A child in Indonesia named after you ?
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UncleLim:
Can your friend share secret on handling maid or not...many people here got monster maids...your friend just lucky or got good technique??Yes. That is right.
My friend's domestic help flew back to Indonesia because her sister gave birth to a baby boy.
My friend received a phone call from the family over there to ask if they have his permission to name the baby boy after him as a gesture of their gratitute to him.
Isn't that nice ? -
i dont like it but i will let her decide.
no copyright
to a name. -
aiyoh:
Can your friend share secret on handling maid or not...many people here got monster maids...your friend just lucky or got good technique??
My friend and I both have our own domestic helpers for more than 10 years. I guess it is a 2-way thing. They are treated like family, with respect and concern. -
UncleLim:
i also got friend who treat maid like family for ten years....she give birthday present ..big ang pow on new year ...bring go holiday..(many more things too long to write)..aiyoh:
Can your friend share secret on handling maid or not...many people here got monster maids...your friend just lucky or got good technique??
My friend and I both have our own domestic helpers for more than 10 years. I guess it is a 2-way thing. They are treated like family, with respect and concern.
Maid go home after 10 years ...my friend cry ...cannot stop
She cry not because maid go home ....and she lose a family member.
She cry because she found maid has been stealing from her..... all these years!!!
She cry because she don't believe how this happen ..she has been treating her like her own family -
aiyoh:
:rotflmao:
i also got friend who treat maid like family for ten years....she give birthday present ..big ang pow on new year ...bring go holiday..(many more things too long to write)..
Maid go home after 10 years ...my friend cry ...cannot stop
She cry not because maid go home ....and she lose a family member.
She cry because she found maid has been stealing from her..... all these years!!!
She cry because she don't believe how this happen ..she has been treating her like her own family
Your friend maid Indon or Filipina?
I heard so many similar stories. My mum's maid almost 10 years. Mine 4.5 years. I wonder if it'll be like that for us too when they go back. I was just discussing with my mum a month ago about what will happen to my maid when she grows old since she is not married. My mum's reply, \"you and your children take care of her lor if she work so long. Like family already\". -
I try not to get a maid with the same name as my family and good friends.
Imagine if my mum is Marie, maid also Marie.... :yikes:
But if nasty il, then maybe okay :rotflmao: -
Dnls_mum:
filipina one .......
:rotflmao:aiyoh:
i also got friend who treat maid like family for ten years....she give birthday present ..big ang pow on new year ...bring go holiday..(many more things too long to write)..
Maid go home after 10 years ...my friend cry ...cannot stop
She cry not because maid go home ....and she lose a family member.
She cry because she found maid has been stealing from her..... all these years!!!
She cry because she don't believe how this happen ..she has been treating her like her own family
Your friend maid Indon or Filipina?
I heard so many similar stories. My mum's maid almost 10 years. Mine 4.5 years. I wonder if it'll be like that for us too when they go back. I was just discussing with my mum a month ago about what will happen to my maid when she grows old since she is not married. My mum's reply, \"you and your children take care of her lor if she work so long. Like family already\".
uncle say do 2 way is correct .....my friend do one way aledy ...but maid no do 1 way also......maid take but no give
friend no maid now -
I treated maid like family member, even bring her to restaurant to eat set meal costing $60++ each, bring her to church every Sunday, loan her money for her father’s operation for heart problem, trusted her completely … in the end, found out that she stole big time from us!!! So treating maid like family member will not guarantee that maid will be good or faithful to you. Though I do believe there are maid who will reciprocate, I am one of those who met with one who is ungrateful. So disappointed.
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Dazzle:
I treated maid like family member, even bring her to restaurant to eat set meal costing $60++ each, bring her to church every Sunday, loan her money for her father's operation for heart problem, trusted her completely .... in the end, found out that she stole big time from us!!! So treating maid like family member will not guarantee that maid will be good or faithful to you. Though I do believe there are maid who will reciprocate, I am one of those who met with one who is ungrateful. So disappointed.
Even my boss will not take me out on a $60 ++ meal. This maid of yours should have stayed at least 10 years with you.
Just can't figure their way of thinking. we want to be nice but why can't they just reciprocate. They have nothing to lose and all to gain. -
That’s why I am so disappointed. Subsequently, I stopped bring maid out for dinner in expensive restaurants. I also no longer trusted them wholeheartedly.
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