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    Ideally, how many kids would you have?

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    • corneyAmberC Offline
      corneyAmber
      last edited by

      Given all conditions the same as now.....


      After seeing my own family, I started wanting 4 when I was young and before I was married.....

      After I was married, I decided on having 2 since I was not so young anymore.....

      After I had one, I realised that there was a reason why God blessed with one.....

      So now I am content with one.....At times I contemplated zero on days that I needed some peace...... :rotflmao:

      Kudos to those who opted 6!!! :shock: :faint:

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      • B Offline
        bebebub
        last edited by

        I have 2. And if I have to decide again, I still want 2.


        After #1, we decided to stop. But when #1 start to talk to her imaginery friends, we got worried. After a 6-years’ gap, God blessed us with our second bundle of joy. We are forever thankful. For us, … 2 is good.

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          puff
          last edited by

          I would like to have 4 if I am not cramp in a tiny HDB flat 🙂

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          • happy88mumH Offline
            happy88mum
            last edited by

            hi,


            how to get boy?i would love to have boy also

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            • C Offline
              coolit
              last edited by

              When I was younger, my dream was to have 5. 3 girls and 2 boys but once I got married,

              reality struck and I had 2. But a few years ago, my hubby wanted another, we tried and
              so now we have 3 kids. I would still like 5 if I have a huge house, lots of maids to help.

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                Diesel
                last edited by

                Before I was married, i wanted to stop at 2.

                But my hubby loves more. So now we have 4 : 2 boy , 2 girls.
                And I really enjoyed it. So i think , this is ideal.

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                • T Offline
                  tigger88
                  last edited by

                  mummyo:
                  If totally no restrictions... the more the merrier! But only if guarantee can get all boys.


                  I only want boys. Luckily I've 3 and all boys. :imcool:
                  Wow, how come only want boys? And lucky you, all your kids are boys as per what you wished.

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                    sleepy
                    last edited by

                    Depending on the temper of the child. If easy going, 吃饱就睡 & 胖胖 cute cute, this kind of baby I don't mind having 10. If tantrum throwing, mood swing, hard to serve kind, 1 already more than enough


                    Ideally 3 kids would be perfect with the 3rd one having wider age gap, then mama won't suffer empty nest syndrome. But confirm now too old to give birth anymore. I will ask my brother if he can loan me one to 养胖胖 after he got married :rotflmao:

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                      Diesel
                      last edited by

                      Hahahahaha…

                      Yeah i also like tat baby baby caring period…
                      I dont mind loan baby for awhile to secure temp relief burden to mommy but then end of the day , I am gg to return back baby to mommy while i return to my nest … peacefully

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                        The Little Cheng Mommy
                        last edited by

                        I have always wanted to have two kids. One boy and one girl. However … heaven bestowed me with two lovely sons. Many people told me to try for the third one, but I’m really not keen.

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