Hwa Chong Institution (High School)
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looking4Tutor:
Why don't you just go to the school office and clarify the matter, rather than off loading your ill-feeling against the school in a public forum for days?Lion_king:
Hi Otah
I agree that they have grown up and they have to learn to be independent. However, this event supposed to be a compulsory event & we, parents r totally unawared of the last- minute changes. From our perceptive, the school should have the responsibilty to make sure that they sent the boys back to school, if not we should be notified. The truth is no one knows what will happen. What if there's a case of mishap that happen to your son? Will u still be proud of him coming back by himself? Do u think it will be much too late to point finger at either sides? Do u think the school will be responsible? Dun let it happen as 'Prevention is better than cure'. Address to the problem now, dun procrastinate !!
Lion King n needlotsofhelp, I understand yr worry ,as I have gone thru d same situation when DS was in lower sec but I personally think this is part n parcel of secondary sch life. I can safely said RI , Cedar , Spore Sport Sch and those attended the event also met with d same problems.this is d 1st time in history this events was delayed till late evening caused by d bad weather as reported by ST, so what do you expect from the organizer ? We r talking about coordinating the whole sec one boys,participants, teachers n bus drivers .
And as more events will follow so are you going to stop yr boy from joining ? All these events are usually plan by the CCA excos and seniors , PLS give them some credit ! They have to put in so much time n effort on top of their sch work n projects and EXAMS. Pls remember yr DS will be senior too n might be one to plan n organize so if something similar happen , how would u feel when other parents do not appreciate or give support to him or his group but keep putting them down? In yr work have u not have any bad experience? Ask yr boys don they feel proud for their school to sweep all the title gold n overall champion ?
And last thing if HCI is the v first choice both of you have chosen for yr boys don't you think you should give the school more support rather than condemning it? Lion King like you posted \"prevention is better than cure\" then you should not worry yr boy being \"hated\" n dont procrastinate about giving constructive feedback . There is always two side of the story so give the sch a chance to answer yr feedback .
I am sorry if I have offended anyone in this post . -
Lion_king:
[/quote]Must let the Kid opportunity to grow up , to learn how to handle situations, how to keep their cool and sort themselves out of trouble ... parent must not be over-protective at the expense of letting their child grow up normally learning .. Don't rob them of the view that the \"world\" is ever so nice .. you can be caught walking in the sunshine and the rain crashing down suddenly came out of no where .. you ask the sky why why ???Emelyn:
[quote=\"mum.com\"]
We were unsure of the route to CCK stadium so we replied our need to let him take the school bus. To be frank he has not taken any public transport b4. We r intending to let him learn to be more responsible prior teaching him to be independent; 'cause him always losing things, belongings in school. We were actually not keen to let him go for such event, firstly it'd be pretty late. Secondly, there're tons of incomplete homework & I believe that the teachers will pile them with homework even on that 'compulsory' event. None did we know that the there would be such a crop-up!!!! The parents were not informed. We were waiting in the school open- carpark. My navive son thought that he would be able to catch the public transport so as to be in School in time thus he lied to his dad that he was on
The school bus despite trying hard to search the way to the school... He thought it'll take him 10 minutes to reach HC when he was at Jurong East MRT station. It'd cause all these unnecessary alarm yet the school seemed to ignore these problems incurred. No apology was made; & it seemed like no parents had raised this concerns of safety to the School. I'm quite disappointed with the management. -
mum42:
[/quote] :goodpost: mum42, I fully agree with u!
Why don't you just go to the school office and clarify the matter, rather than off loading your ill-feeling against the school in a public forum for days?[/quotelooking4Tutor:
[quote=\"Lion_king\"]Hi Otah
I agree that they have grown up and they have to learn to be independent. However, this event supposed to be a compulsory event & we, parents r totally unawared of the last- minute changes. From our perceptive, the school should have the responsibilty to make sure that they sent the boys back to school, if not we should be notified. The truth is no one knows what will happen. What if there's a case of mishap that happen to your son? Will u still be proud of him coming back by himself? Do u think it will be much too late to point finger at either sides? Do u think the school will be responsible? Dun let it happen as 'Prevention is better than cure'. Address to the problem now, dun procrastinate !!
Lion King n needlotsofhelp, I understand yr worry ,as I have gone thru d same situation when DS was in lower sec but I personally think this is part n parcel of secondary sch life. I can safely said RI , Cedar , Spore Sport Sch and those attended the event also met with d same problems.this is d 1st time in history this events was delayed till late evening caused by d bad weather as reported by ST, so what do you expect from the organizer ? We r talking about coordinating the whole sec one boys,participants, teachers n bus drivers .
And as more events will follow so are you going to stop yr boy from joining ? All these events are usually plan by the CCA excos and seniors , PLS give them some credit ! They have to put in so much time n effort on top of their sch work n projects and EXAMS. Pls remember yr DS will be senior too n might be one to plan n organize so if something similar happen , how would u feel when other parents do not appreciate or give support to him or his group but keep putting them down? In yr work have u not have any bad experience? Ask yr boys don they feel proud for their school to sweep all the title gold n overall champion ?
And last thing if HCI is the v first choice both of you have chosen for yr boys don't you think you should give the school more support rather than condemning it? Lion King like you posted \"prevention is better than cure\" then you should not worry yr boy being \"hated\" n dont procrastinate about giving constructive feedback . There is always two side of the story so give the sch a chance to answer yr feedback .
I am sorry if I have offended anyone in this post . -
I agree that they have grown up and they have to learn to be independent. However, this event supposed to be a compulsory event & we, parents r totally unawared of the last- minute changes. From our perceptive, the school should have the responsibilty to make sure that they sent the boys back to school, if not we should be notified. The truth is no one knows what will happen. What if there's a case of mishap that happen to your son? Will u still be proud of him coming back by himself? Do u think it will be much too late to point finger at either sides? Do u think the school will be responsible? Dun let it happen as 'Prevention is better than cure'. Address to the problem now, dun procrastinate !![/quote]
Lion King n needlotsofhelp, I understand yr worry ,as I have gone thru d same situation when DS was in lower sec but I personally think this is part n parcel of secondary sch life. I can safely said RI , Cedar , Spore Sport Sch and those attended the event also met with d same problems.this is d 1st time in history this events was delayed till late evening caused by d bad weather as reported by ST, so what do you expect from the organizer ? We r talking about coordinating the whole sec one boys,participants, teachers n bus drivers .
And as more events will follow so are you going to stop yr boy from joining ? All these events are usually plan by the CCA excos and seniors , PLS give them some credit ! They have to put in so much time n effort on top of their sch work n projects and EXAMS. Pls remember yr DS will be senior too n might be one to plan n organize so if something similar happen , how would u feel when other parents do not appreciate or give support to him or his group but keep putting them down? In yr work have u not have any bad experience? Ask yr boys don they feel proud for their school to sweep all the title gold n overall champion ?
And last thing if HCI is the v first choice both of you have chosen for yr boys don't you think you should give the school more support rather than condemning it? Lion King like you posted \"prevention is better than cure\" then you should not worry yr boy being \"hated\" n dont procrastinate about giving constructive feedback . There is always two side of the story so give the sch a chance to answer yr feedback .
I am sorry if I have offended anyone in this post .[/quote][/quote]
:goodpost: mom.com, I fully agree with u![/quote]
Yo, hci 2011 Thanks but I not mom.com leh.
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Mum42, I sent u pm. Thanks!
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hci_2011:
Mum42, I sent u pm. Thanks!
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Emelyn:
They removed some slides.[/quote]Hi...where can I find the slides? MTIA[/quote]
Thanks, akaHCImom!ER:
[quote=\"mum.com\"][quote=\"akaHCImomHi Parents,
HCI has uploaded the Sec 1 Language Symposium for Parents presentation slides on HCI website. As informed by the EL n CL presenters, HCI will roll out remedial lessons immediately after the talk to help the weaker students. :salute: As stated in the last EL presenation slide, NO TUITION required! :boogie:
:scratchhead: hmmm, I was told they are not allowed to.
Anyway, it's good news that they did post on the website afterall. ^_^
Hi, I can't find this too. Anyone got the answer? Thanks! -
Hi, just wanted to clarify a few stuff about Track and Field Meet.
There was rain from about 3:30 to 5:30, and the officials at the Meet had no choice but to postpone the event. The school, forseeing that buses would come earlier than the event would end, quickly arranged for buses to come and different timeslots
The councillors and the school arranged for buses to come promtly at 6:30pm, 7:30pm, and 10:30pm for councillors. Students were given a choice when they wanted to stay until. Some students had informed their parents to pick them up at a certain time, and told the teacher about it, who promptly released them from the meet. Most students, however, left at 6:30pm.
However, the bus did not arrive at 6:30pm, even though it was arranged beforehand. Thus, the councillors and the teacher-in-charge reacted swiftly, calling the bus agency, and engaging the students. Students were also given a choice, whether to go home on their own, to get parents to fetch them, or to wait for the bus. Many students, however, did not want to wait, and thus decided to go home themselves.
These students were given directions, and were brought to the bus stop. They were told to take the bus 307 to the interchange, after which they can take either 67 back to school, or take a bus/MRT to their own homes. I find it absurd that students can lose their way with such clear directions.
It is understandable that you will be worried for your children; what if my DS gets sick because it was raining previously? What if he gets robbed in the daylight at a highly populated place? What if he gets lost, even though there are passers-by and students from other school aplenty? What if he falls down and nobody seems him, despite being in Choa Chu Kang, one of the most populated districts in the west?
These worries are definitely justifiable, but you cannot blame it on the school. If need be, the blame has to be pushed to either your DS, for wanting to go home himself, or the weather, for causing the event to be pushed later.
Furthermore, talk about homework and tests are certainly not justifiable. Councillors stayed back in the stadium till extremely late times, and some reached home past midnight. Furthermore, many of the councillors have tests, and much more homework, being at higher secondary levels.
HCI is just about grades. Take a look at HCI's latest President Scholars - their grades weren't the best, but they had displayed a beautiful sense of passion for the community, and portrayed a certain independence, which HCI has groomed in them. It is these very events, these very hiccups, which shape the character of your children.
I understand that perhaps you want HCI to inform you that they will release the students late. This is something that indeed can be improved on; they could have sent such a message, despite it being a huge logistical nightmare (taking into account that this year has marked the greatest amount of students ever brought into the stadium by HCI). However, the students were not actually released late; they could have left if they had valid reasons, such as if their parents were waiting for them.
If you have further feedback, and if you are too afraid to complain to teachers, you may always inform the school council. You can ask your DS for contacts of councillors.
My opinion of this matter
I commend HCI's council and teachers for reacting so impressively, even though there is still room for improvement. I also would like to express my heartfelt congratulations to HCI for once again attaining the triple champs, dominating the A div, B div and C div titles.
Congratulations, HCI! -
mom23:
Hi, just wanted to clarify a few stuff about Track and Field Meet.
There was rain from about 3:30 to 5:30, and the officials at the Meet had no choice but to postpone the event. The school, forseeing that buses would come earlier than the event would end, quickly arranged for buses to come and different timeslots
The councillors and the school arranged for buses to come promtly at 6:30pm, 7:30pm, and 10:30pm for councillors. Students were given a choice when they wanted to stay until. Some students had informed their parents to pick them up at a certain time, and told the teacher about it, who promptly released them from the meet. Most students, however, left at 6:30pm.
However, the bus did not arrive at 6:30pm, even though it was arranged beforehand. Thus, the councillors and the teacher-in-charge reacted swiftly, calling the bus agency, and engaging the students. Students were also given a choice, whether to go home on their own, to get parents to fetch them, or to wait for the bus. Many students, however, did not want to wait, and thus decided to go home themselves.
These students were given directions, and were brought to the bus stop. They were told to take the bus 307 to the interchange, after which they can take either 67 back to school, or take a bus/MRT to their own homes. I find it absurd that students can lose their way with such clear directions.
It is understandable that you will be worried for your children; what if my DS gets sick because it was raining previously? What if he gets robbed in the daylight at a highly populated place? What if he gets lost, even though there are passers-by and students from other school aplenty? What if he falls down and nobody seems him, despite being in Choa Chu Kang, one of the most populated districts in the west?
These worries are definitely justifiable, but you cannot blame it on the school. If need be, the blame has to be pushed to either your DS, for wanting to go home himself, or the weather, for causing the event to be pushed later.
Furthermore, talk about homework and tests are certainly not justifiable. Councillors stayed back in the stadium till extremely late times, and some reached home past midnight. Furthermore, many of the councillors have tests, and much more homework, being at higher secondary levels.
HCI is just about grades. Take a look at HCI's latest President Scholars - their grades weren't the best, but they had displayed a beautiful sense of passion for the community, and portrayed a certain independence, which HCI has groomed in them. It is these very events, these very hiccups, which shape the character of your children.
I understand that perhaps you want HCI to inform you that they will release the students late. This is something that indeed can be improved on; they could have sent such a message, despite it being a huge logistical nightmare (taking into account that this year has marked the greatest amount of students ever brought into the stadium by HCI). However, the students were not actually released late; they could have left if they had valid reasons, such as if their parents were waiting for them.
If you have further feedback, and if you are too afraid to complain to teachers, you may always inform the school council. You can ask your DS for contacts of councillors.
My opinion of this matter
I commend HCI's council and teachers for reacting so impressively, even though there is still room for improvement. I also would like to express my heartfelt congratulations to HCI for once again attaining the triple champs, dominating the A div, B div and C div titles.
Congratulations, HCI!
Welcome mom23 to KSP. Your very first post on the first hour after joining KSP. Just curious, how do you know so much of the details? -
VeryKSMum:
Hi VeryKSMum, my DS is a student who attended the event, and he was very angry when he saw the post, and he told me everything that happened... He doesn't want me to say who he is though!
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