Insecure Mummy
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Bowie:
:goodpost: :celebrate:...
Love is unlimited. And I believe every kid always have a special position for their mommy and daddy. :love: -
Bowie:
Congrats M3!
Being independent and like to explore places by herself is a good sign that ur gal is developing to a CONFIDENT Kid!!! This is very important for our kids development and usually they are able to be like this because they are shower with sufficient (I really mean sufficient and not over or under dosage) LOVE and CARE.
A baby need the love of all people, especially the caregivers in order to blossom. Don't feel jeolous in fact u should be thankful that ur in laws are willing to take care for u ur gal. Imagine some parents who have no such fortune have to leave their kids to childcare or maids....
My gal is with my in laws for weekdays cos we stayed too far away and its inconvenient to rush across the island everyday to bring her to her school. (Her sch is near my in laws so that they can fetch her when her class is over) But we play with her every evening after work and bring her home every weekend. We bring her every week to my mother's place too so that she will meet up with her uncles, aunties, my parents etc... We do all these becos we are strong believers that kids grow well in an environment fill with LOVE.
We want her to love everyone and everyone to love her. Don't feel bad. Love is unlimited. And I believe every kid always have a special position for their mommy and daddy. :love:
I like your post and thanks to everyone else who has been encouraging me. These posts have been very useful and I am gradually learning to see my mil as my partner in my gal's growing up than a competitor. I hope I will stick to this concept and belief and not start to feel jealous again. -
Good on you, M3. That’s the way to go.
Don’t worry about your kid’s "allegiance". Just love them, unconditionally, and enjoy the family support that you have - many are praying to have just that. -
Hi,
I really hope you overcome your feelings, I hope it doesn’t tie you down. I hope you don’t get upset because your feelings can get too far off from what is natural. Be strong, your child will grow up and eventually understand. You are already doing your best, love yourself more, give yourself credit for what you are already doing.
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