Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[Sun_2010]

buds:

I hafta agree with 3Boys that young girls these days aren't as innocent we think they are. Not all of course. Just overheard some girls from a reputable n hottest school in CCK discussing which girl had done it with whom and it is common knowledge amongst them, schoolmates! :faint: They should be around P5/P6! Before we left to take the bus, heard one girl calling her mom saying she's going home to study and sleep and told her mommy to wake her up for dinner. No, I bet the mother doesn't know.

Yes girls are not so innocent physically but they are emotionally. Today they have greater access , freedom , and less supervision - all the more reason that they need protection by law.

The girls mentioned - did they have the maturity to think thru their act?
Do they know who is the one who is truly going to be hurt in the end?
They think they are smart - can fool mum, they are cool - can do adult stuff, they think they are brave beause they dare - but DO they do they really realise what they are upto ? I dont think so .

If some men decide to take advantage of them - how easy , just how easy it would be? especially if there were no onus on the men.

[Sun_2010]

Nebbermind:

cfan:

For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”

― Mother Teresa

But not everyone believes in God. :evil:

Right like me.
But I believe in Mother Teresa. ( even got her autograph :imanangel: )

[hokkiengirl]

You know, I regret checking out her identity. I admit, I didn’t think of her as a person. It was the kaypoh-ness in me rising up. I didn’t check out the Edison Chen et al photos when the news broke because I thought i didn’t want to be a part of that circus and humiliate the women involved further. Next time, I will think a lot harder before accessing some news. For all her wrongdoings, she is a person, and she’s probably freaked out right now.


Ok, this is quite maudlin, but if she ever reads this, I would like her to know this: you can still change. All hope is not lost. Face the consequences of your actions and go on to live an honourable life. It is difficult but it can be done! I, for one, no longer condemn you and I believe you can change.

[KSP]

her photos are being circulated.... just a word of caution for those who have recevied them, the police can trace through emails or messages if they want to.... so pls do not forward....

[Chenonceau]

KSP:

her photos are being circulated.... just a word of caution for those who have recevied, the police can trace through emails or messages if they want to.... so pls don't not forward....

Those who violate this gag order, are YOU not breaking the law too?

[peapot]

After awhile when this blows over, don’t think people will remember her. This reminds me of previously a gal from temasek poly called Tammy. She had sex with her boyfriend in her bedroom and everything was recorded in the Hp. The Hp was lost and the video went viral. Wasn’t that a big news too? We were also wondering how is she gonna cope. But I can tell you right now I don’t even remember her face.

So I believe the same thing will apply to this case.

[3Boys]

Sun_2010:

The girls mentioned - did they have the maturity to think thru their act?
Do they know who is the one who is truly going to be hurt in the end?
They think they are smart - can fool mum, they are cool - can do adult stuff, they think they are brave beause they dare - but DO they do they really realise what they are upto ? I dont think so .

If some men decide to take advantage of them - how easy , just how easy it would be? especially if there were no onus on the men.

Well, it seems pretty one-sided to me. Loads of sympathy for pretty egregious behaviours, and the men....all predators yes?

Men taking advantage? I wonder....

I know where you and Chen stand on this, and I know where I stand, and so be it. But I know if my boys get entrapped (God forbid) in the future, despite everything I do, then they are culpable and face up to the music, but I'm not buying 'innocent naive girl' story for a single second.

[limlim]

Way2GO:

limlim:

I don't hv credible source.. only saw those on HWZ.

Mebbe those from the bike forum ones seems more \"credible\".. (in some ways lah..).. but I can't access.. :sad:

Ah, I saw dis post after I posted a reply to ur other post.
OK, gd u r being honest abt it.
I don't read HWZ unless someone refers to it in their posts.

If its impt to u, pm me.
But I will not provide d info if u r just being curious.

the only thing impt to me is I don't regard un-substantiated rumours as facts, that's all.

why so many pple seems to believe fully when pple just put up a picture and says \"she's the one\" etc..

[Funz]

peapot:

After awhile when this blows over, don't think people will remember her. This reminds me of previously a gal from temasek poly called Tammy. She had sex with her boyfriend in her bedroom and everything was recorded in the Hp. The Hp was lost and the video went viral. Wasn't that a big news too? We were also wondering how is she gonna cope. But I can tell you right now I don't even remember her face.

So I believe the same thing will apply to this case.

We may have forgotten, but do you think the girl can so easily forget the things that were said about her?

We, can move on as it has no impact on us, we are unaffected as we are not involve. But did we stop think about how our words would affect these people and their families? All most of us wanted to do was to dig out the identity of the girl and find out all the juicy bits and gossip.

[Chenonceau]

3Boys:

Sun_2010:

The girls mentioned - did they have the maturity to think thru their act?
Do they know who is the one who is truly going to be hurt in the end?
They think they are smart - can fool mum, they are cool - can do adult stuff, they think they are brave beause they dare - but DO they do they really realise what they are upto ? I dont think so .

If some men decide to take advantage of them - how easy , just how easy it would be? especially if there were no onus on the men.

Well, it seems pretty one-sided to me. Loads of sympathy for pretty egregious behaviours, and the men....all predators yes?

Men taking advantage? I wonder....

I know where you and Chen stand on this, and I know where I stand, and so be it. But I know if my boys get entrapped (God forbid) in the future, despite everything I do, then they are culpable and face up to the music, but I'm not buying 'innocent naive girl' story for a single second.

That is because you don't have daughters. Pushed to the extreme, the image of women (and young girls) as Temptress is an excuse to perpetuate all sorts of atrocities towards women... including female genital mutilation so that women will not experience sexual pleasure.

All through my 20s and up to late 30s, I've had my fair share of indecent propositions from men (without actively strategising for it). It was unpleasant and irritating at some points... and contributed to low grade stress that I thankfully no longer need to deal with.

The view from a mature woman's perspective is very different. It does not mean it has no validity... and it does not mean you are wrong. Thankfully, we have hokkiengirl, sun, funz etc... who CAN represent the perspective of mature women with duaghters, because if this thread contained only the male perspective, it would be a very one-sided thread.