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[Flowermonaster]

Imami:

Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

[Imami]

Flowermonaster:

Imami:

Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

:evil: :evil: I am more evil, I just explain to him that no matter a new didi or meimei, he would need to share them with mummy. Mummy can't carry him anymore as mummy will need to carry the younger one. Mummy will give him one whole ice cream because he won't be sharing with mummy anymore, since mummy will share with the younger one. Almost immediately, he made up his mind - no didi or meimei. :rotflmao:

[Flowermonaster]

Imami:

Flowermonaster:

[quote=\"Imami\"]Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

:evil: :evil: I am more evil, I just explain to him that no matter a new didi or meimei, he would need to share them with mummy. Mummy can't carry him anymore as mummy will need to carry the younger one. Mummy will give him one whole ice cream because he won't be sharing with mummy anymore, since mummy will share with the younger one. Almost immediately, he made up his mind - no didi or meimei. :rotflmao:[/quote] :yikes: :rotflmao:
Yap that will definitely wipe him out of any idea of having a sibling. My DS :rotflmao removed that idea when he heard from classmates how bad it was to have siblings competiting with them for toys, parents attention & loves.:

[lilychong3]

Good morning everyone,


I am new in the kiasuparent.com. have been surfing around and found this thread with parents having the same issue as me. One child issue.

My girl was from 2nd pregnancy and 3rd pregnancy was a pair of boy/girl twins which we lost them on 27 weeks and almost lost my life on the surgery table, last pregnancy no heart beat at 8th weeks.


To this point, we finally concluded that we are not fated with with more children. We rest our case and gave up. Now we just concentrate nurturing this only 1 daughter

[Flowermonaster]

lilychong3:

Good morning everyone,


I am new in the kiasuparent.com. have been surfing around and found this thread with parents having the same issue as me. One child issue.

My girl was from 2nd pregnancy and 3rd pregnancy was a pair of boy/girl twins which we lost them on 27 weeks and almost lost my life on the surgery table, last pregnancy no heart beat at 8th weeks.


To this point, we finally concluded that we are not fated with with more children. We rest our case and gave up. Now we just concentrate nurturing this only 1 daughter

Hi lilychong3, welcome to this thread. So sorry to hear that about your miscarriage.
So how old is your daughter now? Are you FTWM or SAHM?

[lasery2k]

Hi everyone,


i am new around. Currently only got a 2 years old boy. Hubby keep asking for a second child but i keep rejecting due to a tramatise first preg and after preg…more or less due to enviroment and $$ issue. recently the little fellow also start to tell mi he want a didi…but i will tell him mummy want a mei mei wor…he will start to get angry n scream around the hse that he wants a didi…he don’t want mei mei…n he will go on for a min or 2 stomping around the house n tell everyone he wants a didi…=.=!!..duno did my hubby psycho/ brain wash him into that…

[Flowermonaster]

lasery2k:

Hi everyone,


i am new around. Currently only got a 2 years old boy. Hubby keep asking for a second child but i keep rejecting due to a tramatise first preg and after preg..more or less due to enviroment and $$ issue. recently the little fellow also start to tell mi he want a didi...but i will tell him mummy want a mei mei wor...he will start to get angry n scream around the hse that he wants a didi..he don't want mei mei...n he will go on for a min or 2 stomping around the house n tell everyone he wants a didi...=.=!!...duno did my hubby psycho/ brain wash him into that...

If my DS said that i will .
Like tat how huh? We r not GOD leh... How to ensure it's a didi?
Lasery2k, if you can, do have more.... Don't wait until it's too late... Like me. :sad:

By the way, :welcome:

[fightingmom]

Flowermonaster:

lasery2k:

Hi everyone,


i am new around. Currently only got a 2 years old boy. Hubby keep asking for a second child but i keep rejecting due to a tramatise first preg and after preg..more or less due to enviroment and $$ issue. recently the little fellow also start to tell mi he want a didi...but i will tell him mummy want a mei mei wor...he will start to get angry n scream around the hse that he wants a didi..he don't want mei mei...n he will go on for a min or 2 stomping around the house n tell everyone he wants a didi...=.=!!...duno did my hubby psycho/ brain wash him into that...

If my DS said that i will .
Like tat how huh? We r not GOD leh... How to ensure it's a didi?
Lasery2k, if you can, do have more.... Don't wait until it's too late... Like me. :sad:

By the way, :welcome:

lasery2k,

If it's your DH psycho or brain wash your ds, tell your DH - he is the \"deciding\" factor ... Not you (do you get the drift ?) :evil:
So the ball is now in his court.

And I agree with Flowermonaster, 2-3 years of gap between siblings is rather good... If you and your DH are ready, you should go ahead to try to have another.

[lasery2k]

ya, coz the boys genes in the family is very very strong. so more or less can guage the next 1 99% will be a boy also…if kana girl really must be bless until cannot bless le. the family got his 2 elder sister, eldest sis is bless with 3 boys, second sis is 1 girl 1 boy. Mine also a boy.


i always throw the ball back to him n say if u can provide for the gynae fees n everything donit a single cent i fork out then i will give birth again…if not let’s stuck with 1 (shot gun).

totally tramatise with the first preg…i paid for every damn thing which the kid need and until 1 year ago things start to get better. long story short which includes $, DH, IL and maid. if really wanna rant out i think can write 3 pages essay in monster IL + monster DH.

[auntieM]

:rahrah: Hiya lasery2k..

Glad things are working out for you..
Can drop by our ILs thread to rant when you feel like telling your story..