Former SCDF and CNB chiefs arrested

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Melodies:

How can it be Gay's wife exposed the affair? This ex-CNB chief's wife appeared in court with him and show the whole world that she is standing by him and even told reporter that she believed in him.

another guessing possibility is .... Ah Gay's wife can't tahan / tolerate anymore, started to confide in somebody whom she trust. (can be a close friend or relative) It is emotionally very painful for any married woman to stomach all these.

But this somebody can't keep secret. Accidentally leak out secret to someone else (\"Shhhhhh .... i tell you something promise me you keep to yourself, don't tell other people, ok ? \") Then news begin to spread like fire, from A to B to C to D ... eventually into the ears of Gay's enemies .... waiting eagerly for a chance to pounce on his weakness - who quickly seize advantage of situation, someone influential enough to blow whistle loudly create public attention blow up matter, shame CS publicly.

Being childless for some time, there is also a huge gaping hole in their married life. Each go about doing their daily life activities. Nothing to bond them together. eg: fetch child for enrichment lesson(s).

however, refer to News quote:-
\"CS thinks she has done nothing wrong. She felt she had done no wrong.\"

2 possibility:-

i) if CS \"felt she had done no wrong\", and if is indeed true that she had been wrongly / falsely accused - then whoever blow whistle loud loud owe her a public apology. Must apologize to her in public, for hurting her reputation.

ii) however if what they published about her is true, then she shouldn't have done all these. After all, she is the wife of someone else, plus the fact that she is a mother of a young kid to that someone else. She is accountable to both husband and child. Now the child still small. But when the child grow up one day, the child will question her, \"Mum, why did you do these ... that hurt Dad & I ?\"

now the case is still pending investigation.

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janet_lee88:

Sad for the mum...what to do? Son is the one who never think of consequences. So be prepared to lose everything bcos of a woman.
If the wife really blew the whistle, she must be very pissed off.

40 years ago, even if the son is one of the top PSLE scorers (that time no GEP yet), his mother can't see so far down the road ... what's going to happen to her son when he reach aged around 46 ?

pondering upon this ... perhaps from a young tender age, those of us who have sons, we mothers start educate our sons from young about the danger of women. Can tell them or let them read about many real \"live\" stories of how a number of top brillant people' career had been destroyed .... either by lust initiated by themselves, or by women who lure them in. So that when they grow up, they don't fall or walk into the same trap.

[friendship]

QUOTE: Ng, 46, allegedly obtained sexual gratification on four occasions from Sue between June 2011 and December 2011.UNQUOTE


could be another possibility, CS being fresh divorcee with young child, was looking another man. She might want a deeper relationship with Gay such as divorcing his current wife. Could be the young boy adored Gay and bugging him to be his new ‘daddy’.

CS could be bugging him, appearing in front of his colleagues, calling Gay’s cellphone in the middle of the night. Macam ‘Fatal Attraction’ show.

It is just an internal problem between 2 women.

[phtthp]

friendship:

Could be the young boy adored Gay and bugging him to be his new 'daddy'.

Yes, possible.
since Ah Gay is childless, he may not mind being a new 'daddy' to the young kid.

[janet88]

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janet_lee88:

Sad for the mum...what to do? Son is the one who never think of consequences. So be prepared to lose everything bcos of a woman.

pondering upon this ... perhaps from a young tender age, those of us who have sons, we mothers start educate our sons from young about the danger of women. Can tell them or let them read about many real \"live\" stories of how a number of top brillant people' career had been destroyed .... either by lust initiated by themselves, or by women who lure them in. So that when they grow up, they don't fall or walk into the same trap.

If we educate our sons about the danger of women, what will he think of women? We mothers are women too. Our boys will not understand.
Parents can only advise sons to be faithful and loyal to wives...vice versa.

[Imami]

Agree with Janet_lee88

[janet88]

Imami:

Agree with Janet_lee88

Thank you.
If I educate my son to be wary of women, he will think that all women are scheming lot. Can't possibly tell him, 'son, be careful of women.' Knowing him, he will ask me, 'so do I have to be careful of you too?'

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Imami:

Agree with Janet_lee88

Thank you.
If I educate my son to be wary of women, he will think that all women are scheming lot. Can't possibly tell him, 'son, be careful of women.' Knowing him, he will ask me, 'so do I have to be careful of you too?'

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: your son is very candid, very real.

I think if my son is older and the same is said to him, he would have said something similar. Teaching something more balanced may be a better option. Who knows, maybe ah boy has blessed life, all the women in his life are good to him. Then he would start to wonder,\"mama bluffed me....\" :rotflmao:

[janet88]

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, ‘don’t make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.’ Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It’s just not him to say such a thing.

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, 'don't make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It's just not him to say such a thing.

Heheheh... My hubby only tell son this 'don't make mummy angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' :rotflmao: it's true, mummy is fierce, my child would tell u that.