All About Full-Time Maids

[LOLMum]

24hr-mum:

.....but no black face to worry abt.

that's the best part of being maidless.

freedom in teh house also cant beat waking up and dont have to worry about seeing black face.

[PrincessAriel]

maidless vs tiredness, i choose the latter.


Save money and save my emotions!

LOLMum:

24hr-mum:

.....but no black face to worry abt.

that's the best part of being maidless.

freedom in teh house also cant beat waking up and dont have to worry about seeing black face.

[24hr-mum]

u mean ur dh bought the 2way tix but last minute cancelled the return tix even tho no refund?

[znzyzyzx]

24hr-mum:

hi

my maid just left on friday. i paid her salary for full mths (she worked for 3 wks), gave her a handbag, brought her to ramen lunch.
guess wat, i sms on sat to ask is everything ok, she nvr reply me.
sigh, such ungrateful fellow.

May be the new employer keeps her hp ? Give her the benefit of the doubt.

[24hr-mum]

she replied me only on monday (i msged on sat nite) saying she stil adjusting

my dh say the new plc must be no gd, that’s why take so long to reply…
otherwise she will straightaway say good. wont take so long to reply cos she chks her hp every now and then even during the day when i am around, even
using facebk…during the pockets of time after major tasks are done…
welll, angmoh is not so easy to serve too. they are not asians, they may not be bothered wf taking care of their maids… its a different culture

[autumnbronze]

pqy:

Hi autumnbronze & ZuEn, tks for your assurance. After called the MOM and received your replies. Now i felt not so worry. Tq

No worries pqy :hugs:

[peapot]

Actually it’s quite true, I heard alot of cases where the maid only give black face to the wife and not to husband. I wonder why?

[LOLMum]

hoping to take the place of the wife? happened before.

[hquek]

no la. in their culture, the man is breadwinner and therefore king mah. So have to get on good books of the breadwinner. My fren kena that and that’s what she told me.

[Breadandmuffins]

24hr-mum:

she replied me only on monday (i msged on sat nite) saying she stil adjusting

my dh say the new plc must be no gd, that's why take so long to reply.....
otherwise she will straightaway say good. wont take so long to reply cos she chks her hp every now and then even during the day when i am around, even
using facebk.......during the pockets of time after major tasks are done...
welll, angmoh is not so easy to serve too. they are not asians, they may not be bothered wf taking care of their maids.... its a different culture

When they start with new employer, they probably do not dare to use the HP as often as now. I doubt mine dare to check her phone when she starts w ith new employer. I think its good for a long time maid to start all over again when they became like the queen of the house.

Not only do I faced the black face, she also does not answer me sometimes. For DH, she dare not black face nor ignore...When she goes over, I see how is she going to \"black face\"or ignore the mam....will get sack straightaway.