Mummy LOLMum: Another new Kiasu Parent Member

[fightingmom]

LOLMum:

Also it is ridiculous having to drag ds along everywhere I go.


Many times I got to pick dd up after school activities (sometimes not in school) and happened to rain heavily, yet got to bring him along. Just don't feel safe.

Also when I fell sick recently and got to spend the nite in hospital, though my sis and brother were there for me, I can't rely on them as and when I need help.

But cooking is still the biggest factor in our decision to get a helper.

Frankly speaking, I don't really cook very well too. I quit my job about 2 years ago to be a SAHM to coach my DD. So usually our meals is a mixture of my home cooked meals and some take-outs...

One thing though - DH and DD are always very supportive of my cooking especially in the early days where the dishes were either too salty or chow da type

Whenever i try cooking a new dish, DH will bravely be the first one to taste for me :rotflmao:

So... how's your helper now ? U mentioned u fetching her today right ?

[LOLMum]

So far so good. Very independent type.

[fightingmom]

LOLMum:

So far so good. Very independent type.

Should i say \"good Luck\" ? :nailbite:

[auntieM]

LOLMum:

So far so good. Very independent type.

Lucky Gal...

[LOLMum]

:thankyou: to all.



just one day, felt like i had been to zoo with ds and his classmates (and it wasnt easy on the zoo trip).

i am praying every day for good relationship between us.

[LOLMum]

dead tired. it was so hot this morning.


the boys had fun, the mums like crazy aunties chasing after them. some classes were so well behaved. mine :yikes: :faint: .

after the previous event, i should have known better. but was thinking in the previous event, there were only 2 mums and 1 teacher to 30 kids, this time 6 mums and 1 teacher to 30 kids should be better.

no no, boys..................... :faint:

really got to :salute: those who have more than 2 boys at home.

i think i better stop pestering dh for another one.

[LOLMum]

though i am not that keen to have a helper at home.


but shucks, it is so shiok to not to have to cook, clean up after a tired day out.

i really must be very tired cos' i fell asleep at 9+ yesterday. my usual bedtime is past 11 - 3 am.

gonna bed soon. :snooze: all.

[fightingmom]

LOLMum:

though i am not that keen to have a helper at home.


but shucks, it is so shiok to not to have to cook, clean up after a tired day out.

i really must be very tired cos' i fell asleep at 9+ yesterday. my usual bedtime is past 11 - 3 am.

gonna bed soon. :snooze: all.

Nite, nite and sleep tight !

[LOLMum]

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April 21 2012

I loved bonding with my son and it naturally resulted in him being seen as a mummy's boy.

Like most young boys, he went through the phase of not allowing his mother to hold his hand while crossing the road.

I told him that by holding my hand, he was actually being a man, helping and protectiong me from the traffic.

After that, he never fail to hold my hand whenever we were out, up till the age of 23.

One day, when we were in Toa Payoh, he saw some female friends and told me he wanted to say hello to them.

I thought he would release my hand, but, on the contrary, he held it even tighter.

He did not let go, even after introducing me to his friends and having a short conversation with them. I felt like a little girl holding onto my daddy's hand.

Now, I miss his rough and warm hand. He was one of those unfortunate five men who did not make it home from Cambodia after the dragon boat race. My beloved son, whom I am proud of, was Reuben Kee En Rui.

Patsy Kee

:sad:

[fightingmom]

This is so sad ! :sad:


Read this while browsing at a bookshop not too long ago:

On the Brevity of Our Ties
Ties in this world lasts only for a time.
We are husband and wife, parent and child,
for a shorrt period only.
Once this reality sinks in,
we cannot help treasuring
each moment of our brief association.

:grphug: