Former SCDF and CNB chiefs arrested

[sall]

Maybe one of the 2 ex-chief fathered this 1 yr-old baby.

[starlight1968sg]

aiyo, more and more stories coming from KSP…

[phtthp]

can turn into a \"Singapore James bond movie drama, with a pretty sex bomb\".


who is the mastermind behind ?

http://www.tremeritus.com/2012/01/25/former-scdf-and-cnb-chiefs-out-on-bail-pending-investigation/

[Way2GO]

phankao:

Oppsgal:

http://news.asiaone.com/News/Latest%2BNews/Singapore/Story/A1Story20120128-324386.html


Is the woman married and 36 years old, with a kid of 1year old?

Still no photo of her.

Farnee lah - some reports say she's divorced for past 10yrs and has 2 kids. And then some say she is still married and just gave birth not long. Very confusing.

Even reports fr msm's different publications don't tally.
Info coming out in dribs n drabs.
Sieve thro d info n u would get a fuller n clearer picture.

I posted something on Sat morn in dis forum (p18).

[3Boys]

insider:

PS:
'knowing' you so far as an upright person, your boys have a 'good base' to begin with. You seem also to be someone with God at heart and I trust your kids will be brought up in similar way and so the \"good\" can times two. So, don't worry about 'fox spirit' so much as your kids are likely to have good internal compass to resist the whatever that maybe coming their ways... (think positive and more positive things will happen and vice versa...)

Best wishes!

Thank you insider,
I think we all as parents try and do our best. I suspect if we were to sit down and chat over coffee we will find far more things in common than differences.

Cheers.

[kiddo]

In this century, SG high officials seem to be easily tempted

into all sort of corruption , sexual advances.....
how do Our old Guards guard against these, or do they even need to,
I think they have too much fun busy building the Nation,
they have not time to look elsewhere

Is this part of the price, we have to pay for been 1st world,
much like the 'elitism\" issue in SG , neighbourliness issue
etc......

More unfolding in the years to come in SG as we prosper,
part of the progression of a Capitalism Nation....
materialism breed discontentment and temptation? :imanangel:

:hi5:

[corneyAmber]

HVR:

ksi:

[quote=\"HVR\"]
So in every EMA it is the man at fault? Simply because they can't resist temptation? The 3rd party, the one who tempt the married man not at fault? They are not called '狐狸精‘ for nothing. Not too long ago women who got themselves involved with married man are deemed despicable. Of course such view is not to be encouraged because we cannot put the blame squarely on a single party. Ok I see that we can never agree on this and so be it. Let's not dwell on it and I agree that it is the man who must account to their family if they strayed. But I do not agree in every EMA it is ONLY the man's fault, or MORE at fault.

You did not see my, in this case, which I have carefully ensured I inserted it. As mentioned, to a family, the one who falls for the temptation will be the accountable one. If a woman falls for the temptation to ruin her family, she will be accountable. It is ok to disagree with me but to me if the one tempted knows how to acknowledge own mistake, this person will find more peace in oneself than always going after others and think oneself is victimized. Having said this, there is only one case where I would agree the \"tempted\" may not be at fault, I.e. when the person is drugged and perceived photos taken of the person intimately with the tempter, then this is purely a frame up. In this case of our 2 chiefs, the men admitted the improper relationship and the woman is single. If she is married too, then she would be at fault as far as her family is concerned. This is my objective view which is ok for you to disagree.

The woman in this case is married to a businessman husband, and she is 36 years old. And I agree with you that she is also equally at fault. If she is single and knowingly going after married man, she cannot be less at fault. In this case, bear in mind she is involved with 2 married man. It speaks volume.[/quote]Up to the discussion here, the information given was she is a divorced woman for 10 years and that would imply that she is single. A KSP parent cherrygal who seems to know her personally mentioned that 'pretty woman' has been divorced with her hubby for a long time.

Latest reports seem to suggest that the reporters want to confuse us with the woman's varying description, maybe they get a warning from CPIB for exposing her too much?

As for her involvement with 2 men speaks volume part, many has mentioned, we are not discussing to find fault with which party but rather see things from their families' perspective. There is no purpose putting blame on both parties from a 3rd party angle unless we are back to the old villagers' way of drowning adultery couples in the pig's net......and now inter-net... :rotflmao:

[Way2GO]

Morality n ethical issues aside, cut her some slack.

She has suffered gravely too in dis revelation on more than one front - CPIB, public scrutiny n condemnation; privately she has a lot of explaining to do to d father of her 1 yo.

Some in d msm oredi know her identity.
d press is gagged n d general public will not know her identity anytime soon.
Those who know her personally may choose not to reveal more.

Give her some breathing space, please.
I m more interested in d gahmen play behind dis episode.

[tutormum]

Yesterday Wan Bao stated that she's living with her businessman husband in private property in central area and has a 12 year old. Seems like she's 3 timing. Before that, it was divorced. :skeptical: From the reports, she seems to be a higher flyer and shrewd. What I don't understand is if she's getting deal for her company, how much benefits she can get unless her bonus come to millions? Then the Japanese co must be the one who benefits the most. :slapshead:

[Way2GO]

2 husbands, 2 children, fair enuf?