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[Funx3]

smartmummy:

Funx3:

No Referee Role?

no I don't,I avoid fighting so I always separate them.Sometimes if they fought I asked what happend?But I can't give any conclusion who is right or wrong.so i just hug my little one cos most of the time she cried and my elder son said she did something wrong thats why I beated her.So I scold him You cannot beat her, next time tell to mummy.But next time same happen.What can I do.So just keep quite.
My son has no patient or hot temper.My DD so friendly and soft.
Most of the time I don't want them to play together.My son only start and ask her to play with him,then I feel pity and allow them to play,5-10 mins play happily,then they have some misunderstanding then he beat her.I told him many times you cannot beat her call me.But this is continue in my house.

What is their Age Gap?

I'm Very Lucky .... My Eldest Boy Leaves his Sister Alone (When She's a teenie Baby) ....
And Gives in to her when she's in the Toddler's age ....
And in Pri Sch .... Very Protective and Takes Care of Her, even Bring her to join his Lower Sec Sch Frenz BD PArty and Outings ....
Even though they R 6 yrs apart in Age ....
:love: :love:

[kids_r_innocent]

Yah, notice that the bigger the age gap, the siblings dun tend to squabble that much but on another hand, parents will have to start the cycle of taking care another child again.


As for mine, they r 2 yrs apart and when they squabble, i will not judge who is rite or wrong.. leave it to them to settle by themselves unless it gets out of hand *need to save my sanity :boogie: *

[jedamum]

smartmummy:

Funx3:

[quote=\"smartmummy\"]I just tired and bored for more than two yrs without my DH help.I am waiting for his help.He is studying and working.So I am the one do shopping,bring kids out,house keeping and everything.At home also they are fighting outside also fighting :mad:

I do 5 Roles.
Maid
Mother
Wife
Teacher
Friend

No Referee Role?

no I don't,I avoid fighting so I always separate them.Sometimes if they fought I asked what happend?But I can't give any conclusion who is right or wrong.so i just hug my little one cos most of the time she cried and my elder son said she did something wrong thats why I beated her.So I scold him You cannot beat her, next time tell to mummy.But next time same happen.What can I do.So just keep quite.
My son has no patient or hot temper.My DD so friendly and soft.
Most of the time I don't want them to play together.My son only start and ask her to play with him,then I feel pity and allow them to play,5-10 mins play happily,then they have some misunderstanding then he beat her.I told him many times you cannot beat her call me.But this is continue in my house.[/quote]smartmummy,
did you punish your ds for beating his sister?
he should not be allowed to get away with it and repeat this sort of act especially when he is already 9yo.

mho.

[ectanz]

kids_r_innocent:

Yah, notice that the bigger the age gap, the siblings dun tend to squabble that much but on another hand, parents will have to start the cycle of taking care another child again.


As for mine, they r 2 yrs apart and when they squabble, i will not judge who is rite or wrong.. leave it to them to settle by themselves unless it gets out of hand *need to save my sanity :boogie: *

I was trapped in this kind of \"plight\" where my both dds r 6yrs apart. Imagine I need to start everything from scratch. Going thru relentlessly 2-3hrs feeding, taking care of the baby myself without any helper. No joke! However, with arrival of my dd2, really bring joy to my family especially my dd1. She really treated her mei mei as \"live\" baby doll....

My dd1 used to be alone n longing to hv sibling playing with her. This is why it changed my mindset initially to hv one only.

[smartmummy]

@ Funx3

My son 9yo and my DD6yo.

@jedamum
previously I gave punishment.nothing worked for him.He felt bad.His judgement was she was wrong.But,he loves his sister.One day, I brought him to shopping mall while his sister at school.He said is not fair to her sister if he enjoyed anything at shopping mall.Today I bought two medium fries from MC.He asked me,one for me and another for my sister?.Actually, very small he didn’t like to share.

[puff]

sleepy:

puff:

But dishwasher required a water inlet n outlet to install just like washing machine , so it's better to decide when u renovating your kitchen if not will be a bit troublesome.

Agreed! My dh is keen on a dishwasher so that he doesn't need to wash any more dishes. But water inlet and outlet problem. Also where to place the dishwasher? The only viable place we can think of is on top of washing machine. But my current washing machine is top loading. So need to change washing machine to front loading, settle inlet/ outlet issue, big project le. Kiv till current washing machine spoilt :evil:

Not too sure if dishwasher can sit on washing machine ( will the vibration fr washing machine spoilt the dishwasher :? )... Better check with the sale staff before purchase.

[MummyThreeStreams]

Even if it is technically possible to put the dishwasher on the washing machine, it would be impractical coz it would be very hard to load the dishes. You’ll need a ladder!

[puff]

MummyThreeStreams:

Even if it is technically possible to put the dishwasher on the washing machine, it would be impractical coz it would be very hard to load the dishes. You'll need a ladder!

Or a tall DH :evil:

[kids_r_innocent]

ectanz:

I was trapped in this kind of \"plight\" where my both dds r 6yrs apart. Imagine I need to start everything from scratch. Going thru relentlessly 2-3hrs feeding, taking care of the baby myself without any helper. No joke! However, with arrival of my dd2, really bring joy to my family especially my dd1. She really treated her mei mei as \"live\" baby doll....

My dd1 used to be alone n longing to hv sibling playing with her. This is why it changed my mindset initially to hv one only.

Yah.. i have my 2nd child also mainly because of my 1st child and their characters r worlds apart!!

[puff]

I have my dd2 also mainly bcoz dd1 want a sibling .... So now whenever I need help with dd2 I will tell dd1 u better help me coz u r the one who wants a mei mei.