Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[phtthp]

from now on, we shall call him our korkor, \"Piano Shi Fu\" Master !

:salute:

korkor, can we hear you play some piano pieces for us ?

[peapot]

janet_lee88:

peapot:

Back to the discussion, its true that its quite hard to forget. 5 mins pleasure may give rise to years of pain. Personally I pity the wives and I wonder what went wrong. Were the husband having mid-life crsis? have they lost their heads? I see these men in the papers look like the goody sort of men. If they are my neighbours, its pretty hard to imagine their personal life would be like this.

Not necessary to give birth at 19 to still look like older sister...maybe ate a lot of birds nest or tonics :evil:

Hubby told me when men (most, not all are like that) have money, they tend to itch ...it's true in a way bcos they either have women flitting around them or opposite.
These rendezvous are definitely very shiok for the men...obviously they will not think of the wives.

Actually so far all the men in the paper who is involved, all so average looking and goody sort of men. Especially the shaw guy. The wife so much better looking than him. I haven't seen a handsome man getting involved in this over the years. Handsome men are immune or what???

[buds]

I have to agree with you peapot! :salute: I had that same observation. No hamsome man cos hamsome ones (+- the $$$ factor)... click fingers, ten may beckon. Most of those involved perhaps can only dream of getting a wife that hawt (17yr old prostitute) or even get those model chiobu types to even so much as glance at them... these can be fulfilled by paying the price. Literally. (in their case) :roll:

[peapot]

maybe handsome men don’t even need to pay!!

[sacredmusicals]

Dreamaurora:

Time for this korkor to give his opinion, if not later all the jie jie mei meis here all think all the men run away. :rotflmao:


Before I married my wife now, I often wonder why a lot of married men strayed and have affairs. So I asked myself a list of possible scenarios that may happen after I got married and lead me to stray:

1) Will I get irritated if my wife nags at me?
2) Will I lose the freedom I have now as a bachelor?
3) Will I regret that I met women who I think will be better fit than me than my wife after marrying her?
4) Will I somehow think my wife as less 'attractive' than now?
5) Will I entertain or fantasize the thoughts of dating other women secretly?

And so on...

And fast forward a few years later, after almost 4 years of marriage and an one month old son now. Now I can answer all those questions now. And the answer to all of them is: YES. But never did once in these years of marriage I even think of betraying my wife. Why? Because I approached the marriage not to fulfill my needs, BUT to fulfill my wife's needs. Both of us also went for marriage preparation course (non-Christian one) and the course reaffirms both our beliefs that marriage is never about self-gratification. When our Reverend solemnized our marriage, I made the vow in front of her, our families, and God to take care of her until death do us part. And I really mean it. My wife, reading all these scandals, said to me she actually would not mind that if I go out and eat other 'abalones' secretly. As long she is not aware of it can already. But I can't even bear to even start thinking of such actions. If I do it, I know I will be letting her down and I will never be able to face her again. I love my wife more than ever now. Sure, the feeling is different from the burning passions and emotions that marked our dating days, but I accept that each phase of life heralds newfound joy; there is no point chasing after the good things of yesteryear. But I will forever treasure all those happy and sad memories that we went through together as a couple. And I want to keep making these memories with her as a family until either one of us pass away.

Hear! Hear! This post should be compulsory reading for all men planning to marry. :goodpost:

[sacredmusicals]

buds:

I have to agree with you peapot! :salute: I had that same observation. No hamsome man cos hamsome ones (+- the $$$ factor)... click fingers, ten may beckon. Most of those involved perhaps can only dream of getting a wife that hawt (17yr old prostitute) or even get those model chiobu types to even so much as glance at them... these can be fulfilled by paying the price. Literally. (in their case) :roll:

The prostitute hot? :scratchhead: Hmm, from my observation chiobu women like to get less attractive men partners. Maybe feel more secure that lesser women will woo their men?

[janet88]

Imami:

Some men have the programme \"infidelity\" installed in them. Those are probably the kind that all women should sat off to avoid ending up with broken hearts. But well, love is blind.

Some men are not suitable to get married.
Since these men have 'Infidelity software' installed in them, they should not break women's hearts by getting married. That Gay's wife really shouldnt accompany him to court. He doesn't seem to show slightest remorse. Idiotic fella.

[buds]

Dreamaurora da ge... after the supposedly much talked abt 7-yr itch (marriage)... you come back here report. :salute:


In the meantime... I think both you and your wife are blessed to have one another.

Btw, religion has never really been an obstacle for some/these men to have one night stands or flings. An acquaintance of mine shared that a couple her sister counseled... the hubby was extremely pious. Prays without fail. Volunteers regularly. Contributes $ to his institution of faith. A true family man. A doting husband.

Before his supposed pilgrimage, he bared all to his wife who bore him five beautiful children that he had been frequenting prostitutes to satisfy his unfulfilled fantasies that he never cared to burden her with...

While still trying to recover from that long well kept secret of abt 25yrs.. the hubby spilled another. He promised the wife that he would never patronize prostitutes upon returning from their pilgrimage together.... but he wanted to have a LAST one before they left.

:faint:

[fightingmom]

buds:

Dreamaurora da ge... after the supposedly much talked abt 7-yr itch (marriage)... you come back here report. :salute:


In the meantime... I think both you and your wife are blessed to have one another.

Btw, religion has never really been an obstacle for some/these men to have one night stands or flings. An acquaintance of mine shared that a couple her sister counseled... the hubby was extremely pious. Prays without fail. Volunteers regularly. Contributes $ to his institution of faith. A true family man. A doting husband.

Before his supposed pilgrimage, he bared all to his wife who bore him five beautiful children that he had been frequenting prostitutes to satisfy his unfulfilled fantasies that he never cared to burden her with...

While still trying to recover from that long well kept secret of abt 25yrs.. the hubby spilled another. He promised the wife that he would never patronize prostitutes upon returning from their pilgrimage together.... but he wanted to have a LAST one before they left.

:faint:

What !!! :mad: :stompfeet: :rant:

[fightingmom]

Sometimes I really wonder about this phrase : 男人不坏、女人不爱！how true is that , huh ?!