How do you maintain your relationship with your spouse?

[LOLMum]

Laurenwkids:

LOLMum:

[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]I am a bit embarrassed to bring this up but most relationships I hear about, the husband is the one who is 'chasing' wife for physical intimacy. For mine, it is kind of the other way round. My hubby will get very engrossed with work and even at home, he would be on the laptop working away.


If I do not initiate, there will probably be no physical intimacy. I am wondering if there is anything wrong as it makes me feel rather stuck. We can get along very well but he seems switched off in that area.

haha, low sex drive might be better than high sex drive. hsd, if cant get enough at home, might look for it outside. so lsd better. :evil:

am sure your marriage is fine.

Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.[/quote]

sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

[kiddo]

LOLMum:

Laurenwkids:

Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.

sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[BeContented]

kiddo:

LOLMum:

[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]

Maybe so, I am quite assured that he is not fooling around outside but still I wish he will take more initiative in this area but I suppose I should be thankful for what I have.

sometimes i have to drop HINTS too and by the time he got to bed, i :snooze: already. :rotflmao:

Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:

[kiddo]

cwc:

kiddo:

Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:

rsvp : Dress code :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[LOLMum]

kiddo:

cwc:

[quote=\"kiddo\"]

Yes ask for it :hugs: :snuggles: sometime they forgot when what
they see on the computer be it financial stock market or whatever
seem more enticing :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

maybe you can try 'dancing' at your hubby like what numbers do :evil:

rsvp : Dress code :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]
so maybe i should install a pole for swinging around and going up and down like nos?

[Laurenwkids]

haha, thanks for all your suggestions! It makes me feel better…ya maybe I should install a pole in my room. And maybe ban him from using his computer in the room. When he sees all the financial reports, he gets so sucked in that nothing will get him back.


Have any of you been successful in ‘enticing’ your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?

[CayennePepper]

Laurenwkids:

Have any of you been successful in 'enticing' your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?

Errrr, I do that by making sure DH knows he will be losing out if he doesn't drop whatever he's doing Works quite well so far!

[kiddo]

Laurenwkids:

haha, thanks for all your suggestions! It makes me feel better..ya maybe I should install a pole in my room. And maybe ban him from using his computer in the room. When he sees all the financial reports, he gets so sucked in that nothing will get him back.


Have any of you been successful in 'enticing' your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?

bear run \"amok\" on stock market..... hang your boot up
for a while......

my DH getting me into stock and such and we were at the Suntec
stock finance fair with him .....
so we can talk shop before we doze off...instead of doing the Right thing:evil:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[kiddo]

CayennePepper:

Laurenwkids:

Have any of you been successful in 'enticing' your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?

Errrr, I do that by making sure DH knows he will be losing out if he doesn't drop whatever he's doing Works quite well so far!

撒娇 :evil:

[CayennePepper]

kiddo:

CayennePepper:

[quote=\"Laurenwkids\"]Have any of you been successful in 'enticing' your husband away from his laptop or whatever that he is engrossed in?

Errrr, I do that by making sure DH knows he will be losing out if he doesn't drop whatever he's doing Works quite well so far!

撒娇 :evil: [/quote]Whatever works! But then my dh is easily distracted lah. :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: