How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?
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Champion:
hahahhaha good one Champ .....can take bus take mrt take car go there...flyfree:
Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....
Oh Yes - our 1st dating place was Century Square @ Tampines!
Though now we are staying in the West but still will \"steal time\" to go there park tor! :evil: :evil:
jalan jalan shop shop....
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Hi Angelight,
Yes that is true but he just seems quite switched off in this aspect so I was wondering if it is normal. It has been this way since the start of our marriage. -
LOLMum:
Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.Laurenwkids:
I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:
am sure your marriage is fine.
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flyfree:
Do u still go \"dating \" with DH? visit those fav haunts which u like during those dating days & b4 marriage.....
Yes, every Friday night is our night out. We love to go to bookstores, used to love going to Borders but now the place feels 'empty' or we would go for foot massage at Kenkos
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Laurenwkids:
Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.[/quote]LOLMum:
[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.
If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.
haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:
am sure your marriage is fine.
sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao: -
LOLMum:
Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:Laurenwkids:
Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: -
kiddo:
Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:LOLMum:
[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]
Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil: -
cwc:
rsvp : Dress code :evil:
maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:kiddo:
Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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kiddo:
rsvp : Dress code :evil:
maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:cwc:
[quote=\"kiddo\"]
Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]
so maybe i should install a pole for swinging around and going up and down like nos? -
haha, thanks for all your suggestions! It makes me feel better…ya maybe I should install a pole in my room. And maybe ban him from using his computer in the room. When he sees all the financial reports, he gets so sucked in that nothing will get him back.
Have any of you been successful in ‘enticing’ your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?
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