KS Parents' Love Story

[dolphinsiah]

Morning MyChildren ,


Scanning through what you have posted so far about your sweet memories...
I can't help to picture you as very blessed and charming lady .... :please:

who is always surrounded by admirers and suitors.... :love:

So your love life is full of vibrant...which I guess you choose to share.... :hi5:

To me happy thoughts are meant to be share.... :rahrah:

My love life ...very boring....there is no Shinning Armour or Knight to rescue me ... :imdrowning:

How I wish to turn the back clock... I love the 80s ....at that time was my prime time as a woman.... :imcool:

But nobody guided me ,how to enjoy my youth and choosing the right partner..

When Studying in Poly , I had to work during School Holidays , even like major holidays to earn for my daily expenses.... :moneyflies: :skeptical:

So where got time to date.... :razz:

[dolphinsiah]

Looking back at my love life...

During Primary School .... :imanangel:
I recall there were 2 boys passing me notes to express their admiration for me...walking me to the bus stop....
But me no feelings...like sotong...
My interest at that time are Enid bylton books , to be always top in class...
I guess they admired me not because I was lovely, is because I excel in my studies....

During Secondary School :rahrah:
Had Girlfriends who will share their secrets ...their puppy loves...
This was the time I started to take an interest charming guys.....
I will always remembered my puppy love after my O levels....
This puppy love did not last as I entered Poly...we went to different school...after O Levels...

Cross path with my Puppy Love 2 times ....he is still so charming..

During Poly :imcool:
Experienced what is heartbreak.....
Was paired up with a senior guy -I was thinking that peers have bf ...so I also must have too...
But this Senior broke my heart, he told me he still wanted to look , look around.....
After this heartbreak, was pair up with a young working guy ....
I was impressed with this guy , tanned and sporty...
He would buy me gifts....as he is earning...
But mom wa not impressed by him.....she feels that I should keep my option open....

Which I did....so we broke...

While studying in the library , a senior guy came to me , told me that he has car...I gave him a stare...in my mind I was thinking ...so what you have a car... :siao: :siao:

How I met my late spouse....? to be continue...

[dolphinsiah]

I remembered during Poly...

I have girlfriends who already know what sort of guys they wanted to marry....
They expect their future hubby to be earning at least 3K...possess car....that was 20 years ago...

So they advise me must date guys who are working....
school boys no money.... :sad: :sad:

So I tried the tanned and sporty guy...when was 19 year old... :evil:

But in my mind , I was hoping to find a guy that will love me....never mind about his pay.....(think back very naive...)

Now most of my girlfriends are happily married...they are rich tai tai, Docs wife..expect me alone....(really a failure)

[Lilac66]

dolphinsiah:

I remembered during Poly...

I have girlfriends who already know what sort of guys they wanted to marry....
They expect their future hubby to be earning at least 3K...possess car....that was 20 years ago...

So they advise me must date guys who are working....
school boys no money.... :sad: :sad:

So I tried the tanned and sporty guy...when was 19 year old... :evil:

But in my mind , I was hoping to find a guy that will love me....never mind about his pay.....(think back very naive...)

Now most of my girlfriends are happily married...they are rich tai tai, Docs wife..expect me alone....(really a failure)

:hugs: Don't say you're a failure. I admire you for your filial piety and dedication to your mum even if she's unreasonable.(read it in another thread). I :salute:

Also the quotes in your thread are inspiring to me... Let that be a source of encouragement to you too.

[Mychildren]

dolphinsiah,


U've surprised me by so willing to share. Really thanks for sharing!

I'm not surrounded by admirers and suitors.
Those like me, I don't like them.
Those I like, don't take action or action too late .
So my DH, I take action by asking him why u don't ask me out. Kekeke :evil:

[Mychildren]

Lilac66:

dolphinsiah:

I remembered during Poly...

I have girlfriends who already know what sort of guys they wanted to marry....
They expect their future hubby to be earning at least 3K...possess car....that was 20 years ago...

So they advise me must date guys who are working....
school boys no money.... :sad: :sad:

So I tried the tanned and sporty guy...when was 19 year old... :evil:

But in my mind , I was hoping to find a guy that will love me....never mind about his pay.....(think back very naive...)

Now most of my girlfriends are happily married...they are rich tai tai, Docs wife..expect me alone....(really a failure)

:hugs: Don't say you're a failure. I admire you for your filial piety and dedication to your mum even if she's unreasonable.. I :salute:

Also the quotes in your thread are inspiring to me... Let that be a source of encouragement to you too.

Same thinking in blue. But I also must love him.

[fightingmom]

Mychildren:

dolphinsiah,


U've surprised me by so willing to share. Really thanks for sharing!

I'm not surrounded by admirers and suitors.
Those like me, I don't like them.
Those I like, don't take action or action too late .
So my DH, I take action by asking him why u don't ask me out. Kekeke :evil:

:rahrah: this is a true case of 幸福是要自己去争取的！ :rahrah:

Mychildren :salute:

[Mychildren]

dolphinsiah,


I not so good girl like u. My mom don’t like my DH, first impression already failed. But I insist & mom don’t talk to me for almost a week. I still persist so in the end he is my husband. I’m not rich tai tai, with no maid or car or condo but I’m happy cause he dotes & loves me & we live simply.

[Lilac66]

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

[dolphinsiah]

How I met my late spouse....


He came to my house to help my tanned and sporty bf to deliver Chinese New YEar Gifts.... :skeptical:
He was my tanned and sporty bf colleague
Tanned and Sporty BF was trying to impress my with CNY gifts.... :evil:

But we broke after CNY.... :gloomy:

One day out of the blue I received a call from a guy(my late spouse)....
He explain to me that my tanned and sporty BF is heartbroken ...he hope to help us to patch back..... :scratchhead:

I replied impossible, as our character did not match.... :roll:

Late Spouse insisted I should meet him so he can full understand the whole picture...

Being a naive 20 year old, I believed him....and I went to meet him....
I did not know he was trapping me...

Looking back, late spouse was very cunning, once he hitched me...
He blocked all my options to interact with other guys... :scared:

When I entered the working industry , as a young woman , I have guys buying lunch for me everyday... :rahrah:

I was curious , about these free lunch...but was told that this is a norm to welcome new colleague.... :please:

Late Spouse was also very hardworking.....always calling giving sweet talk...

That year , dramas were happening at home between my emotional mom and irresponsible dad.....
So everyday , I wanted to get out of the house....

So of course late spouse, was always there.....to lend me his shoulder....

Because Mom was caught up in her drama actions..she did no have the time to stop me going out with late spouse....

So touched by late spouse caring....I ignored all other suitors...

I was only 21 then.....

The moral of my story is do not marry for the sake of marrying.....
If not because of my parents nagging and dramas at home...
I would not just grab any man ..to escape my misery....