About Puberty - Boys

[Ichigokun]

eyktay:

Interesting to have this thread.


But I think the sex education in school is just all theoretical, thus parents still need to support to know what is being taught & talk to the kids personally.

Recently, I've noticed that my 12yo's son seem to get erection rather often. One day, he told me that he feels quite uncomfortable. Being a female, it started my journey to learn more abt boys puberty, asking friends who had older kids, surfing internet & of cos talking to my hub. With all these, I armed myself with some knowledge to reinforce the info that school shared. Why it happens? How it happens? Till when it happens? Am glad I learnt more too.

I think sometimes in school, the boys may only know it, but will not really know how it feels till it hits them. So stay by your kids & support accordingly.

As for masturbation.....hmmmm, this topic I've yet to find out more but keen to know how parents will share this topic with your child.

DH & I would want to encourage SPORTS to my boys to \"burn off energy\". Boys at this age have abundance energy, thus need to channel it to the right place, else when bored, one may channel it to \"pleasure\" oneself 7 get addicted.

More parents share pls.....let's learn & nurture our kids tog.

I don't find myself having abundance energy, I wake up every morning feeling like some dead person going to school.

My parents don't talk to me about all this. It gets both sides VERY awkward...

Moreover I don't even like... well, you know... fap (another phrase for m****).

I don't even have the ability to do so even if I want to. Wonder how those people do it :X

LOL. Just being curious. Don't label me as a perverted person asking how do you masturbate.

[Ichigokun]

Sushiqueen:

Hi Parents


Can share about your DS puberty ... how did you handle him and help him through during ... I just found out my DS 13 had started to masturbate :oops:
Spending so much time in the toliet ... :censored:
Exam period can revise halfway then disappear and stay in the toliet for ages !
I am in a mixed up feeling ... sign not my baby DS anymore not the pure sweet pie like before ...
Can you share share here... :nailbite: can tell me more so that I can be more understanding or tolerants ... :nailbite:

Sure is masturbate or not? Don't jump to conclusions if you haven't walked into the toilet and saw him doing that.

Maybe he's just having constipation recently that's why he's in the toilet for so long :X

[Flowermonaster]

Ichigokun:

Sushiqueen:

Hi Parents


Can share about your DS puberty ... how did you handle him and help him through during ... I just found out my DS 13 had started to masturbate :oops:
Spending so much time in the toliet ... :censored:
Exam period can revise halfway then disappear and stay in the toliet for ages !
I am in a mixed up feeling ... sign not my baby DS anymore not the pure sweet pie like before ...
Can you share share here... :nailbite: can tell me more so that I can be more understanding or tolerants ... :nailbite:

Sure is masturbate or not? Don't jump to conclusions if you haven't walked into the toilet and saw him doing that.

Maybe he's just having constipation recently that's why he's in the toilet for so long :X

My DS also spent long time in toilet. He will read book/papers while doing his \"business\". :frustrated:
So may be your DS studying hard while doing his \"business\"?

[Ichigokun]

@Flowermonaster;


Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

Save time

[Flowermonaster]

Ichigokun:

@Flowermonaster;


Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

Save time

Hi Ichigokun, it's actually not very healthy to do that but I am not going to nag because I am guilty of that too. :oops:

[Ichigokun]

Flowermonaster:

Ichigokun:

@Flowermonaster;


Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

Save time

Hi Ichigokun, it's actually not very healthy to do that but I am not going to nag because I am guilty of that too. :oops:

Sometimes in the morning when my parents keep asking me to wake up to go to school. I'm really tired and they keep nagging. So I go into the toilet to sit on the toilet bowl and sleep for another 5-10 minutes. XD

Of course sleeping on the toilet bowl isn't as comfortable as sleeping on the bed lah... but... just sleep lor. LOL

[CalvinS]

Puberty can cause you to have lots of different feelings and emotions. Talk to people you trust, including your parents who have been through this before. This can help you cope with the changes you are experiencing. Stay away from alcohol, drugs and tobacco. All of these can harm your body and are addictive. A friendly reminder from a dad

[sagittaurius]

Hello my 11 year old old just let me sign consent form for the sexuality education in school. They doing to start the topic in term 2. I wonder what does the school really teach? And is it better for the dad to explain rather then mum like me. I can be open minded but things like wet dream I can’t explain much. Anyone can advise?

[foodandflights]

guide him along the way and be honest with his thoughts

[foodandflights]

It helps to know about the changes that puberty causes before they happen