How much u trust ur wife/husband? wholeheartedly? 200%?
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KZYPmum:
If DH is able to give me happiness, love and security, even if he strayed, I would rather not know. I believe that's true love on my part.
It's interesting to me that many people seem to take the \"I hope I won't find out as ignorance is bliss\" position. maybe we should do a poll on that.carebear:
Nothing is 100% in this world, so I trust my DH 99.9%.
Not that I distrust him, but even if he did, does or will do, I hope I won't find out as ignorance is bliss.
I certainly would want to know if something like this was going on! -
Wow~haha~all mommies n daddies here seem trust each other a lot! that s good thing~ once i trust my ex more than myself. but finally i found tat he actually didnt love me as i m. anyway,tis world is full of temptation and hypotise. as my mom say \"trust others 50% and the rest just trust urself.\" 听听就好，自己做决定。
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KZYPmum:
Ignorance is bliss to me.....
It's interesting to me that many people seem to take the \"I hope I won't find out as ignorance is bliss\" position. maybe we should do a poll on that.carebear:
Nothing is 100% in this world, so I trust my DH 99.9%.
Not that I distrust him, but even if he did, does or will do, I hope I won't find out as ignorance is bliss.
I certainly would want to know if something like this was going on!
I have told DH, if ever you have strayed and returned without my knowledge, pls do bring it to your grave.....dun ever ever let me know about it.
Why?
You can call it make-believe-happiness, but knowing myself.....the moment I get to know that something has gone wrong, it will not be easy to trust again. Emotionally it will be very damaging cos' I will be constantly doubting everything day-in-day-out, was she more demure, was she prettier, was she able to connect better, was she more intelligent etc etc. Even if it has ended, I will always be paranoid about another.....simply put, things will never be the same.
I know there are others who could forgive and move on.....but I dun think I can or will.....hence, ignorance is indeed bliss.
So I always tell DH, to think very carefully and dun take that first step to EMA if he still value the family. -
Trust has to be earned, and I think my hubby has earned his.
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I don think i will ever b able to trust 100%... early in our relationship we laid down our rules... if he has a change of heart, he is to tell me n break off things b4 proceeding... (fair to me, fair to the other party also)... if not, I will be ruthless :nunchuk: ... I m not the forgive n forget type, so I let him know the consequence in ADVANCE.. if he still thinks losing me is worth the EMA, please go ahead... it's his loss, not mine :evil: ... hahaha
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Actually I m also not the forgive and forget type. Ok, this is my plan if he ever do something funny behind my back and got caught. I get myself pregnant and then make him raise the kid and only tell the dear husband the truth only when he is 60. Ha…
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peapot:
Actually I m also not the forgive and forget type. Ok, this is my plan if he ever do something funny behind my back and got caught. I get myself pregnant and then make him raise the kid and only tell the dear husband the truth only when he is 60. Ha....
Wow talk about an eye for an eye.. You went for the eye and then went straight through to the brain :nailbite: :siam: -
call me a jaded person, but i am not the sort who trust ppl easily. experiences i had had taught me not to be guillble and be taken in easily. i do not know if this is pro or con, becos this make me a complex person too. i will think deep into it before coming to a conclusion. i wish i can be more simple -minded, then i will be happier.简单就是快乐
to me ignorance is not bliss, i rather he tell me truthfully and we make a conviction from there than to be lied at.
its not easy to trust again if the trust is broken. this is especially so when he can look at you straight in the eye and lying thru the hat.making me feel like a fool.
i do not know how long it will take to trust him again, becos i am still waiting for that day to come. -
chloecube:
Support you!!!! jiayou!!!call me a jaded person, but i am not the sort who trust ppl easily. experiences i had had taught me not to be guillble and be taken in easily. i do not know if this is pro or con, becos this make me a complex person too. i will think deep into it before coming to a conclusion. i wish i can be more simple -minded, then i will be happier.简单就是快乐
to me ignorance is not bliss, i rather he tell me truthfully and we make a conviction from there than to be lied at.
its not easy to trust again if the trust is broken. this is especially so when he can look at you straight in the eye and lying thru the hat.making me feel like a fool.
i do not know how long it will take to trust him again, becos i am still waiting for that day to come.
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If there is indeed a 3rd party and she have a child with DH, I will ask my DH to pack and leave with her. No point keeping such person by my side.
Blood is thicker than water, my family members will not desert me, but I can’t guarantee my DH will not.
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