How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?
-
Angelight:
hi Lauren, nothing to feel embarrassed about.
Maybe your DH's love language is not physical touch. Also, some men do not have high sex drive, so they don't usually ask their wives for intimacy. But they show their love in other ways. I'm sure your hubby shows his love for u in other ways too. Laurenwkids:
I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
It is not easy to keep the passion flame burning through. Frenz of mine says hubby \"seem unable to release himself\" during physical intimacy, dunno what the reason. Assured her that it might be \"one time incident\", not to worry. :oops: -
flyfree:
Angelight:
hi Lauren, nothing to feel embarrassed about.
Maybe your DH's love language is not physical touch. Also, some men do not have high sex drive, so they don't usually ask their wives for intimacy. But they show their love in other ways. I'm sure your hubby shows his love for u in other ways too.
[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
It is not easy to keep the passion flame burning through. Frenz of mine says hubby \"seem unable to release himself\" during physical intimacy, dunno what the reason. Assured her that it might be \"one time incident\", not to worry. :oops:[/quote]
my frenz says her hubby recently attended Yoga lesson. she uncertain whether this will affect his \"performance\". :? -
Laurenwkids:
I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:
am sure your marriage is fine.
-
Quite upset with dh now arggghhh… good to see this thread. Now I should probably try to read all 12 pages to calm myself down. Grrrrr!
-
Do u still go "dating " with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage…
-
flyfree:
Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....
Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines!
Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil: -
Champion:
hahahhaha good one Champ .....can take bus take mrt take car go there...flyfree:
Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....
Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines!
Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil:
jalan jalan shop shop....
-
Hi Angelight,
Yes that is true but he just seems quite switched off in this aspect so I was wondering if it is normal. It has been this way since the start of our marriage. -
LOLMum:
Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.Laurenwkids:
I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:
am sure your marriage is fine. -
flyfree:
Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....
Yes, every Friday night is our night out. We love to go to bookstores, used to love going to Borders but now the place feels 'empty' or we would go for foot massage at Kenkos
Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.
Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.
With your input, this post could be even better 💗
Register Login