teacher under probe for sex with male student
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It makes me shudder to read the recent articles on educators being charged for such incidents. They ought to be good role models for their pupils and now this is happening.
On the other hand, think families and schools need to instill values as it still takes 2 hands to clap -
Sometimes as parents, we can guide and coach till we drop, kids just have a mind of their own.
The more parents tighten and force to instill, the more the kids would shut them out, sometimes from the inside…
For kids of this age in a top school, parents could certainly give advice and options and warn them of the consequences of the choice they make.
Why are the parents becoming the focus on this? I just doubt this student is not aware of the consequences of his action… -
onemore:
I would be seriously worried for the boy if it had NEVER occured to the boy that something was not right (by having sex with his teacher or anyone for that matter).Sometimes as parents, we can guide and coach till we drop, kids just have a mind of their own.
The more parents tighten and force to instill, the more the kids would shut them out, sometimes from the inside...
For kids of this age in a top school, parents could certainly give advice and options and warn them of the consequences of the choice they make.
Why are the parents becoming the focus on this? I just doubt this student is not aware of the consequences of his action…
And yes, as parents, we can preach/nag/scold all we want but still nothing went into the brain of the children.
I believe the key could be how parents bond with their children when the children are still young (e.g. Preschoolers). If the bond is strong, the children would probably have a good grasp of moral issues, have a healthy self esteem and be mindful of how they conduct themselves. They would be aware that there is a certain expectation of them (be it socially, physically, morally or academically) from the parents. -
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U all toking abt the new or old case? How many more cases to come? :faint:
When's the appropriate time to start sex education with kids? And how much details to go into? :faint: -
Daddy
U all toking abt the new or old case?
new case.Daddy
dunno. But I honestly dont think this is going to be the last case lor.... I just hope my child/nephews/niece are never going to be part of the future cases...[/quote]How many more cases to come? :faint:
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heard the teacher not good-looking
anyway, both parties have brought shame to their families
how is the teacher’s husband n kids going to face others?
how is the student’s parents and siblings going to face others?
parents will also be more worried about their kids from now onwards -
Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.
Black sheep.... -
PhoBIA:
Er.. Got two cases already. The previous one is on bail now. Her case in in the papers a few days ago. This new one, still haven't charged. Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.
Black sheep....
The one with two kids - just what is wrong with her? She got kids leh. Has it never came across her mind if one day another teacher have sex with her son? :faint: -
Imami:
having the wrong moral values, maybe she is fine with that! :sick:
Er.. Got two cases already. The previous one is on bail now. Her case in in the papers a few days ago. This new one, still haven't charged.PhoBIA:
Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.
Black sheep....
The one with two kids - just what is wrong with her? She got kids leh. Has it never came across her mind if one day another teacher have sex with her son? :faint:
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