Are You Looking Forward To Chinese New Year?
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cherrygal:
Angelight... we are in same boat. DH's bro's wife is also MIL's fave DIL. Every year I see the difference in treatment and get upset. Spoils my day. I am waiting for MIL and her fave DIL to make comments on my gal then I will pounce. RRRRrrroar
I can understand comments from the fave DIL coz there no blood linkage between her and your gal. But why would your MIL pass comments on her own granddaughter!!! :? -
I belong to the MIL’s favourite type. But it is actually not fun. I do feel embarrass when pple praise me at the expense of others. And I feel ostracised by the others. And I feel isolated, though I try to jus smile n downplay things said abt me. I even try to be friendly, but don’t feel accepted by others.
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Nebbermind:
Well, my MIL is one person who brags about her fave DIL's baby (aka fave grandson) at MY gal's full month party... and guess to who... to my parents! :siao:cherrygal:
Angelight... we are in same boat. DH's bro's wife is also MIL's fave DIL. Every year I see the difference in treatment and get upset. Spoils my day. I am waiting for MIL and her fave DIL to make comments on my gal then I will pounce. RRRRrrroar
I can understand comments from the fave DIL coz there no blood linkage between her and your gal. But why would your MIL pass comments on her own granddaughter!!! :?
So this woman might just feign ignorance and start making useless comments if her DIL questions me about my gal at the reunion dinner... :rant:
No appetite to eat already... these things really make the dinner very stressful and defeats the original purpose in \"re-uniting with loved ones\". -
Lilac66:
Absolutely 100% looking forward to it. Kids are thrilled, great food at my mum's and MIL's, time with relatives, mahjong with old friends, drinking with neighbours...... :evil:
For me, I'm looking forward to it, but preparations seem more exciting than the actual day somehow. But then again, it's really not anything as enjoyable as my childhood time. <Lao Liao :sad: >
What's not to like? -
3Boys:
Hear Hear :celebrate: :celebrate:
Absolutely 100% looking forward to it. Kids are thrilled, great food at my mum's and MIL's, time with relatives, mahjong with old friends, drinking with neighbours...... :evil:
What's not to like?
Nothing more important than FAMILY and HEALTH. :love: -
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Strparent:
Hear Hear :celebrate: :celebrate:3Boys:
Absolutely 100% looking forward to it. Kids are thrilled, great food at my mum's and MIL's, time with relatives, mahjong with old friends, drinking with neighbours...... :evil:
What's not to like?
Nothing more important than FAMILY and HEALTH. :love:
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Strparent:
Hear Hear :celebrate: :celebrate:
Nothing more important than FAMILY and HEALTH. :love:
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OMG. I love CNY!!
SO looking forward to it!! A long-weekend for resting, collecting tons of angpao money and eating sweets, biscuits, drinking soft drinks, eating bakkwa and sticky cake like nobody's business. LOL
Here, I wish everyone a very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very happy and auspicious Chinese New Year!
祝贺大家新年快乐,万事如意。 花开富贵, 子孙满堂。 年年有余, 龙年行大运! -
CNY is always exciting cos it’s the only time where we meet up our friends and relatives. There are always lots of delicious home-baked cookies.
The festives mood usually comes in when I start baking New year cookies. -
insider:
yup.. :goodpost: dun take it too hard 和气生财!UncleLim:
CNY for me is tolerating relatives bull-shxttxng about how well their kids are doing. Oh.. Ah Seng is talking to investors who are interested in putting money into his internet venture (still talking after 3 years). Ah Mei runs her own design agency (whatever that means), Ah Jie's husband is high-flying ang mo, can you see my mix-blood grandson so handsome? .
hahaha...UncleLim, think you are pretty young coz for me, I kind of enjoy the above BS and boasting and then think inside my heart who can 'blow the biggest cow! Actually, I take this as part of the fun of meeting different types of relatives / friends / etc during CNY. They are predictable, aren't they?
When people start to bull and boast, I will 'cheer' along to help them to make the bubble BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGER... (so I am 'well liked' by everyone! hahaha...)
Gong Xi Fa Cai!
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