prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her

[Flowermonaster]

Think my neighbor mentioned is whole village not just her family member kind of thing.

LOLMum:

Flowermonaster:

[quote=\"LOLMum\"]oh dear, my bad. i didnt check the date of this article with my friend before posting it except to know that it was on one or two other forums. no excuse and :booboo: as this incident happened in 08 i think.

guess the recent article about china women kinda upsets a few of my friends. i personally have nothing against china women cos' my sil is from china. but she is one of the few honest hardworking gals.

It's ok. Thanks for posting this as I have not read this before. So I was :yikes:
My neighbor's also have a PRC DIL. She seems ok to me, though her MIL commented once to me about their culture that a married daughter must return to celebrate her father's birthday & the guy's side must pay for the celebration. She asked me if I have heard of that before. I also goes :?

thanks.

culture or tradition or whatever, if it is an affordable and not too big sum, just pay it. birthday is only once a year, and it is not as if she gets to see or treat them to meals (be it festive celebration or just a weekly meal) often.[/quote]

[limlim]

jtoh:

limlim:

[quote=\"LOLMum\"]boy is sec 3 which means he is not 16 yet and she is an adult. isnt this rape? why isnt she charged in court?

maybe statutory rape doesn't apply to male? :evil:

It should. It's rape against minors. If it doesn't apply to males it's time to change our laws.[/quote]I'm not sure if SG law provides for any sexual offences against male.

Even the definition of \"rape\" explicitly states that it is committed by a MAN.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penal_Code_%28Singapore%29#Rape
[quote]\"Rape – A man commits \"rape\" when he has sexual intercourse with a woman under circumstances falling under any of the five following descriptions:\"[/quote]

[LOLMum]

Flowermonaster:

Think my neighbor mentioned is whole village not just her family member kind of thing.

:faint:

but wait if her dad is 高官, he can certainly help them get rich in china. :evil: 我的岳父是xxx, (haha dont play play)

[Flowermonaster]

LOLMum:

Flowermonaster:

Think my neighbor mentioned is whole village not just her family member kind of thing.

:faint:

but wait if her dad is 高官, he can certainly help them get rich in china. :evil: 我的岳父是xxx, (haha dont play play)

No lah, think too much. I saw their DIL's parents before. They are just normal people.

[limlim]

That is possible, in a way..


Maybe not the whole village but all relatives (which maybe almost a whole village in some cases ) ..

However, it is not any birthday, but very significant ones like 60yo, 80yo that kind.. definitely not \"every year\"..... :evil:

Also, normally they expect the children to pay, not necessarily just the SIL.. unless it is only daughter, then no choice lor..

Flowermonaster:

Think my neighbor mentioned is whole village not just her family member kind of thing.

LOLMum:

[quote=\"Flowermonaster\"]
It's ok. Thanks for posting this as I have not read this before. So I was :yikes:
My neighbor's also have a PRC DIL. She seems ok to me, though her MIL commented once to me about their culture that a married daughter must return to celebrate her father's birthday & the guy's side must pay for the celebration. She asked me if I have heard of that before. I also goes :?

thanks.

culture or tradition or whatever, if it is an affordable and not too big sum, just pay it. birthday is only once a year, and it is not as if she gets to see or treat them to meals (be it festive celebration or just a weekly meal) often.

[/quote]

[phtthp]

if your son marry a China girl, it's as good as marrying the whole village! :rotflmao:


:dowan:

50th, 60th, 70, 80, 90, 100, 110th birthday also must celebrate for them :stompfeet: :imdrowning: :?: :shock:

[verykiasu2010]

some places in china still celebrate wedding for at least 3 to 4 days, same as some towns in europe too.......party like mad ... :siao: :siao: :faint: :faint:

[phtthp]

morale of the story is:-


if you’re a Sec 3 or 4 boy, dun ever make any girl or woman pregnant, even if your male sex hormones are raging. Else pay a high price, pulling along your parents down as well.

[LOLMum]

oh, i saw the same article on asiaone today.


http://forums.asiaone.com/showthread.php?t=42613

[pinky]

can't help but wonder what happened to the boy now ? must be very traumatised and it may caused long term psychological problem :sad: