[Fun Poll] How satisfied are u with ur child(ren) results?

[smartmummy]

Thanks cinman!

[tankee]

smartmummy:

Hi cinman!
Where can I buy Lego Mindstorm NXT? Is that available at Toystarus?.Thanks.

see this thread

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=6374

[smartmummy]

tankee:

smartmummy:

Hi cinman!
Where can I buy Lego Mindstorm NXT? Is that available at Toystarus?.Thanks.

see this thread

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=6374

Thanks tankee!

[auntieM]

tankee:

smartmummy:

Hi cinman!
Where can I buy Lego Mindstorm NXT? Is that available at Toystarus?.Thanks.

see this thread

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=6374

Thanks tankee.. ..currently battling the Death Star.. :faint:
Think should look at more complicated stuff soon too..
:celebrate:

[Yerdua]

I’m pleasantly surprise at my ds sa2 results. They are better than what he had done with exam practices at home. I can’t wait to see the sa2 exam papers, want to gauge if the sa2 papers are easy or he really performs better this time!

[verykiasu2010]

as long as they have put in their best effort, regardless of results, we should be satisfied and happy

[24hr-mum]

hi


my gal in p3. since is she a 1 jan bb, she is youngest in class, i find it hard for her to catch up in terms of maturity that shows in compre n logic. hvnt got her final results but from wat has been revealed my guess is ave 80.

carelessness is one factor i duno how to cure. as absentmindedness is her nature, being a happy go lucky child. i cant make rewards a condition to reduce carelessness as i believe for all rewards, memory is shortlived.

she will feel sad if i dwell on the marks cos she did decently well but certainly cant compare wif some of her peers whose ave is 90 or more. i want her to be self-competitive but not calculative like her peers in the top class where kids monitor each other’s marks and scorn the losers (so bitchy right?). she is in second top class so i guess its good NOT to be in the top class given the children’s bitchyness in the elite class. u know, there are mums in the elite class who bugged other mums whr their kids got into 2nd round of gep.

anyway in comparing kids marks, we also hv to compare the sch’s exam structure and the cohort average and the top scorer’s marks. her sch eg, diff to score well cos for eg in ca2, her math ppr itslf is 88 but after adding 30 per cent daily work, dropped to 78. that means she got to be carefull all the time including daily work and the sch wont tell u whc pc of work is counted in rpt bk.

her eng exam for eg, has grammar cloze, vocab cloze and compre cloze can be all open ended (thnk so, got to chk)…they havnt test on editing yet.

[Yerdua]

verykiasu2010:

as long as they have put in their best effort, regardless of results, we should be satisfied and happy

True true! :rahrah:

[verykiasu2010]

children’s carelessness in test and exams and assignments :


they will mostly grow out of it and they move up the grades

student 1 : wah, i discovered 7 careless mistakes as i checked through the answers, and got back 14 marks!

student 2 : wah, you not only good with your work, you are also a very good checker!

[Chenonceau]

ksi:

Strparent:

cane ?

Cannot be...the son needs to consider and I don't think Chenonceau is one who uses the cane on her children, at least not for academic stuff.

CAMP? Maybe a \"drill\" camp to eliminate the carelessness? :?

:oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: He IS considering the use of cane. I do use the cane but under very structured conditions with each condition pre-defined and agreed to.

(1) Cane with Daddy as witness.
(2) Predetermined number of strokes. In this case, I propose 1 for every 2 careless mistakes.
(3) Done by the woman he loves most - me.
(4) Done in bedroom with door closed.
(5) And only if the child freely agrees.

We have used this method to cure his carelessness once in the past. This is not a method the non-psychologist parent should use. There is too much to watch out for (that I have not written here) and the negative fallout can be very bad if you dunno what to look out for.

He is considering. If he doesn't agree, I will back off, and we will see how his carelessness is for SA1 next year, and then I will ask him again if he is still careless. Meanwhile, by the mere fact that my son is trying to make a decision, he is already thinking through whatever other methods he can use to resolve his carelessness problem... and he will probably propose something soon enough.

If I do this properly, I may not even actually have to cane him at all.

I COULD have caned him for the 8 marks he lost at the recent SA2 but that would mean that it is done without his agreement... and that will create many negative consequences that are even more difficult and long lasting and undesirable than caning. The child's agreement cannot be coerced either. It has to be a true choice.