Need an advice on office relationship matters

[Joule]

eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la…where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat…

[mamago]

KSP:

valvestate:

yeah... thanks, still trying to control myself. It's another 2 hours before lunch time. We'll see how ah....

sms your wife now and make lunch appt her today and next 2 weeks.....

if u still go lunch with the prc today then u are a GONER!!!!

ya.... and follow with movie tonight... before you head home today, shop for some love gifts for your wifey...

(精神上你已经出轨了 :nailbite: )

[mamago]

Joule:

mamago:

星星之火 可以燎原.


请三思....

translation: a small spark can lead to a blazing conflagration

please think thrice!

A well done one.... can't do it better....

[mamago]

Joule:

eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la...where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat....

So, your character, did not do it, after all?! (after hearing Valvestate's confession?)

[corneyAmber]

mamago:

Joule:

eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la...where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat....

So, your character, did not do it, after all?! (after hearing Valvestate's confession?)

I think he did.

[fightingmom]

ksi:

mamago:

[quote=\"Joule\"]eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la...where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat....

So, your character, did not do it, after all?! (after hearing Valvestate's confession?)

I think he did.[/quote]Seems like we all read this little novel before we :snooze: last nite... Kekeke

[snowball]

Joule:

by the way, I'm writing a fiction of a man something like you. see the forum.

I am interested to read more in the above forum Joule has mentioned, but i dont know how to access , go \"forum\" than go which thread?

[mamago]

ksi:

mamago:

[quote=\"Joule\"]eh hello I cannot reveal too much la you keep reading la...where did I put got PRC? hahaha


maybe I will do another installment tonight and tomorrow.

anyway you all roughly know how the story will turn out whaat....

So, your character, did not do it, after all?! (after hearing Valvestate's confession?)

I think he did.[/quote]
Oh :scared: ....?! Joule! You are doing the fiction for some sort of a closure? *sigh* *sigh* *sigh*

[corneyAmber]

snowball:

Joule:

by the way, I'm writing a fiction of a man something like you. see the forum.

I am interested to read more in the above forum Joule has mentioned, but i dont know how to access , go \"forum\" than go which thread?

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=40820

[valvestate]

Joule:

friendly and professional is ok. but you know you're getting on the wrong highway when you're flirting

ok ok from this it seems like it is infatuation or a crush... it's a teenage thing. unusual to have it in 30s but hey it still happens

some behavior modification would be needed. does she outright come to ask you for lunch?

Honestly, at times... I can't help it. I know how to speak to women. I just know what tickles them and make them feel comfortable... I had some issues before with me dating multiple women when I was still in college. Some are serious... some were just flings.. I stopped when I got married and had a kid... that was 8 years ago. Until now...

yeah... I hope this is just the case. As much as I easily fall for a woman, I can get easily get turned off as well on even minute things. I hope this will pass by.... but the feeling's so strong now.

yeah, she will just come over my desk and say \"You wanna go out lunch with me?\" or she drops me an IM to schedule it in advance.

Joule:

[quote]then it would be time to take evasive maneuvers....or find safety in numbers...or mention more of your wife and kid around her. Show her pictures. If she's 'not safe', you should be able to find a little facial twitch or slightest hint of a frown....

[/quote]She was not actually asking much in my family. Though she's a bit fond with the pictures of my kid on my monitor. I find it awkward that I will talk about my wife since we're not going to that topic... or maybe I'm just avoiding it to not spoil the conversation... :oops:

Is she just going out with me since I'm the manager and she doesn't want to get a negative impression while she's still new here? I'm still not finding any faults with her work yet so she's still fine.

Btw, thank you very much for responding with my post man. It really helps me a lot to assess this and release the tension.