Mummy buds' Heyloo all!

[Pris.011283tang]

buds:

IT'S BEEN A CRAZZZZZYYY FEW DAYS! AAARGGHHH!


Tearing hairs awrite! :frustrated:

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: dont forget we are all here :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah: u on ok take good care of urself.

[fightingmom]

autumnbronze:

buds:

I was carrying the boys today.. yap.. boys. Cos both were demanding attention at the same time.. and i felt something gushing. I bled a little. Hmmm.. should i worry? I have stopped putting on the paddies/liners cos i hate them and they give me blisters.. plus i find that the bleeding seemed to have stopped. Nothing painful that i can't handle. Just a little sore in the lower abdomen that's all. It's the third or fourth time including just now. Not bleeding profusely laa just blotchy patch kind. One more week before i finally finish confinement i think. How many days issit aniwaes? My girlfriends have warned me that the uterus/womb has not fully recovered and by right still cannot do heavy chores and carry the babies. But reali bo pian cos i pao everything.. how? :scratchhead:

Sweetie :hugs:

This one don't play play. Please monitor and do not, I repeat, do not carry both kiddos at the same time again. You need to take care of yourself first to take care of your boys. Your womb is still recovering. My massue told me it takes at least 6 mths for it to fully recover.

Take care :snuggles:

Yup! Totally agree with autumnbronze ! You have to take good care of yourself cos your 4 kiddos need you !

Don't exert yourself too much ! :grphug:

[Pris.011283tang]

autumnbronze:

buds:

I was carrying the boys today.. yap.. boys. Cos both were demanding attention at the same time.. and i felt something gushing. I bled a little. Hmmm.. should i worry? I have stopped putting on the paddies/liners cos i hate them and they give me blisters.. plus i find that the bleeding seemed to have stopped. Nothing painful that i can't handle. Just a little sore in the lower abdomen that's all. It's the third or fourth time including just now. Not bleeding profusely laa just blotchy patch kind. One more week before i finally finish confinement i think. How many days issit aniwaes? My girlfriends have warned me that the uterus/womb has not fully recovered and by right still cannot do heavy chores and carry the babies. But reali bo pian cos i pao everything.. how? :scratchhead:

Sweetie :hugs:

This one don't play play. Please monitor and do not, I repeat, do not carry both kiddos at the same time again. You need to take care of yourself first to take care of your boys. Your womb is still recovering. My massue told me it takes at least 6 mths for it to fully recover.

Take care :snuggles:

i wanna :spank: :spank: you already u are anemic lei CANNOT carry both together lei what if u faint :nailbite: :nailbite:

You have to really let your body fully recover before doing too much carrying of heavy things hor.

[buds]

I mentioned to hubs that this time the demands and needs from everyone is overwhelming tt I hardly have time to look after myself. Even if I have helper, still must help. As it is, u chiong like dunno what oso oredi exhausted.. some more if bb attitude like today lagi jialat.. So like he oredi cannot take it.. (feel fed-up) with the persistent crying and non-cooperativeness what more a stranger. :scared: she throw bb down from window lei.. :nailbite: Cannot anyhow leave and happily go to work. Plus I so sad to leave chubs at home. Haven't had enough time with him.. Tigger88 was right! I HAVE SEPARATION ANXIETIES! And I haven't started work/left home yet! Just the thought of it makes me sad.


Plus lazy (to work) oso. :politebleah:

[Pris.011283tang]

buds:

I mentioned to hubs that this time the demands and needs from everyone is overwhelming tt I hardly have time to look after myself. Even if I have helper, still must help. As it is, u chiong like dunno what oso oredi exhausted.. some more if bb attitude like today lagi jialat.. So like he oredi cannot take it.. (feel fed-up) with the persistent crying and non-cooperativeness what more a stranger. :scared: she throw bb down from window lei.. :nailbite: Cannot anyhow leave and happily go to work. Plus I so sad to leave chubs at home. Haven't had enough time with him.. Tigger88 was right! I HAVE SEPARATION ANXIETIES! And I haven't started work/left home yet! Just the thought of it makes me sad.


Plus lazy (to work) oso. :politebleah:

Morning morning :snuggles: :snuggles: :snuggles: yes and u have it double also, like i always say i :salute: u, take good care of urself eat more red meat ok.
i am awake so early because today is judgement day for ds not gona be late and dh is going to drive me to macs first then to school he better pray hard.

[fightingmom]

buds:

I mentioned to hubs that this time the demands and needs from everyone is overwhelming tt I hardly have time to look after myself. Even if I have helper, still must help. As it is, u chiong like dunno what oso oredi exhausted.. some more if bb attitude like today lagi jialat.. So like he oredi cannot take it.. (feel fed-up) with the persistent crying and non-cooperativeness what more a stranger. :scared: she throw bb down from window lei.. :nailbite: Cannot anyhow leave and happily go to work. Plus I so sad to leave chubs at home. Haven't had enough time with him.. Tigger88 was right! I HAVE SEPARATION ANXIETIES! And I haven't started work/left home yet! Just the thought of it makes me sad.


Plus lazy (to work) oso. :politebleah:

Take one thing at a time. Ask for help (hubby, any close friends or relatives) if you feel really overwhelmed and don't be stubborn trying to dong all the way. Maybe you want to consider a part-time helper to assist you in the daily chores - laundry, washing, cleaning and ironing - she can come say twice a week. Just a suggestion.

Then at least you can rest more and concentrate on your children.

Take care, buds!

[buds]

Thanks fightingmom. :snuggles: I'm not fighting help if I can geddit. Both our parents work. My dad helps a lot most times. Take the girls out. Sometimes chubs get to join too now that he is older, easier to manage.. Come over n play with the children.. Invite us all out mall-hopping and makan.. Or ferry us around if i need his help (we too poor to get a car).. but that is if he's not working. Today, he accompanied us preschool recce-ing. I set appt to visit one this morning. I have my work cut out for me, for chubs literally held on to buddha's leg thru out. :faint: Oh boi...


I took up a fren's recommendation for part time helper last mth.. and the lady wasn't bad at all.. very efficient. But I suppose if it's to last in the long run, a full-time helper is what we really need. So that life does not just revolve around the house and the children! I am guilty of having used to think that SAHMs with helpers are either really pampered or spoilt brats (shao nai nai) ... but I suppose in off-cases... it CAN be a need as well. A necessary help to ensure the home mechanics run smoothly.

[boringmum]

buds:

I mentioned to hubs that this time the demands and needs from everyone is overwhelming tt I hardly have time to look after myself. Even if I have helper, still must help. As it is, u chiong like dunno what oso oredi exhausted.. some more if bb attitude like today lagi jialat.. So like he oredi cannot take it.. (feel fed-up) with the persistent crying and non-cooperativeness what more a stranger. :scared: she throw bb down from window lei.. :nailbite: Cannot anyhow leave and happily go to work. Plus I so sad to leave chubs at home. Haven't had enough time with him.. Tigger88 was right! I HAVE SEPARATION ANXIETIES! And I haven't started work/left home yet! Just the thought of it makes me sad.


Plus lazy (to work) oso. :politebleah:

Can understand what you are going through now. Me hor 2 onli with a maid already pulling my hair out! I cannot imagine how I would be able to cope with 4 and without a helper at that!
You go girl! You are one strong woman! We will surely be cheering you on girl! :rahrah:

[boringmum]

Forgot to give you one big hug.

Here you go, sista :hugs:

[buds]

Thanks boringmum.. :snuggles:


So, have you tried to be more interesting or are you still boring people around you?

:siam: