao:

        cho cho mah teh.....wait wait.....blur can also == stupid.
        sometimes, he may wanna vomit blood or fedup until wanna :spank: me :scared: at those times, then must really 撒娇 😉[/quote]cwc - man hor like blur blur woman de , but then if they need
        you to do the thing they donno or don wan to do then they
        wish we are smart then :evil: 😉
        no lah your DH not fed-up but sometime we just need to
        let our hair hang lose and be a blur blop so blissful :boogie: ..........or then 撒娇 :rotflmao:

        see what LOLMum wrote: :please:
        husband and wife must know how to 撒娇. dont always adopt an attack or defence stand.

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          Laurenwkids
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          I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is ‘chasing’ wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.


          If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.

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            Angelight
            last edited by

            hi Lauren, nothing to feel embarrassed about. 😄 Maybe your DH's love language is not physical touch. Also, some men do not have high sex drive, so they don't usually ask their wives for intimacy. But they show their love in other ways. I'm sure your hubby shows his love for u in other ways too.

            Laurenwkids:
            I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.

            If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.

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              flyfree
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              Angelight:
              hi Lauren, nothing to feel embarrassed about. 😄 Maybe your DH's love language is not physical touch. Also, some men do not have high sex drive, so they don't usually ask their wives for intimacy. But they show their love in other ways. I'm sure your hubby shows his love for u in other ways too.

              Laurenwkids:

              I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.

              If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.


              It is not easy to keep the passion flame burning through. Frenz of mine says hubby \"seem unable to release himself\" during physical intimacy, dunno what the reason. Assured her that it might be \"one time incident\", not to worry. :oops:

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                flyfree
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                flyfree:
                Angelight:

                hi Lauren, nothing to feel embarrassed about. 😄 Maybe your DH's love language is not physical touch. Also, some men do not have high sex drive, so they don't usually ask their wives for intimacy. But they show their love in other ways. I'm sure your hubby shows his love for u in other ways too.

                [quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.

                If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.


                It is not easy to keep the passion flame burning through. Frenz of mine says hubby \"seem unable to release himself\" during physical intimacy, dunno what the reason. Assured her that it might be \"one time incident\", not to worry. :oops:[/quote]
                my frenz says her hubby recently attended Yoga lesson. she uncertain whether this will affect his \"performance\". :?

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                  LOLMum
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                  Laurenwkids:
                  I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.


                  If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.

                  haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:

                  am sure your marriage is fine. 😄

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                    CayennePepper
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                    Quite upset with dh now arggghhh… good to see this thread. Now I should probably try to read all 12 pages to calm myself down. Grrrrr!

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                      flyfree
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                      Do u still go "dating " with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage…

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                        Champion
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                        flyfree:
                        Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....

                        Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines! 😉

                        Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil:

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