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    • O Offline
      onemore
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      Sometimes as parents, we can guide and coach till we drop, kids just have a mind of their own.


      The more parents tighten and force to instill, the more the kids would shut them out, sometimes from the inside…

      For kids of this age in a top school, parents could certainly give advice and options and warn them of the consequences of the choice they make.

      Why are the parents becoming the focus on this? I just doubt this student is not aware of the consequences of his action…

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        Imami
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        onemore:
        Sometimes as parents, we can guide and coach till we drop, kids just have a mind of their own.


        The more parents tighten and force to instill, the more the kids would shut them out, sometimes from the inside...

        For kids of this age in a top school, parents could certainly give advice and options and warn them of the consequences of the choice they make.

        Why are the parents becoming the focus on this? I just doubt this student is not aware of the consequences of his action…
        I would be seriously worried for the boy if it had NEVER occured to the boy that something was not right (by having sex with his teacher or anyone for that matter).

        And yes, as parents, we can preach/nag/scold all we want but still nothing went into the brain of the children.

        I believe the key could be how parents bond with their children when the children are still young (e.g. Preschoolers). If the bond is strong, the children would probably have a good grasp of moral issues, have a healthy self esteem and be mindful of how they conduct themselves. They would be aware that there is a certain expectation of them (be it socially, physically, morally or academically) from the parents.

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          ChiefKiasu
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          Moderator's Note:


          Gentle reminder to all. We need to post responsibly. As the names of the people involved in the case are under embargo by the courts to protect the boy, everything posted in cyberspace is mere speculation. By posting names and pictures apparently related to the people involved, we could be doing great injustice to the parties on trial, or to innocent parties who are wrongly associated with the case.

          Please refrain from posting any names or pictures of people if it is based on speculation.

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            Daddy D
            last edited by

            U all toking abt the new or old case? How many more cases to come? :faint:

            When's the appropriate time to start sex education with kids? And how much details to go into? :faint:

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              Imami
              last edited by

              Daddy 😧
              U all toking abt the new or old case?

              new case.
              Daddy 😧
              How many more cases to come? :faint:
              dunno. But I honestly dont think this is going to be the last case lor.... I just hope my child/nephews/niece are never going to be part of the future cases...[/quote]

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                Zhuge
                last edited by

                heard the teacher not good-looking


                anyway, both parties have brought shame to their families
                how is the teacher’s husband n kids going to face others?
                how is the student’s parents and siblings going to face others?

                parents will also be more worried about their kids from now onwards

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                  PhoBIA
                  last edited by

                  😢 Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.

                  Black sheep....

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                    Imami
                    last edited by

                    PhoBIA:
                    😢 Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.

                    Black sheep....
                    Er.. Got two cases already. The previous one is on bail now. Her case in in the papers a few days ago. This new one, still haven't charged.

                    The one with two kids - just what is wrong with her? She got kids leh. Has it never came across her mind if one day another teacher have sex with her son? :faint:

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                      onemore
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                      Imami:
                      PhoBIA:

                      😢 Wrong moral values. So sad that a teacher is doing that.

                      Black sheep....

                      Er.. Got two cases already. The previous one is on bail now. Her case in in the papers a few days ago. This new one, still haven't charged.

                      The one with two kids - just what is wrong with her? She got kids leh. Has it never came across her mind if one day another teacher have sex with her son? :faint:

                      having the wrong moral values, maybe she is fine with that! :sick:

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                        Way2GO
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                        tuition_czar:
                        Zhuge:

                        heard the teacher not good-looking

                        What exactly is the relevance of this???

                        So things change when she is good looking?

                        I don't know wat Zhuge is thinking.
                        But my take is boys' bragging rights, moral n ethics notwindstanding.

                        source : http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/this_urban_jungle/487670/too_hot_to_teach_china_teacher_causes_stir.html
                        http://i50.tinypic.com/2cgzl0w.jpg\">
                        An award winning teacher in PRC.
                        Wld u pull ur kid out of her class?

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