Club 2010 Kids

[Ymom]

ectanz:

Previously my dd1 was taken care by my MIL till she was around 5 yo. Really 有苦难言。 she is very stubborn and refused to take any suggestion or opinion. She insisted on her own way. At that time, my dd1 was really severely under-weight, not even 7kg when she was 10mo. Her pediatrician advised to consume more frequent feed in milk and solid foods. But my MIL insisted that drinking milk not as gd as porridge. Her porridge contained of liver, intestine, all funny things which my dd1 didn't like to eat n MIL has difficulty of feeding her. Same porridge for 3 times a day. At that time, my dd1 really 抗拒 of eating porridge. Dh told her many times but refused to listen. Although I hv tough time of looking after dd2 myself but as least I'm totally in- charge without MIL intervention.

My dd2 will be going to Kindergarten next Jan. Hopefully she is ready toilet trained by then :xedfingers:

Sigh...家家有本难念的经...my mom has her share of stubbornness, DS was coughing for some time, told mom not to give him any cold stuff, she gave him ice kacang behind my back, I din know it till he threw up with the jelly stuff and when I asked mom, her answer was 'oh...I eat ice kacang and he wants it mah, so I only gave him some red bean lor', then I said 'but these are not red bean that he threw out!' she just commented that 'oh, I just gave him some of the ice kacang stuff' :stupid: her excuse was 'he wants it wat, cry if I dun give'...and give him banana which I told her the last time when he cough not to give, this time round she said 'he go and get it himself, and b4 I knew it, he was already eating it, and since he is already eating it, if I take it away from him, then he will cry.... plus you said not to give the last time he cough, but never said this time mah!' :slapshead: ...dun get me started with her choice of food for DS when she is out...sigh....but she is ok if she dun go out and stay at home cook for my DS.(home cooking is always the best, except the part where I ask her not to add any seasoning to DS's diet and her reply was tasteless, how to expect her to eat

Good for you! though you have hard time looking after your DD2(which I can image) but at least MIL is out of the way, even if her intention is good, but unless she sees her problem, else, it's your DD's suffering...

Wow, you already started toilet training your DD2? I thought of toilet training DS but think it's a bit tough to do it only during weekend, so just thinking, haven't start yet...any tips & tricks to share? like how to start?

[ectanz]

Hi Ymon, not yet but trying…my greatest dread is to toilet training. Previously my dd1 I believe MIL did train her when she was less than 1 yo, she can go witnout wearing diaper when she was 18mo n totally off diaper (even night time) when she was 2yo. However I heard fr my friend that can try to let them wear training pant. It is waterproof ( not too sure whether inside or outside) but it’s avoid messiness. Maybe will buy n try out…

[Ymom]

ectanz:

Hi Ymon, not yet but trying..my greatest dread is to toilet training. Previously my dd1 I believe MIL did train her when she was less than 1 yo, she can go witnout wearing diaper when she was 18mo n totally off diaper (even night time) when she was 2yo. However I heard fr my friend that can try to let them wear training pant. It is waterproof ( not too sure whether inside or outside) but it's avoid messiness. Maybe will buy n try out...

Hi Ectanz,
Your DD1 so smart, can go w/o diaper so soon, my fren's DD is already 3+yo but still very dependent on diaper. Pls share after you try...Thanks in advance!

[ectanz]

Ymom:

ectanz:

Hi Ymon, not yet but trying..my greatest dread is to toilet training. Previously my dd1 I believe MIL did train her when she was less than 1 yo, she can go witnout wearing diaper when she was 18mo n totally off diaper (even night time) when she was 2yo. However I heard fr my friend that can try to let them wear training pant. It is waterproof ( not too sure whether inside or outside) but it's avoid messiness. Maybe will buy n try out...

Hi Ectanz,
Your DD1 so smart, can go w/o diaper so soon, my fren's DD is already 3+yo but still very dependent on diaper. Pls share after you try...Thanks in advance!

Ya, agreed my dd1 indeed very \"advance\" in term of toilet training n hence really save alot on diaper. As for my dd2, I think will not be as advance as her sister. Do already then juz pull her diaper n will nod her head if I ask her whether she passed Mxxxxx in her diaper. My friend will pass her son's training pants to me. According to her this training pant is unisex. Will try n share with u....

[Karenthk]

Hi,


I am new here, hope to join in the discussion.
My son is born in Aug 2010.

[mom2girls]

Hi - I am new here - I have a DD born in 2010. would like to join in and get to know y'all better I am SAHM but looking for work now...any advice?

[Ymom]

Karenthk:

Hi,


I am new here, hope to join in the discussion.
My son is born in Aug 2010.

:welcome: Karenthk :welcome:

My son is born in Dec, 4mths younger than your son.

[Ymom]

mom2girls:

Hi - I am new here - I have a DD born in 2010. would like to join in and get to know y'all better I am SAHM but looking for work now...any advice?

:welcome: mom2girls :welcome:
So you are sending your DD to childcare after you found a job? or someone else is helping you to look after her? Won't U miss her if you rtn to work? I still remember my 1st day to work after I used up all my maternity n AL, I missed my boy so much that I can hardly work...

[BC22]

HiHi - I am new here - I have a bb born in 2010. would like to join in.




:thankyou:

[Thenun7]

Hi! I am new here too! I have a girl born in 2010 and am thinking of sending her to playgroup soon.