Need an advice on office relationship matters

[valvestate]

buds:

valvestate:

[quote=\"snowball\"]:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:

:sad: :oops:

this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?

Valvestate... you're making my heart palpitate.

You see. Buds_hubs is lunching out too.

Similarly, those slim.. long legged.. fair maidens.. who are smooth talking.. with oh so sweet gentle demeanour.. submissive and dainty little creatures that makes men feel they really need taking care of.. are quite the types he likes too.

Makes me think back.. that perhaps, I'm too aggressive.. too bossy (always wants the final say).. too sarcastic (that sh!t happens when I'm blardy flared up but most times regret it cos it definitely comes out the wrong way : not as intended).. or abit too catty as well?

These PRCs come here with nothing to lose and go all out to win. The ball is in their court and they know two can play the game.. as long as they detect you are game. Frankly, my thoughts are as follows.. not tt I'm coming down hard on u or anything yah.[/quote]wow. it's like you read my mind with all your posted items... :udawoman: thank you very much, buds. Right, I guess I'm not trying hard at the moment. I'm a fool when it comes to these matters. help me, Lord!!

WHY IS IT that these PRCs are so dang hot and attractive..?! WHY!!! The government should only allow fugly women here you know. :rant:

btw, do you really wear Catsuit? Do they have Large size for that? I'll let my wifey get in to that costume. I always wanted a bunny or a maid dress for her...

[LOLMum]

KSP:

LOLMum:

家花那里有野花香。但野花有刺，你爱吗？

well, for some 有刺，才刺激吗！！！

不要！ 不值得！搞不好会死人！ :dowan:

天下没有免费的午餐。这也不是天掉下来的好礼物。

[buds]

3Boys:

buds:

We have a dedicated thread on this.


SG men are so easy to cheat.
Lemme dig it out.

Aiyah, men are very simple creatures lah, really! Want to hang on to your man veli veli simple.........

Yah veli simple for you Vellu. Your wifey's a bombshell! :drool:

Envy.. :please:

[verykiasumummy]

to all guys here…


PRCs seem to be nice and attractive because they cant be bothered with what and how you are… on the other hand, ur wife at home cares for u and will make sure u eat or drink healthily, cares for you and your parents and kids…

while the one outside seem so stunning because they dun hv kids and double parents to worry for, wife at home need to do housework, shoo kids, take care of parents and in law…

u see the difference now?

[valvestate]

btw, this topic already generated 15,000 ++ views and also garnered a handful of very matured responses! Are there really a lot of mums in Singapore not doing anything now? :evil:

[Sun_2010]

buds:

3Boys:

[quote=\"buds\"]We have a dedicated thread on this.


SG men are so easy to cheat.
Lemme dig it out.

Aiyah, men are very simple creatures lah, really! Want to hang on to your man veli veli simple.........

Yah veli simple for you Vellu. Your wifey's a bombshell! :drool:

Envy.. :please:[/quote]Thatz it!!
I just have to morph into a bombshell??
You dont mean the one found in geylang ? ( i mean the world war2 bomb la, what were you thinking?)

Ok - here i go - botox, liposuction, B enhancement, a nose job and a nip here and a tuck there, and I will be ready for my man , hehe

But waaait after all that he should be the one hanging on to me

[3Boys]

verykiasumummy:

to all guys here...


PRCs seem to be nice and attractive because they cant be bothered with what and how you are... on the other hand, ur wife at home cares for u and will make sure u eat or drink healthily, cares for you and your parents and kids...

while the one outside seem so stunning because they dun hv kids and double parents to worry for, wife at home need to do housework, shoo kids, take care of parents and in law...

u see the difference now?

I always say the DW needs to put herself first, then husband above all else in the house. Coddle the DH, then the kids, then the parents, then the housework.

Same for the hubby.

House a bit messy, parents complain, no big deal.

Husband and wife relationship breaks down, all of the above will fall apart anyway.

My DW and I take great pains to observe this. Too bad if the kids don't get first class treatment, business class very good already. First class with Dom Perignon is for the wife.

[wearefamily]

3Boys, your DW is a very lucky lady

[buds]

Cheers 3boys! :celebrate:

[BeContented]

valvestate:

btw, this topic already generated 15,000 ++ views and also garnered a handful of very matured responses! Are there really a lot of mums in Singapore not doing anything now? :evil:

A lot of concerned members who do not wish to see another family being ruined.

I'm getting a little concerned that you seemed more worried about the PRC being a nice woman and you do not want to 'shoo her away just like this' .... and hardly about the hurt you will bring to your family if you do not stop it.

Like what Buds wrote, if you really care enough for your family, you need to try harder.