Former SCDF and CNB chiefs arrested

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Imami:

Agree with Janet_lee88

Thank you.
If I educate my son to be wary of women, he will think that all women are scheming lot. Can't possibly tell him, 'son, be careful of women.' Knowing him, he will ask me, 'so do I have to be careful of you too?'

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: your son is very candid, very real.

I think if my son is older and the same is said to him, he would have said something similar. Teaching something more balanced may be a better option. Who knows, maybe ah boy has blessed life, all the women in his life are good to him. Then he would start to wonder,\"mama bluffed me....\" :rotflmao:

[janet88]

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, ‘don’t make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.’ Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It’s just not him to say such a thing.

[Imami]

janet_lee88:

Hi Imami,

My hubby always tells son, 'don't make women angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' Seriously doubt my hubby will ever tell his son in future never have affair. It's just not him to say such a thing.

Heheheh... My hubby only tell son this 'don't make mummy angry, because when you do, you are in trouble.' :rotflmao: it's true, mummy is fierce, my child would tell u that.

[friendship]

May be advise our boys when we start to notice girls calling, whatsapp, sms them. From there, we can advise not to be a two-timer if decided to go a deeper relationship with a girl.


Also must think whether the girl can take care of us as parents-in-law.

[janet88]

friendship:

May be advise our boys when we start to notice girls calling, whatsapp, sms them. From there, we can advise not to be a two-timer if decided to go a deeper relationship with a girl.


Also must think whether the girl can take care of us as parents-in-law.

I hope my daughter can take care of me...hard to relate with daughter-in-law. Better not go on, this will lead to in-laws issue.
As for 2-timing, I will advise my son not to do such a thing if he already has a serious gf.

[phtthp]

better don’t rely on daughter in law.

[BeContented]

Will tell both DS and DD…

two-timing is wrong.
EMA is wrong.
S b4 marriage is wrong.

But I also know that no matter what I say, eventually the decisions are theirs to make when they are adult. Consequences are theirs to bear as well.
To me…it’s clear cut. Be responsible for own actions.

[AC_Power]

Just buy your son 倚天屠龙记。 Point to him the last words of 殷素素 to 张无忌 will do.


I guess in this case, can’t really blame the women too. I read in other forums that CS’ boss is a former policeman and is good friend to NBG as well. Juicy news is that the boss might also be having an affair with CS and pimping CS to his old friends who are now high up in the ministry.

So is CS doing it with the blessing from her boss?

[AC_Power]

Imp75:

Cecelia was my sec school classmate so I hv known her for many years. I am sorry to hear that she's in a bad press like this. What if it is just an ema and she really liked the guy?

Yes, I heard they already know each other way before the alleged offence took place, way back in 2009?

What's worse is that the boss of Cecelia is an ex policeman and supposedly good friend with NBG. He might be the link between the two.

In any case, if you are still close to her, offer her some comfort if possible. If NBG claim trial, her ordeal is only going to get worse.

[Way2GO]

AC_Power:

Just buy your son 倚天屠龙记。 Point to him the last words of 殷素素 to 张无忌 will do.


I guess in this case, can't really blame the women too. I read in other forums that CS' boss is a former policeman and is good friend to NBG as well. Juicy news is that the boss might also be having an affair with CS and pimping CS to his old friends who are now high up in the ministry.

So is CS doing it with the blessing from her boss?

U mean KHE, who heads JPS in Oracle?
Pimping is a serious allegation.