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    How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?

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      CayennePepper
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      Quite upset with dh now arggghhhโ€ฆ good to see this thread. Now I should probably try to read all 12 pages to calm myself down. Grrrrr!

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        flyfree
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        Do u still go "dating " with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriageโ€ฆ

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          Champion
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          flyfree:
          Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....

          Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines! ๐Ÿ˜‰

          Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil:

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            kiddo
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            Champion:
            flyfree:

            Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....


            Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines! ๐Ÿ˜‰
            Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil:

            hahahhaha good one Champ .....can take bus take mrt take car go there...
            jalan jalan shop shop.... ๐Ÿ•บ ๐Ÿ•บ

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              Laurenwkids
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              Hi Angelight,


              Yes that is true but he just seems quite switched off in this aspect so I was wondering if it is normal. It has been this way since the start of our marriage.

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                Laurenwkids
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                LOLMum:
                Laurenwkids:

                I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.


                If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.


                haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:

                am sure your marriage is fine. ๐Ÿ˜„

                Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.

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                  Laurenwkids
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                  flyfree:
                  Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....

                  Yes, every Friday night is our night out. ๐Ÿ˜„ We love to go to bookstores, used to love going to Borders but now the place feels 'empty' or we would go for foot massage at Kenkos

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                    LOLMum
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                    Laurenwkids:
                    LOLMum:

                    [quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.


                    If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.


                    haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:

                    am sure your marriage is fine. ๐Ÿ˜„

                    Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.[/quote]

                    sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

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                      kiddo
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                      LOLMum:
                      Laurenwkids:



                      Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.

                      sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

                      Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
                      they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
                      seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

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                        BeContented
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                        kiddo:
                        LOLMum:

                        [quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]

                        Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.

                        sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

                        Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
                        they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
                        seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:

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