Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[iFirefly]

phtthp:

firefly38:

I remember him to be a quiet and mature guy then..

hmmm .... quiet and mature guy .... still waters run deep.

20 years ago he tried to date you, but you rejected turned him down ?
he must be disappointed back then.

No lah, he was my sister's classmate then.. I only met him a few times.. He stood out among the other guys (in my eyes), as he looked rather serious.. As you know, guys are most attractive when they are ''seriously at work''...

I was in an ALL-girls secondary school then, very shy wan, so I only dared to see (& admire) from far... :oops:

[iFirefly]

fightingmom:

I just watched the Chinese News broadcast... The reporters were all waiting for P to be released and when he came out .. My gosh ! I think he aged much and was unshaven.


When the reporters asked him what will he be doing next, he replied he will concentrate on his family and that it is not possible to return to the education sector.

All the best to him and his family. Hope they can move on now. :please:

I got a shock too, when I saw him in the news tonight.. His hair had turned grey and he seemed to have aged overnight.. Suddenly, I felt sorry for him, as I just learnt that he was someone I have met some 20 years ago... :sad:

[phtthp]

Yes, he has aged a lot, within these 4 weeks inside Changi.

hope some kind organization can help offer him a new job.
no matter what, the past is already past.

[magiccastle]

Ya. He aged a lot. But now at least a free man n can move on. Not like the rest, still waiting for trial n judgement.

He handled the media well n portrays as a man that can bear full responsibility. With his positive mindset n leadership quality , he will still be 一条好汉. He will still shine in whichever area he is in. May be can be a counselor to the inmates! :boogie:

[janet88]

phtthp:

Yes, he has aged a lot, within these 4 weeks inside Changi.

hope some kind organization can help offer him a new job.
no matter what, the past is already past.

I was shocked to see how haggard he looks now. He can never go back to education industry again. Picking up pieces now is harder than the 4 weeks inside. Still, he is the bravest to face the music. The other men still worrying about their fate.

[phtthp]

magiccastle:

He handled the media well n portrays as a man that can bear full responsibility. With his positive mindset n leadership quality , he will still be 一条好汉. He will still shine in whichever area he is in. May be can be a counselor to the inmates! :boogie:

agree!
think he's going to be a great man one day.
a picture speaks a thousand words. His face shows remorse and repentance.

perhaps someone kind & influential can hire him to be a counsellor to counsel prison cell inmates. Or tap upon his leadership skills, give him another new job of opportunity, acquire another new skill. When one door is shut (Primary school education sector), God from above somehow will open up a new window of opportunity for him.

just like Moses fled after he killed an Egyptian, by accident. Moses hid
in the wilderness, became a shepherd looking after a flock of sheep. Moses thought he was going to be a shepherd his entire life, living a life in humility. But No ! God has higher plans & higher calling for him. God want him to be Israelites leader - lead the suffering, enslaved Hebrews out of Egypt, under the cruel Pharaoh king of Egypt. God gave Moses ... a new life, a new hope.

[magiccastle]

That's remind me of David n Solomon . Both cannot resist the temptation of lust. But David repent n asked for forgiveness from God. Contrast with Soloman.. 1000 wives n concubines .... :yikes:

[phtthp]

in Joseph case -

Portiphar’s wife seduced him. When her husband out of town, she lured Handsome go to bed with her. "Come, Handsome! Come & sleep with me. I give you my body. " The man was tempted. But what did Joseph do ? He fled from temptation!

recall ex SCDF case -
when the 3 women were tempted to go bed with him. "Come, Pretty! Come & sleep with me. I give you Tender contract. " The women were tempted. They should have fled ! They should have followed Joseph’s example. Then their reputation, career would not be destroyed today.

[janet88]

phtthp:

recall ex SCDF case -
when the 3 women were tempted to go bed with him. \"Come, Pretty! Come & sleep with me. I give you Tender contract. \" The women were tempted. They should have fled ! They should have followed Joseph's example. Then their reputation, career would not be destroyed today.

The women involved are high flyers. I presume they are capable to hold senior positions. Besides, they are married (except 1). Do these women really have to sleep with that man to get contracts. Wonder their husbands are able to accept. One even slept with him 7 times. How are these women going to move on ?

[phtthp]

janet_lee88:

Do these women really have to sleep with that man to get contracts ? Wonder their husbands are able to accept. One even slept with him 7 times. How are these women going to move on ?

No, they don't need to sleep with him.
But because they slept, they destroyed their own career with their own bare hands.

Which husband forgiving enough to accept ?
esp. when entire world knows about what his wife had done, including even the number of times she slept with him, & the oral sex / actual sex done inside the car parked in the car park is ... too much humiliation for any husband to bear.

Which company will employ them ?
wherever they go -
even if they meet potential company clients, even clients would have heard about them. Clients lose respect of you. They form an impression of you quickly in their mind. How to carry on business conversation discussion, if client is decent type, not \"ti ko pek\" type ?