In-law problems?

[RRMummy]

Chenonceau,


:snuggles: Sending you loads of power and strong support to ease those knotted nerves... :hugs:

[buds]

Chenonceau:

buds:

YOU? Need moral support? :slapshead:

You'd smoke your way through just like you always do.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

It seriously IS scary ok.

It's the memory... the reminiscence of yesteryears tts haunting. Other than tt you ARE the gentle warrior princess who WINS, right? You definitely are brave to do this. Perhaps it's time to pin up the rules of engagement agn - how to fight n win? :evil:

I'd be stoopid to put myself in this position agn... if I can help it. Nuh-uh. No more little miss nicey budsy. Hmmmph. Get out of my life n stay out! :mad:

Strange thing always was, since I'm always doing something wrong.. ie. bad n incompetent mommy to my children.. the whale-fat, incompetent wife who can't please my husband.. an even lousy DIL who didnt even know how to respect n appease the ILs.. then why the fish has she been insisting to stay together with me? The ill-bred, incompetent, bad-everything DIL? :siao:

[autumnbronze]

Chen,


Sending some :hugs: and positive vibes to ya.

If anyone can pull through this, you can.

Best of luck and most importantly, BE and STAY positive. Don't let the MIL wipe the smile off your face :love:

[Funz]

:hugs: Chen


Remember you are no longer the doormat but the gatekeeper of the peace and happiness of your family. And after all these time, I believe your MIL too know not to trifle with you and in fact appreciate that you are a tigress when it comes to protecting your family.

[buds]

Ohh Chenonceau..


You have no need for weaponry..http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html
Nor the need for spells.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html
Nor any cause for fear or worry.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html
Your motivation sells. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

(Or rather SOLD OUT, cos so many of us bought it.. )
And we're now selling it (motivation) back to you. :hugs:

We'll camp here for any drama.. http://i44.tinypic.com/21mgqhh.gif\">
Or if there comes a need to drown any sorrows..http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html


To good days n bad, DILs unite! http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, (or worse than it was).. the present worse than it is.. and the future less resolved than it will be..”
~Marcel Pagnol~

This is what i always remind myself to do..
Like the radio station slogan said..
\"Only hear the good stuff.\"http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

[Chenonceau]

Heyyy... RRMummy, Hquek, AB, Funz and Buds.... wow... thank you all. Even if it is only the internet and we've never SEEN each other, these words are very comforting. It's nice to vent here. Hee! No one knows who I am.


:thankyou:

[schweppes]

Chenonceau:

My MIL moved in today!! I am so scared.

whoosh... whoosh.... whoosh.... :love:

we are all sending you positive vibes and energy your way :grphug:

Never fear, your ksp kakis are hear :snuggles: :snuggles:

[auntieM]

jtoh:

Chenonceau:

My MIL moved in today!! I am so scared.

Good luck!!!!

Ditto.. ...
:udawoman:

[Chenonceau]

schweppes & auntieM… thanks so much!!

[just888]

Chenonceau, jiayou!


For me, I think each of u needs to have some personal spaces. I think these days MIL are still not that bad compared to the those of my mum and grandma's era. At least more open minded, luckily my MIL belongs to this type...else I would FAINT flat. The only thing is about KITCHEN's Space arrangement that needs to workout..who is in CONTROL. So far like no 2 women can be HEAD in the 1 kitchen.
I am the assistant when I am staying at in-law's place. When they popby to ours place, the kitchen is mine, my MIL plays the assistant role.