Need an advice on office relationship matters

[snowball]

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

[valvestate]

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

[snowball]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

1)\"this will be the last time\" means, last time to lunch with her alone?
2) \" it's a good sign\" what make u think so ?

in my opinion, it is clear sign that you MUST avoid to be with her alone , if you have to, get your colleague to join.... :siam:

[Sun_2010]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Oh Oh, you are now clutching at the straws . Once the mind starts giving excuses it is time to take some stern action. Otherwise it is a matter of time before things spiral out of control.

Not many get to choose our pains in life. If you dont act now, you are choosing immense pain for not only yourself but for all parties involved.

A man's ego doesnt help, i suppose. Just remind your self, the strength needed to overcome this attraction is far more than the physical strength a man is so proud of.

So take charge. Tomorrow, if needed make it no lunch, or lunch at desk, a stomach upset, whatever, but NO lunch with the lady pls :nunchuk:

you remind me of a journal , written so long ago, sigh, must dig it up and read it ...

[3Boys]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Brudder....Run For The Door!

She knows you are married with a kid and yet she skirts the sly side of flirtation with you....what does that say about her mentality? Yeah she talks about your wife. All that says is that she knows you are married and doesn't give two hoots.

Don't cave in to the home wrecker...SERIOUSLY...that is the end game, a WRECKED home.

If you really find yourself on the cusp of temptation, then, go back tonight and tell your wife immediately about this PRC lady flirting with you in the office. When she has finished pounding you into the ground, you can take her hand and profess everlasting love, and you will be innoculated from any further straying thoughts.

[Joule]

mamago:

Joule, please help translate....

悬崖勒马， 回头是岸

it means

悬崖勒马
your 'horse' is rushing towards a cliff

回头是岸
do a u-turn now! it is safer behind you at the shore

basically

beware the cliff, repent and be saved

[straffan23]

This is so funny! Well, I suppose if someone knows something might go wrong is actually a great big step to solving the problem?


I joke (share) with my husband all the time - who and who asked for my phone number, asked me out for a movie :evil: it usually end up in the similar fashion - \"Got extra tickets for my children?\" \"Don't think hubby will find it amusing if I go on a date!\" :rotflmao:

I agree. Flattery and having our ego polished feels damn good. But just laugh about it (with your wife, hopefully!) and move on. There are too many \"what if\", but the fact is that we are married, with loyalty and trust being the foundation of every marriage. In good times and bad. :imanangel:

:nunchuk: Think of it this way - temptation happens on both men and women. How would you like your wife to react to temptation, is how you should react to it now :evil:

[fightingmom]

Sun_2010:

valvestate:

[quote=\"snowball\"]:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Oh Oh, you are now clutching at the straws . Once the mind starts giving excuses it is time to take some stern action. Otherwise it is a matter of time before things spiral out of control.

Not many get to choose our pains in life. If you dont act now, you are choosing immense pain for not only yourself but for all parties involved.

A man's ego doesnt help, i suppose. Just remind your self, the strength needed to overcome this attraction is far more than the physical strength a man is so proud of.

So take charge. Tomorrow, if needed make it no lunch, or lunch at desk, a stomach upset, whatever, but NO lunch with the lady pls :nunchuk:

you remind me of a journal , written so long ago, sigh, must dig it up and read it ...[/quote]Now, where is the *like* button..

[mamago]

valvestate:

snowball:

:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

No... That's bad sign... This is so called 以退为進... She wants you to think that she is not interested to further with you (nor wanting to harm your family) ... so that you will let your guards down... 请鼙入瓮! She wants you to step into her trap...

[LOLMum]

well, seems like she has you firmly in her net.


she might not necessarily want you as her hubby, so whatever trouble she might have caused to your marriage doeasnt matter to her.

but you are definitely a good stepping stone for her career. i wont be surprised if she take over your post eventually.

no matter how bossy a wife is, she doesnt have any ill intention towards you.

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