Zen 禅悟人生 -My way of Seeking a Balance life

[dolphinsiah]

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Money Can Buy Slaves But not Relationship
Money Can Buy People But not their Hearts
Money Can Buy Fish and Meat But Not Appetite
Money Can Buy Mansion But not Sleep

[dolphinsiah]

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To be patient and tolerance is to be able to keep our mind undisturbed, not angry, not wanting to hurt anyone

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[pinky]

thank you for your postings.

very wise and meaningful words to remember and to practise.

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If humans purse fame and fortune, they will be kept hostage by fame and fortune. If humans indulge in their inner desires, they will be driven wild by their desires. If humans can see through external materials and internal desires, they will acheive freedom and relief. The road to wisdom

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If one does not commit any evil at the root, the branches and the leaves will be good.If one heart is filled with kindness , then one will not be affected by temptations

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Knowledge is something anyone can acquire. As long as one is determine to learn there are no limits to knowledge.

[cfan]

Hi


Whatever can be taught, can be said.

But whether a person follows or really learns to follow it is another different thing.

There used to be this person whom I know very well who will always share this kind of teachings but in the end, this person did the most hurt to me.

Life is just meant to be an experience, we don't have immortality. Why were we here in the first place? :?

Anyway, live for the moments that we will cherish with those whom we love the most. As for those who are hurtful or mean to you, why be bothered with them? They are not the ones who care for you so why should we be bothered with them.

Hang in there!! Like I always tell my kids, \"We work hard together? OK?\"

[dolphinsiah]

I am still here today...is that I have the following responsible

a)as a parent to my 2 kids
b)as a daughter to look after my my elderly parents... :grphug:

So I must constantly remind myself with all this Roots of wisdom....
that Life Must GO on.... :nunchuk:

Not to affect Others... :roll:

To learn to forgive and let go....which I am still learning.... :rant:

I guess , in my previous life ...I must have done a lot of mean things.... :gloomy:

So this life I am made to shoulder many multi roles.....

Work until die....

No need to live until ripe age , once responsiblities are completed , money all used up ...time to return IC to the government.... :skeptical:

Do not want to be a burden to the society.... :sad:
I think 20 years from now when I am a senior citizen , I might be one of this elderly to pass away alone in the house....only to be discovered when body rots and give out a bad smell..... :sick:

I have made an AMD , in case I become unconscious....the doctors have the right to terminate my life... :faint:

I have also done the following in case I am met with a mishap:
a)nominated my CPF/Insurance/DPS
b)hold joint bank accounts with children
c)leave enough money for my elderly parents for the next 20 years...
e)requested my ash to be scattered in the sea....if possible sentosa...
f)no need to spend money to advertise in the newspaper to inform about my death...

Did not make a Will ...reason is I find Wills only benefits the very Rich.... :idea:
I am not rich...no Stocks , no expensive jewellery(all pawn already)...

Now waiting..... :imconstipated: waiting waiting :imconstipated: for my kids to be independent....

Now Life must GO ON.....rain or shine...happy or sad.... :imanangel:

[cfan]

Yup life still goes on.....

So we just try to do our best and hope for the best.....