Parents, not enrichment centres, are key to result
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2ppaamm:
Thanks, 2ppamm! Great that you've started another thread on this! I've always wondered what other parents think of it.
kekekek.... just talking about it here. http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=31496&p=701845#p701845 -
Chenonceau:
Mine are normal kids with an abnormal childhood.
Most of us ks parents here have normal kids with abnormal childhood. :siao: that's the fact.
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DesertWind:
heh heh .... and we throw algebra back in the kids when they enter secondary school .... just when they start getting used to models, heuristics, etc ...janet_lee88:
It is absolutely crazy that school teachers are not able to help kids pass exams...I am stupid where math is concerned...son flunked maths last year for CA1 and SA1...(p5)...hubby doesn't know how to coach him...if not for my neighbor who recommended math tutor, he would have failed SA2 as well. I just cannot understand why education system has become like this :stompfeet: all the algebra we were once taught can be returned to the teacher since it cannot be used to teach our own kids anymore.
Hi janet,
Have you been dealt with the P5 blow dished out by the school? I read from other forumners that apparently schools are now scaring the wits out of the kids/parents during P5 to make them \"wake up\" and prep. for PSLE!
As for algebra, I thought last time we only learn from secondary school onwards? I like algebra, very useful until this day!
Good that your boy has found the right help and is alright now! -
Some of these posts are very scary. An ambition to send your children to university at 11 or 14??? Why?
Is education a race?
It is first to finish who wins?
I don’t understand what advantage it is for the child to be the youngest graduate from primary, secondary or university. Surely that would just place that child with other children at completely different stages of physical and mental development, out of sync and under pressure.
Surely the purpose of education is to develop a love of learning and all the skills necessary to continue learning for life?
I would think relentless pressure would turn a child off learning, would effect his or her motivation, desire and enjoyment of life.
But maybe I’m wrong?
I think a parents role (and I have 4 children, 3 of whom have completed university) is to help the child with different thinking and learning strategies, different ways of approaching their learning tasks, finding ways to study and learn that suit their particular ways of thinking, and with access to the best resources. -
Lance G. King, well said!
As adults we would like to enjoy life, so do kids too! Learning should be enjoyable too!
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SCHOOLS are scaring the hell out of kids/parents in P5.
Hubby and I were dealt a terrible blow last year…son’s subjects ESPECIALLY MATH dropped to just 38% for CA1…that drop continued until SA1. His Math homework everyday was HELL bcos he didn’t know how to solve the problem sums.
Hubby only knows algebra but he couldn’t get it across to son.
The CA1 end of this month will be another heart-attack but I am reminding myself to look at the BIG picture ie PSLE. -
Lance G. King:
Yes, that sounds most fine, but faced with current realities, that utopia is not always possible, even by parents who are trying their best to struggle against the tide.Some of these posts are very scary. An ambition to send your children to university at 11 or 14??? Why?
Is education a race?
It is first to finish who wins?
I don't understand what advantage it is for the child to be the youngest graduate from primary, secondary or university. Surely that would just place that child with other children at completely different stages of physical and mental development, out of sync and under pressure.
Surely the purpose of education is to develop a love of learning and all the skills necessary to continue learning for life?
I would think relentless pressure would turn a child off learning, would effect his or her motivation, desire and enjoyment of life.
But maybe I'm wrong?
I think a parents role (and I have 4 children, 3 of whom have completed university) is to help the child with different thinking and learning strategies, different ways of approaching their learning tasks, finding ways to study and learn that suit their particular ways of thinking, and with access to the best resources.
I suppose your children belonged to a different era, or even a different school system. Things seemed to have changed radically from the time we ourselves went to school here. -
Mychildren:
How can learning be MADE enjoyable when kids need tuition to pass exams ? My hubby doesn't even know how to solve a P5 Math problem sum even though he has NTU degree like many others here. Even when there were some problems he could handle, he doesn't know how to explain to son.Lance G. King, well said!
As adults we would like to enjoy life, so do kids too! Learning should be enjoyable too!
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janet_lee88:
SCHOOLS are scaring the hell out of kids/parents in P5.
Hubby and I were dealt a terrible blow last year...son's subjects ESPECIALLY MATH dropped to just 38% for CA1...that drop continued until SA1. His Math homework everyday was HELL bcos he didn't know how to solve the problem sums.
Hubby only knows algebra but he couldn't get it across to son.
The CA1 end of this month will be another heart-attack but I am reminding myself to look at the BIG picture ie PSLE.janet_lee88:
Oh man, I just dread the day when my kids get to this stage. janet_lee88, what are you going to do about this - is the school giving him and children in the same situation extra coaching?
How can learning be MADE enjoyable when kids need tuition to pass exams ? My hubby doesn't even know how to solve a P5 Math problem sum even though he has NTU degree like many others here. Even when there were some problems he could handle, he doesn't know how to explain to son.Mychildren:
Lance G. King, well said!
As adults we would like to enjoy life, so do kids too! Learning should be enjoyable too!
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Seriously, if I were to open a class for parents on how to teach Maths how many of you will sign up? :evil: :evil:
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