Former SCDF and CNB chiefs arrested

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QUOTE: Ng, 46, allegedly obtained sexual gratification on four occasions from Sue between June 2011 and December 2011.UNQUOTE


could be another possibility, CS being fresh divorcee with young child, was looking another man. She might want a deeper relationship with Gay such as divorcing his current wife. Could be the young boy adored Gay and bugging him to be his new ‘daddy’.

CS could be bugging him, appearing in front of his colleagues, calling Gay’s cellphone in the middle of the night. Macam ‘Fatal Attraction’ show.

It is just an internal problem between 2 women.

[phtthp]

friendship:

Could be the young boy adored Gay and bugging him to be his new 'daddy'.

Yes, possible.
since Ah Gay is childless, he may not mind being a new 'daddy' to the young kid.

[janet88]

phtthp:

janet_lee88:

Sad for the mum...what to do? Son is the one who never think of consequences. So be prepared to lose everything bcos of a woman.

pondering upon this ... perhaps from a young tender age, those of us who have sons, we mothers start educate our sons from young about the danger of women. Can tell them or let them read about many real \"live\" stories of how a number of top brillant people' career had been destroyed .... either by lust initiated by themselves, or by women who lure them in. So that when they grow up, they don't fall or walk into the same trap.

If we educate our sons about the danger of women, what will he think of women? We mothers are women too. Our boys will not understand.
Parents can only advise sons to be faithful and loyal to wives...vice versa.

[Imami]

Agree with Janet_lee88

[janet88]

Imami:

Agree with Janet_lee88

Thank you.
If I educate my son to be wary of women, he will think that all women are scheming lot. Can't possibly tell him, 'son, be careful of women.' Knowing him, he will ask me, 'so do I have to be careful of you too?'

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Imami:

Agree with Janet_lee88

Thank you.
If I educate my son to be wary of women, he will think that all women are scheming lot. Can't possibly tell him, 'son, be careful of women.' Knowing him, he will ask me, 'so do I have to be careful of you too?'

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: your son is very candid, very real.

I think if my son is older and the same is said to him, he would have said something similar. Teaching something more balanced may be a better option. Who knows, maybe ah boy has blessed life, all the women in his life are good to him. Then he would start to wonder,\"mama bluffed me....\" :rotflmao:

[janet88]

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, ‘don’t make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.’ Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It’s just not him to say such a thing.

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, 'don't make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It's just not him to say such a thing.

Heheheh... My hubby only tell son this 'don't make mummy angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' :rotflmao: it's true, mummy is fierce, my child would tell u that.

[friendship]

May be advise our boys when we start to notice girls calling, whatsapp, sms them. From there, we can advise not to be a two-timer if decided to go a deeper relationship with a girl.


Also must think whether the girl can take care of us as parents-in-law.

[janet88]

friendship:

May be advise our boys when we start to notice girls calling, whatsapp, sms them. From there, we can advise not to be a two-timer if decided to go a deeper relationship with a girl.


Also must think whether the girl can take care of us as parents-in-law.

I hope my daughter can take care of me...hard to relate with daughter-in-law. Better not go on, this will lead to in-laws issue.
As for 2-timing, I will advise my son not to do such a thing if he already has a serious gf.