You are not special
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nansk:
As parents, we need to inculcate humility and a reasonable degree of selflessness in our children.[/quote] :hi5:
I think that in all developed societies, there is a danger of the young, pampered generation having a sense of entitlement. There have been many threads on this forum and letters to the editors of local newspapers about rude/selfish teens. And this is an Asia-wide phenomenon (in all major Asian cities).
[quote]as parents, we need to reinforce in our kids that they are special in their own rights
I will tell my kids, they are special only to us (daddy & mommy) and they will not be above others nor anymore special than someone else cos every child is special to his/her own parents.
Humility is a must and I also agree on the need to have a reasonable degree of selflessness. I have met people who told me that it's perfectly fine to teach their children to be selfish and fight for rights. They are not harming anyone...... :shock: :scared: :faint: -
tuition_czar:
Lol yes, I always thought that poster's tagline was a bit strange. But I think what they mean in terms of \"leader\" is not just a commander, but a leader in their own field, like a subject matter expert. Plus they are looking for regulars (which are mostly commanders)!Just like the SAF declaring proudly in its recruitment poster: Every soldier a leader.
So no followers or foot soldiers I guess. -
I think what he said reflect the real world. Shall let the kids see the real world rather than with a tinted lenses.
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Good wake up call for young adults who have been brought up with superlative praises. Excellent ! Well done ! You are the man ! You are the best ! Nothing is gonna stop you !
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You are special and precious. Learn to love yourself so that you can love others.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zeb-k-XzaI&feature=related -
One English teacher had a message for this year's graduates of Wellesley High School in Wellesley, Mass.: They aren't special.
good post!!! :imcool:
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