female friends

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Looking at the relative’s situation and with soooo much support from the aunties for the man, I really wonder…if this were to happen to their own family, would they have reacted differently? Wonder if I should start a poll on this straying thing.


If ever one of the spouse has lost interest/no longer agree/able to engage in ‘that’ activity, do you think it’s fair to allow the partner to find another outlet?

And if you are not agreeable to the spouse looking outside for relief but discovered that he/she has done so…would you kick up a fuss and come to some compromise/agreement or would you try to ignore & act blur so that the family can stay intact.

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Cotton Armour:

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[peapot]

Insider, strangely a guy friend told me the same thing. Like you, he said guys who never had fun before he marries will tend to stray. Incidentally my ex-boss is such man. He was really decent, don’t smoke or drink, don’t gamble. Go home straight after work and then IT happen. Guess the wife was pretty heart broken at age 65.

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peapot:

Insider, strangely a guy friend told me the same thing. Like you, he said guys who never had fun before he marries will tend to stray. Incidentally my ex-boss is such man. He was really decent, don't smoke or drink, don't gamble. Go home straight after work and then IT happen. Guess the wife was pretty heart broken at age 65.

Alamak :yikes: now I worry. My hubby also no smoke, come home every day after work, only drink & gamble occasionally with close friends, AND I'm his first girlfriend & we started dating quite young...... :nailbite:

[peapot]

Ha…this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has "self-discipline".

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peapot:

Ha...this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has \"self-discipline\".

Dun worry, I know it's just general thing & I also know eventually it's the guy who has to be responsible for his own action. Just that I belong to the 'high risk' category. Too bad woman can't really do it as we age faster.... & dun think young man are interested in ah-Mahs

[Sun_2010]

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peapot:

Ha...this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has \"self-discipline\".

Dun worry, I know it's just general thing & I also know eventually it's the guy who has to be responsible for his own action. Just that I belong to the 'high risk' category. Too bad woman can't really do it as we age faster.... & dun think young man are interested in ah-Mahs

They may not be interested in ah-mahs but they are interested in aunties

I think this applies more to those men who did not have an oppurtunity to be play around not those who chose not to.

Anyway unfair that women get hot flushes for menopause while men get to flirt with hot babes during their \"menopause\" :evil:

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Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict.

[tankee]

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Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict.

Meaning you are still young & beautiful right? :evil:

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tankee:

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Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict.

Meaning you are still young & beautiful right? :evil:

Ha. Perhaps Was 15yrs ago. Unfortunately, I'm starting my downhill ride & my kids pass 10yo liao. But I do find DH getting more 'charming' by the year, that's why this topic attracted